Life isn’t fair

[Deleted member 12688]

Imagine this: Youve been working hard on a project for school, you stayed up all night and used all your creativity and really tried your best for this. You’re sure you’re going to get the best grade.

You get to class, and hand the teacher your project. You’re excited to get a perfect score, and praises from the teacher.

But hold on, she hands you your project back and you see a 82 on your shit. Then you hear the girl who’s the teacher’s favorite say “Omgg i got 100!!” on her shitty project she copy and pasted off the first source she could find.

You’re filled with rage, why the fuck did the teacher give her lazy ass the grade you worked so hard for and deserve?


In our minds we envision what we think is the logical outcome to scenarios, and when what happens isn’t what you envisioned, you’re filled with rage and confusion because your brain doesn’t see it as logical, and doesn’t see why something like that would happen.

Another example would be a bluepilled normie confused as to why his oneitis friendzones him and treats him as if he was disposable while the better looking guy she likes can treat her like shit and still have her glued to him.

Because he’s unaware of the importance of looks, he feels hurt and can’t figure out why he can’t get the same result because in his head it’s a totally even playing field, when in reality it’s not.

Many factors contribute to the outcome of things, whether it be how much a teacher likes a student or how attractive you are obviously, but our brains are unaware of these factors and the seemingly unfair result of things confuses us and hurts us.

Being naïve about things like this can lead to deep insecurity and an inferiority complex, because you will see others around you being treated better and being given “passes” you weren’t given seemingly for no reason, and it will lead you to think something is wrong with you and you’re worse than everyone else.


Thinking life is an even playing field is setting yourself up for pain, anger, confusion and failure.


Look at it this way though,

You might have a friend in class you partner up to do your work with, while someone who knows nobody sits there and works by himself. Or maybe a teacher let things slide when you got caught doing something because they know you and like you.

Hell, maybe you got a girl interested in you that you don’t really care about and ignore, while some other guy sits in bed depressed wondering why she likes you and not him.



In conclusion, stop expecting things to be fair. It will never be that way and you will only make yourself more bitter. Instead, stop focusing on the negatives of unfairness and think of all the times it’s benefitted you.


Thoughts?
@kjsbdfiusdf @looksmaxxer234 @Adriana Lima @Toska @Monk @goat2x @Original @OOGABOOGA @MarstonAlloy

 

[Deleted member 12688]

@changcel @Chadeep @thecel @realklay11 @MyAssStinksLikeShit @Proex @Jamesothy @Latebloomer10 @africancel

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Good thread tbh

 

[Butthurt Dweller]

Life sucks cock and balls and I cannot wait for this shit to be over indeed son, also did not read but I sympathize the sentiment.

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

This is a good way to explain in. Often times these factors outside of your control can make a far bigger difference than anything in your control, making things a sort of gamble or dice roll. Everything from applying for a job to getting a girlfriend to getting a degree at college to making friends

 

[MarstonAlloy]

Imagine this: Youve been working hard on a project for school, you stayed up all night and used all your creativity and really tried your best for this. You’re sure you’re going to get the best grade.

You get to class, and hand the teacher your project. You’re excited to get a perfect score, and praises from the teacher.

But hold on, she hands you your project back and you see a 82 on your shit. Then you hear the girl who’s the teacher’s favorite say “Omgg i got 100!!” on her shitty project she copy and pasted off the first source she could find.

You’re filled with rage, why the fuck did the teacher give her lazy ass the grade you worked so hard for and deserve?


In our minds we envision what we think is the logical outcome to scenarios, and when what happens isn’t what you envisioned, you’re filled with rage and confusion because your brain doesn’t see it as logical, and doesn’t see why something like that would happen.

Another example would be a bluepilled normie confused as to why his oneitis friendzones him and treats him as if he was disposable while the better looking guy she likes can treat her like shit and still have her glued to him.

Because he’s unaware of the importance of looks, he feels hurt and can’t figure out why he can’t get the same result because in his head it’s a totally even playing field, when in reality it’s not.

Many factors contribute to the outcome of things, whether it be how much a teacher likes a student or how attractive you are obviously, but our brains are unaware of these factors and the seemingly unfair result of things confuses us and hurts us.

Being naïve about things like this can lead to deep insecurity and an inferiority complex, because you will see others around you being treated better and being given “passes” you weren’t given seemingly for no reason, and it will lead you to think something is wrong with you and you’re worse than everyone else.


Thinking life is an even playing field is setting yourself up for pain, anger, confusion and failure.


Look at it this way though,

You might have a friend in class you partner up to do your work with, while someone who knows nobody sits there and works by himself. Or maybe a teacher let things slide when you got caught doing something because they know you and like you.

Hell, maybe you got a girl interested in you that you don’t really care about and ignore, while some other guy sits in bed depressed wondering why she likes you and not him.



In conclusion, stop expecting things to be fair. It will never be that way and you will only make yourself more bitter. Instead, stop focusing on the negatives of unfairness and think of all the times it’s benefitted you.


Thoughts?
@kjsbdfiusdf @looksmaxxer234 @Adriana Lima @Toska @Monk @goat2x @Original @OOGABOOGA @MarstonAlloy

Thx for tldr at end dawg needed that

 

[WadlowMaxxing]

my man made concept of morality doesn't align with the natural flow of events around me, who would have thought

 

[Deleted member 12688]

my man made concept of morality doesn't align with the natural flow of events around me, who would have thought

What’s water for you might be new for someone else, i didn’t have you in mind when making the thread

Life sucks cock and balls and I cannot wait for this shit to be over indeed son, also did not read but I sympathize the sentiment.

Thx for tldr at end dawg needed that

Fasho, y’all should lowkey read the thread when y’all have time though it’s actually pretty good and high effort compared to a lot of my others

 

[Deleted member 8576]

gravity makes things fall

 

[MarstonAlloy]

What’s water for you might be new for someone else, clearly some people find the thread good




Fasho, y’all should lowkey read the thread when y’all have time though it’s actually pretty good and high effort compared to a lot of my others

True i can tell
Reading this might be a whole ass dopamine detox

 

[Deleted member 13197]

good thread, it’s stupid to expect life to work in your favor most times. More often than not, you’ll just be disappointed. That’s why you got to keep low expectations abt everything whether it’s a party, kickback, project, etc. and more importantly don’t dwell on negative outcomes as you said.

 

[studiocel]

Don't take life personally, many things are always gonna be outside of your control just try to do the best with what you got.