Life is harder for adolescents who are not attractive or athletic.

[Deleted member 33275]

Life is harder for adolescents who are not attractive or athletic. New research shows low attractive and low athletic youth became increasingly unpopular over the course of a school year, leading to subsequent increases in their loneliness and alcohol misuse.​

The Perils of Not Being Attractive or Athletic: Pathways to Adolescent Adjustment Difficulties Through Escalating Unpopularity - Journal of Youth and Adolescence

Adolescents who lack traits valued by peers are at risk for adjustment difficulties but the mechanisms responsible for deteriorating well-being have yet to be identified. The present study examines processes whereby low athleticism and low attractiveness give rise to adolescent adjustment...

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modern scientists just can't stop delivering

 

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[Deleted member 33275]

was wondering how much scrolling it would take to find "introversion" in the related reddit thread

 

[Pendejo]

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was wondering how much scrolling it would take to find "introversion" in the related reddit thread

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[Deleted member 33275]

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the article was posted here

wanted to spare looksmax users from reddit comments, lmao. a lot of mental gymnastics there, as expected

 

[Pendejo]

the article was posted here

wanted to spare looksmax users from reddit comments, lmao. a lot of mental gymnastics there, as expected

No I mean I already figured that out, but like you think introversion, being avoidant, etc is not a legit impediment for having a social circle even if you meet all other criteria?

 

[Deleted member 4362]

I didn’t think athletics would be a criteria lol, I guess people respect the jumpshot

 

[Deleted member 31457]

I didn’t think athletics would be a criteria lol, I guess people respect the jumpshot

Being athletic is synonymous with being good looking

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Being athletic is synonymous with being good looking

Why would they differentiate them then clearly they found unnatractive people that were good at sports did not get the same treatment as the other uggos

 

[Deleted member 31457]

Why would they differentiate them then clearly they found unnatractive people that were good at sports did not get the same treatment as the other uggos

People who do studies are fucking retards you do realise. These guys are extremely close-minded and severely autistic

 

[Gus17]

Why would they differentiate them then clearly they found unnatractive people that were good at sports did not get the same treatment as the other uggos

You gain respect from being good at sports plus a social circle. People also respect those with an athletic body.

 

[Deleted member 4362]

People who do studies are fucking retards you do realise. These guys are extremely close-minded and severely autistic

It sounds like you’re a crab in a bucket

 

[Deleted member 31457]

It sounds like you’re a crab in a bucket

How so

 

[Deleted member 31457]

@JudgeandJury you want some?

 

[Deleted member 33275]

No I mean I already figured that out, but like you think introversion, being avoidant, etc is not a legit impediment for having a social circle even if you meet all other criteria?

where do you think introversion and avoidant tendencies come from

Blaming those factors for having a shitty social and love life in youth is pretty much the same thing as telling yourself your performance in school is shit because of your self-diagnosed adhd

Vague, overused terms that mostly just serve as convenient rationalizations

 

[Deleted member 21628]

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boohooo keep crying bitch



and honestly its mostly about attractivneess

but it also loses its point if youre not confident/low inhib etc..

 

[Pendejo]

where do you think introversion and avoidant tendencies come from

Blaming those factors for having a shitty social and love life in youth is pretty much the same thing as telling yourself your performance in school is shit because of your self-diagnosed adhd

Upbringing, this could mean being ostracized by your peers due to bad looks early in life, but also could be due to your familiar situation and a bunch of other possible reasons

But even in the scenario where it’s entirely due to looks, you are acting as if someone appearance is stationary, as if glow ups weren’t a thing, when the truth is that some people become significantly better looking later on and then find themselves with social skills which aren’t up to par with their looks level.

 

[Deleted member 33275]

Upbringing, this could mean being ostracized by your peers due to bad looks early in life, but also could be due to your familiar situation and a bunch of other possible reasons

But even in the scenario where it’s entirely due to looks, you are acting as if someone appearance is stationary, as if glow ups weren’t a thing, when the truth is that some people become significantly good looking later on and then find themselves with social skills which aren’t up to par with their looks level.

Even if we assume those mental conditions never occur as a result of looking like shit and being treated accordingly, i really dont see introversion as a significant factor when it comes to how easy someone has it

An introverted normal/good looking person will just live a different life compared to an adrenaline junkie with the same looks, not worse or harder. "Introverted" isnt a synonym for miserable.

There is only one reason someone would want to bring it up in this context and imply it's a factor on the same level as looks - coping by telling themselves their social and dating lives are dead because they are "introverted" (with the word being a euphemism for special here)

Regarding your last paragraph, i actually dont see people jumping between the leagues at all. Sure, people can peak at different ages, but i ve never seen a guy who was invisible (or capped at getting a boring ltr with a plain 4-5 girl with enough effort) suddenly start getting hookups or becoming interesting to attractive women. Same goes for the opposite direction; socially and sexually competent people aren't exactly one minor aesthetic regression away from turning into incel loners

Dont forget i m talking about real life here, not the deceptions people are trying to pull off on social networks and online in general (and specially not tales from anonymous internet posters, whether motivated by the agenda of bluepilling/blackpilling or e-stating)

 

[klip11]

Why a pic of a dam?