life is miserable, why try

[Norm Macdonald]

I feel like mold

Real nigga shit

 

[ceceslayer]

In LA

I'm not in LA, and the average looking guy in LA mogs my brains out

depends, whats ur rating

 

[OneCopDayKepRopAway]

everything is difficult

how do you guys manage this

there's people out there working like 12 hour days too

might start coping with some random god soon, even though I did that and was just a miserable temporary christian lmfao

I mean you live once So why not try?

 

[Orka]

I rebuke this negative mindset



Wdym by that

I rot in my bed all day and don't leave my room, and it's snowballing into a worse and worse mindset

3 years ago I lived in poland, had parties every Friday, had a 2 year long talking stage / relationship, and was going to football training at a BIG football club with promising stats for my future

now I have nothing going for me and I'm miserable, literally have 0 positive attributes for my future life

 

[Orka]

depends, whats ur rating

high ltn-low mtn

my looks are only getting worse though, diet is shit, I gave up on my skin and never had the willpower to do anything for my body

 

[Orka]

Do you have any plans for schooling or are you gonna get your own place and work?

I have a part time job I do remotely

I have 0 plans for anything after this job, no skillset either

 

[ceceslayer]

high ltn-low mtn

my looks are only getting worse though, diet is shit, I gave up on my skin and never had the willpower to do anything for my body

u would def slay in la the mfs there r lower

 

[habeebullah]

I don't even know what my inhibition is like, I would say I'm low online? idk

Yeah you seem relatively low inhib online, but literally everyone is because of anonymity.

I'm guessing you're prob more quiet and awkward irl? Pls correct me if I'm wrong

You dont seem neurodivergent tbh and I doubt your personality itself is the issue. You dont seem to be filled with hatred or anything like that. Nor are you someone who's rude or arrogant towards others (atleast judging by what I've seen on this forum)

 

[Orka]

Yeah you seem relatively low inhib online, but literally everyone is because of anonymity.

I'm guessing you're prob more quiet and awkward irl? Pls correct me if I'm wrong

You dont seem neurodivergent tbh and I doubt your personality itself is the issue. You dont seem to be filled with hatred or anything like that. Nor are you someone who's rude or arrogant towards others (atleast judging by what I've seen on this forum)

I'm not rude to anyone here, I try not to start arguments and help others as much as I can

I do have very very negative thoughts that I try to suppress often, it's towards people my age mostly, very specific archetype of people makes me angry and genuinely stressed

I do not know what I'm like irl, the last time I had an irl friend was October 2023.

I only speak to my brother occasionally

 

[habeebullah]

I rot in my bed all day and don't leave my room, and it's snowballing into a worse and worse mindset

3 years ago I lived in poland, had parties every Friday, had a 2 year long talking stage / relationship, and was going to football training at a BIG football club with promising stats for my future

now I have nothing going for me and I'm miserable, literally have 0 positive attributes for my future life

Go to uni bro even if you don't want to. Taking a gap year will cuck you hard

Or atleast community college

 

[savage21]

I have a part time job I do remotely

I have 0 plans for anything after this job, no skillset either

It’s important to remember you are 17. If I was you I’d ask your parents to help put you through university if they are willing to do so. University for you I feel like would be a second chance. There is so much opportunity there and everyone calls it a scam. Take the opportunity.

 

[Orka]

Go to uni bro even if you don't want to. Taking a gap year will cuck you hard

Or atleast community college

I don't think I have any other choice but to keep stalling my life with academics honestly

but good point

 

[Orka]

It’s important to remember you are 17. If I was you I’d ask your parents to help put you through university if they are willing to do so. University for you I feel like would be a second chance. There is so much opportunity there and everyone calls it a scam. Take the opportunity.

Thank you

 

[savage21]

Thank you

No problem man feel free to PM me if you’re going through anything and want to talk. Genuinely praying for your success

 

[habeebullah]

I'm not rude to anyone here, I try not to start arguments and help others as much as I can

I do have very very negative thoughts that I try to suppress often, it's towards people my age mostly, very specific archetype of people makes me angry and genuinely stressed

I do not know what I'm like irl, the last time I had an irl friend was October 2023.

I only speak to my brother occasionally

"I do have very very negative thoughts that I try to suppress often" yeah that's valid and I think everyone goes through, even if only occasionally. I've certainly had those same thoughts.

The fact that you still actively try to suppress them (which cannot be said for a lot of people sadly) is proof that your personality is NOT shit. Btw if you don't mind me asking, what specific archetype of people make you angry?

"I do not know what I'm like irl, the last time I had an irl friend was October 2023. I only speak to my brother occasionally"
That's also so real. I'm pretty much the same except I only talk to my sister. I did have "friends" throughout my teen years but they were all toxic so I cut them off and have had no friends since

 

[Chadmog]

I am chad and life is on easy mode for me

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

there's people out there working like 12 hour days too

There is people working 18 hour days.
There is people at war, suffering of famine and disease, there is people who are old ans fragile waiting to die, so what?

Doesn't change your situation and hardly changes how you perceive it.

