Jason Voorhees
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Life after college really sucks balls tbh. I know you nighas might hate your time in college. I did too but once you step into the real world. No body fucking cares about you. There's no order no structure no rules. It feels liberating for a few months. Sleeping in, no deadlines, doing whatever you want. Freedom tastes sweet for like the first 3-6 months.
but becomes dreadful after that.
No professors to mentor you, no advisors to talk to, no built-in social circle. Motivation just disappears when there's no external pressure. Also if you graduate college single, there's a solid chance you stay single for a long ass time. I was quite lucky to have found my partner in uni but lots of guys aren't.
The dating pool shrinks dramatically, you don't have a chance to meet young people your age. How are you going to meet them? Like some lame ass bars, clubs or would date your 40 year old co workers. One way I've found a way to cope about this is keeping the exact same routine that I did in college. I still wake up at 5:30 in the morning. Go on a run or gym at 6, have breakfast and instead of going to classes or doing assignments do my work and try to maintain structure. I also regularly stay in touch with my friends from college. We have a WhatsApp group that we talk on everyday. I also plan to become a regular at church Sunday service and join the church youth.
but becomes dreadful after that.
No professors to mentor you, no advisors to talk to, no built-in social circle. Motivation just disappears when there's no external pressure. Also if you graduate college single, there's a solid chance you stay single for a long ass time. I was quite lucky to have found my partner in uni but lots of guys aren't.
The dating pool shrinks dramatically, you don't have a chance to meet young people your age. How are you going to meet them? Like some lame ass bars, clubs or would date your 40 year old co workers. One way I've found a way to cope about this is keeping the exact same routine that I did in college. I still wake up at 5:30 in the morning. Go on a run or gym at 6, have breakfast and instead of going to classes or doing assignments do my work and try to maintain structure. I also regularly stay in touch with my friends from college. We have a WhatsApp group that we talk on everyday. I also plan to become a regular at church Sunday service and join the church youth.
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