Life after university/college over? (oldcels GTFIH)

[banku don]

I saw multiple posts over here saying it's over after university/college cause you have no friends, no access to girls, no fun, and all you do is wageslave till 60

But is it really?

In a matter of 9-10months, I'll be starting my uni life and wanting to get the best out of it cause my HS was dry af

oldcels who have graduated uni give your experience

 

[Nexom]

In my experience it will just depend on how your life foundation already is. If you have nobody to begin with then yeah it will be over
So just make the best out of it

 

[Acquiescence]

But is it really?

Yes:

all you do is wageslave till 60

 

[Jason Voorhees]

It definitely gets much harder to meet new people now. But I have had contacts with most of my friends from college.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Also I suggest getting into a social circle ASAP even before you even enter uni. Like meet people online. Reach out to as many people as possible in freshers induction programme. Get into a group that has girls involved and join clubs and be involved or you'll turn out to be a lone wolf like me. It gets much harder to make friends and break into social circles after the fresher year. Things still worked it in the end when I started going out and started talking to people but it could have been much better

 

[LXR]

What sort of people you associate with in uni determines what sort of network you can leverage later in life. So in a sense, it is your last chance to secure a good support system both professionally and personally

 

[banku don]

In my experience it will just depend on how your life foundation already is. If you have nobody to begin with then yeah it will be over
So just make the best out of it

So you mean if I get to know a lot of people, a good social circle, and good quality close friends in university, then I'll have the same later in life, is that what you mean?

 

[banku don]

It definitely gets much harder to meet new people now. But I have had contacts with most of my friends from college.

By contact, do you mean just the regular online texting or actually hanging out once in a while?

Also I suggest getting into a social circle ASAP even before you even enter uni. Like meet people online.

Currently, I can't cause I got my exams lined up, and I have completed like 10% of the syllabus , so I gotta focus on academics for a few months, but after that, imma get around 2-3 months before uni starts, so I'm planning to do cold approaches and meet girls from Instagram to be NT and gain confidence with girls

Reach out to as many people as possible in freshers induction programme. Get into a group that has girls involved and join clubs and be involved or you'll turn out to be a lone wolf like me. It gets much harder to make friends and break into social circles after the fresher year. Things still worked it in the end when I started going out and started talking to people but it could have been much better

wtf is a freshers' induction programme?
I'll join as many clubs in uni as possible. I was planning on learning how to play football cause I heard guys who are athletic in college slay the most

btw, I really appreciate the comment