Is indeldom why you are depressed bhai?

how much do they cost

are they that good

Probably not good, don't become an addict bhai, you will only make your life worse.
Be extremely carefull, i would only do drugs if im happy and fine with my life, because if i wasn't they would just become my routine escapism and i would get addicted 100%.

u can cope with hobbies + passions

these are what bring the joy into life for me

One is significantly easier than the other

and a girlfriend would get pretty sick of me very quickly considering my lifestyle lol

If she likes you she won't. Im serious. Women have the inherent need to take care of something and nurture, you can become that, she could fix you.

So it’s just complete lack of motivation I’m assuming. Only solution is to just force yourself to be productive and healthy. Like you said, you feel like mold. You want to stop feeling like mold? Then do things. You will feel worse than mold when you have to force yourself to get up and do stuff, but over time you will begin to feel better about yourself. You will accomplish things. Sounds corny af but it’s true. It’s a long-term investment but you have to take the dip.

What he says it's true, and @Orka i completely get it, i can hardly bring maself to do anything that doesn't keep me in that instant dopamine reward loop. But it's possible if i really want to do something i usually can kinda bring myself to do it.

no actually, no amount of trying will make up for my personality

Corny, but never say never.

Man, just psychotherapist and healthmaxx, it's the one thing you can do. Please do it.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

it's been over anyways

are there online vendors? I don't have anyone to speak to irl, so I don't have connections

if you're gonna try heroine we should do it together when we eventually meet up.

 

[Orka]

If she likes you she won't. Im serious. Women have the inherent need to take care of something and nurture, you can become that, she could fix you

I don't believe this, but I might be brainwashed.

Corny, but never say never.

Man, just psychotherapist and healthmaxx, it's the one thing you can do. Please do it.

psychotherapist? that sounds expensive lol

Probably not good, don't become an addict bhai, you will only make your life worse.
Be extremely carefull, i would only do drugs if im happy and fine with my life, because if i wasn't they would just become my routine escapism and i would get addicted 100%.

Thank you for the whole paragraph, love you bro

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

maybe try walking to start.

idk why I'm giving advice since I'm probably in the same or worse situation

just a suggestion

Being in a worse wituation never means you can't give advice.
Retarded ass fallacy.

 

[Orka]

if you're gonna try heroine we should do it together when we eventually meet up.

let's do it soon

my parents might kick me out the house soon

 

[BigBallsLarry]

let's do it soon

my parents might kick me out the house soon

i dont know how you would get to poland but my house is always open to you homie. i have a spare room, 2 actually.

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

psychotherapist? that sounds expensive lol

Better than a drug addiction. If you live in germany for example you can eqsily get one for free.

 

[Orka]

Better than a drug addiction. If you live in germany for example you can eqsily get one for free.

is it like a therapist? I'm pretty sure those are cope, although I wouldn't mine talking to someone face to face

i dont know how you would get to poland but my house is always open to you homie. i have a spare room, 2 actually.

love you bbl, thanks

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

u would def slay in la the mfs there r lower

Wtf does LA matter

Yeah you seem relatively low inhib online, but literally everyone is because of anonymity.

i used to be kinda high forum inhib as a grey. I still am on some rare occasions, but it's kinda rare.

 

[nobodylovesme]

I just try to keep myself busy. There's always something small I can do / learn

 

[Apchun144]

everything is difficult

how do you guys manage this

there's people out there working like 12 hour days too

might start coping with some random god soon, even though I did that and was just a miserable temporary christian lmfao

Take lsd

 

[registerfasterusing]

everything is difficult

how do you guys manage this

there's people out there working like 12 hour days too

might start coping with some random god soon, even though I did that and was just a miserable temporary christian lmfao

Down with the west

 

[autisticntmaxer]

it's been over anyways

are there online vendors? I don't have anyone to speak to irl, so I don't have connections

Orka DO NOT do heroin

 

[Orka]

Orka DO NOT do heroin

why

 

[autisticntmaxer]

why

Cuz after you will feel worse cuz it ruins your dopamine receptors even more then they currently are and you will keep doing it to feel happiness till you overdose and die

 

[e7hic]

everything is difficult

how do you guys manage this

there's people out there working like 12 hour days too

might start coping with some random god soon, even though I did that and was just a miserable temporary christian lmfao

Please don’t take any drugs alcohol ect, life gets better u promise try fix you sleep diet and people you hang around with, it will help a lot and if none of that works try speaking to a psychiatrist about some anti depressants they helped me a lot, remember your not alone and it’s normal to feel this way.

 

[Orka]

Please don’t take any drugs alcohol ect, life gets better u promise try fix you sleep diet and people you hang around with, it will help a lot and if none of that works try speaking to a psychiatrist about some anti depressants they helped me a lot, remember your not alone and it’s normal to feel this way.

Thank you, i'll see.

 

[emomaxx]

I have neither

and it's effort to get either

don’t shoot herion first time, smoke some weed or drop a xan if your that desperate

 

[Hernan]

how do you guys manage this

i dont i'm failing everywhere.

 

[gigacumster3000]

lmao you think "coping with a random god" is gonna fix your problems? fucking newfag logic right there

 

[Rasta_Chillboy]

everything is difficult

how do you guys manage this

there's people out there working like 12 hour days too

might start coping with some random god soon, even though I did that and was just a miserable temporary christian lmfao

Hello bro, I’m sorry you are feeling this way and I’m sorry that you didint find peace in god but I believe in him and so should you brother, me personally I smoke weed when I need a break but you can’t be dependent on it twin