Likability isn't relevant even outside of romantic contexts tbh

[disillusioned]

I use to cope by thinking a person's likability at least mattered for how you are viewed/treated by other people, even if it doesn't affect how attractive you are seen by women. But looking back at my prior life experiences and the things that I've seen, I have shockingly little evidence for it. I've known several doucebags who had plenty of friends and/or were well respected. I've also know polite/nice ugly people that nobody likes.

Likability doesn't fucking matter for how you are perceived unless you literally insufferable. Even then, depending on your looks...

Jfl does personality even matter AT ALL?

 

[Bitch]

No

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Dude I'm almost completely agreeing with this. I TRIED the "be nice to girls and be funny" thing. It just doesn't work. It's not what they find attractive at all. Fucking idiot normies think a girl is going to get wet by your sense of humor.

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Chad with better personality > boring chad

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Nobody wants to be friends with someone who’s boring

 

[disillusioned]

Nobody wants to be friends with someone who’s boring

 

[Lux]

Nobody wants to be friends with someone who’s boring

 

[Deleted member 10524]

How?