lightskinned
lightskin prince otw to true jaden
- Joined
- Mar 19, 2026
- Posts
- 51
- Reputation
- 59
Volcel disclaimer: I'm the opposite of an incel. Whenever I'm single it's completely by choice. But i've lost my virginity.
I've been talking to this girl for about two weeks now. We've hung out twice and I'm planning to bring her back to my place next time to hook up. She's genuinely high SMV, fine as fuck, and I can tell she fucks with me heavy. Still can't tell if she's a low bodycount girl or a closet hoe.
We hung out yesterday, everything was smooth. Then today on text she mentioned going out with her best friend. Later I asked for updates on her night and she turned super avoidant. Eventually she spilled that her fat fucking foid friend that I hate dragged her to a hangout with three older guys. I replied asking if it was a two-man and she hit me with "no nothing like that, my friend was chill w them but I'm not. I was taking the piss out of them the whole time" I got visibly pissed, told her I was going to sleep. I was genuinely fucking pissed for the next hour. I'm tired of foids having this much power over my mood.
Now I'm thinking:
1) Should I just talk to other girls so one doesn't affect me this hard?
2) Do I go toxic and start mirroring the same behavior back at her?
3) Or should I distance myself a bit? (Don't really want to, she's too attractive and I'm trying to fuck.)
Also debating if I should just ask her body count directly. Is that weird or necessary to gauge if she's secretly freaky? The whole situation feels messy. Am I overreacting or is this classic hypergamy behavior? Drop your honest takes, especially if you've dealt with similar situations while trying to close. What's the optimal strategy here? I'm really not trying to be a cuck
I've been talking to this girl for about two weeks now. We've hung out twice and I'm planning to bring her back to my place next time to hook up. She's genuinely high SMV, fine as fuck, and I can tell she fucks with me heavy. Still can't tell if she's a low bodycount girl or a closet hoe.
We hung out yesterday, everything was smooth. Then today on text she mentioned going out with her best friend. Later I asked for updates on her night and she turned super avoidant. Eventually she spilled that her fat fucking foid friend that I hate dragged her to a hangout with three older guys. I replied asking if it was a two-man and she hit me with "no nothing like that, my friend was chill w them but I'm not. I was taking the piss out of them the whole time" I got visibly pissed, told her I was going to sleep. I was genuinely fucking pissed for the next hour. I'm tired of foids having this much power over my mood.
Now I'm thinking:
1) Should I just talk to other girls so one doesn't affect me this hard?
2) Do I go toxic and start mirroring the same behavior back at her?
3) Or should I distance myself a bit? (Don't really want to, she's too attractive and I'm trying to fuck.)
Also debating if I should just ask her body count directly. Is that weird or necessary to gauge if she's secretly freaky? The whole situation feels messy. Am I overreacting or is this classic hypergamy behavior? Drop your honest takes, especially if you've dealt with similar situations while trying to close. What's the optimal strategy here? I'm really not trying to be a cuck
