Life becomes easy and simple when you understand that you don’t have to prove anything to anyone

[The Grinch]

There will be people that will dislike you and people that like you. And in both cases it’s something you can’t control. Someone who likes you, likes you from first sight / first conversation. Look at your friends, you didn’t have to convince them to like you, you just met randomly at school, work or wherever and the vibe was there, you knew you were meant for each other (not in a sexual way of course), same goes for the people that dislike you, they just don’t like you. They maybe don’t like the way your face looks like or your nose shape or they don’t like your voice or whatever. You could try to be nice to them and they will still dislike you, it’s something that‘s out of your control.

This goes for everything, even for dating. When you approach a woman, she might likes you or she doesn’t. If she likes the way you are as a person (the way god made you), she will be open about you and feel attracted to you, you won’t have to play mind games or whatever in order to convince her to date you, she will want it naturally, but if she doesn’t like you naturally, there’s nothing you can do to change her mind.

You have to live according to this rule, don’t chase people, because what’s meant for you will come to you and what’s not meant for you will run away from you.

 

[xlimz]

I had to use AI to summarize this essay

 

[Random_Person561]

dnr. but i agree. life is a lot easier that way

 

[The Grinch]

I had to use AI to summarize this essay

It’s long to read, but it is something that everyone should know

 

[recessedtexan]

Some people are disliked more than others for absolutely no reason. I mean there is a reason but it's socially inacceptable to say. Now try telling those people they have no right to feel bitter about it

 

[SilverStCloud]

Casting pearls to the swine type thread. The average person, let alone the average .org user, will most of the time realize when it's too late that trying to make everyone like and admire you will only make the most popular dead man in town.

 

[The Grinch]

Some people are disliked more than others for absolutely no reason. I mean there is a reason but it's socially inacceptable to say. Now try telling those people they have no right to feel bitter about it

They do have that right, what i‘m saying is they shouldn‘t chase anyone, because you can’t force attraction, it either comes naturally without forcing it or it doesn’t come at all. By chasing someone you will repulse them even more if you are not even their type, you can’t change a womans mind if she rejected you and you should not waste your time trying to do so

 

[chadhamed]

Keep livin in a fairytale

 

[The Grinch]

Keep livin in a fairytale

You must be special needs tbh

 

[recessedtexan]

They do have that right, what i‘m saying is they shouldn‘t chase anyone, because you can’t force attraction, it either comes naturally without forcing it or it doesn’t come at all. By chasing someone you will repulse them even more if you are not even their type, you can’t change a womans mind if she rejected you and you should not waste your time trying to do so

I agree with you on this, but I don't think life becomes any easier when you're tormented by the realization of such a harsh truth. You'll often see people completely lack self awareness and act exactly like you're saying not to, they have no dignity but are much happier

 

[The Grinch]

I agree with you on this, but I don't think life becomes any easier when you're tormented by the realization of such a harsh truth. You'll often see people completely lack self awareness and act exactly like you're saying not to, they have no dignity but are much happier

Being realistic can make life appear less happy, but you save yourself from a lot of disappointment and humiliation when you don’t chase dreams and illusions and instead just see things exactly as they are without trying to sugarcoat things

 

[recessedtexan]

Being realistic can make life appear less happy, but you save yourself from a lot of disappointment and humiliation when you don’t chase dreams and illusions and instead just see things exactly as they are without trying to sugarcoat things

Agreed. I'd rather have self dignity than happiness

 

[The Grinch]

Agreed. I'd rather have self dignity than happiness

The happiness of a bluepilled cuck is not real happiness, it’s just gaslighting themselves into thinking positive even though there is no reason to think positive in that situation and the illusion always ends in a heartbreak and sometimes suicide and if they don’t commit suicide, they end up with a cuckold fetish which is also a cope-mechanism in order to avoid suicide