lol at you guys claiming being blackpilled, yet only interacting with women over dating apps, that are basically meat market

[comfortably dumb]

i cringe so hard whenever i see someone's essay about an interaction with a girl and then, after two estrogenic paragraphs, realize they've never even seen or talked to her irl, and are talking about likes, swipes and meaningless texts

if you aren't comfortably above average and still try getting effortless lays on tinder and similar apps, you are the epitome of a delusional bluepilled clown.

with shitty to average looks, your only chance is to exhibit attractive behavioral traits/showcase status in real life (and you can't do that by posting autistic pics of your potato faces online)

but yeah, keep telling yourself you are so much ahead of the curve when it comes to understanding of the sociosexual dynamics

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Where else is there to interact with girls?

People say this all the time and NEVER offer a practical alternative

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Where else is there to interact with girls?

People say this all the time and NEVER offer a practical alternative

No choice but to create a social circle and also tryna get famous

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

No choice but to create a social circle and also tryna get famous

How to do this?

I hate doing anything that doesnt have practical actionable steps to take

just create soical circle nigga I didnt think of that. Can I just whip one up from thin air

 

[comfortably dumb]

Where else is there to interact with girls?

People say this all the time and NEVER offer a practical alternative

i'm not saying it's easy. it's extremely frustrating and takes like a thousand attempts, i agree.

but you have to try hard to build any kind of social circle and attend places where you can at least attempt talking to girls. you can't tell me there's scarcity of social events (like concerts or all sorts of manifestations) nowadays

for guys who don't have it on easy mode with girls naturally, there's no easy hack

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

i'm not saying it's easy. it's extremely frustrating and takes like a thousand attempts, i agree.

but you have to try hard to build any kind of social circle and attend places where you can at least attempt talking to girls. you can't tell me there's scarcity of social events (like concerts or all sorts of manifestations) nowadays

I cant go to clubs or bars alone I get refused entry or giga shit tested by girls for being alone

 

[Deleted member 17829]

How to do this?

I hate doing anything that doesnt have practical actionable steps to take

just create soical circle nigga I didnt think of that. Can I just whip one up from thin air

just ignore. dating apps are the most efficient way

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

just ignore. dating apps are the most efficient way

The 'tinder isnt real life' crew always say go out and meet girls irl- but they never actually explain what this means. They never explain where youre meant to go in order to do this or really how to?

IMO school and uni you meet girls naturally through social cirlce without trying- after this when you graduate you either get pussy on dating apps or youre an incel

 

[Deleted member 4430]

with shitty to average looks, your only chance is to exhibit attractive behavioral traits/showcase status in real life (and you can't do that by posting autistic pics of your potato faces online)

Why you argue with people which mostly have nothing going on in their lives and no friends. All they have is some online persona.

 

[Deleted member 4362]

It was a Reddit post I copied and paste

 

[comfortably dumb]

Why you argue with people which mostly have nothing going on in their lives and no friends. All they have is some online persona.

i'm going by the assumption that most users are just regular kids who just don't stand out enough, doubt there are as many hopeless cases here. and the worst thing that profile of guys can do is isolate themselves and cave in to defeatism and self-tormenting

 

[the BULL]

The 'tinder isnt real life' crew always say go out and meet girls irl- but they never actually explain what this means. They never explain where youre meant to go in order to do this or really how to?

IMO school and uni you meet girls naturally through social cirlce without trying- after this when you graduate you either get pussy on dating apps or youre an incel

It's Easy you go in front of a college library and start asking out girls. It's basically the same shit but you can see them unfrauded and same for you. If you are attractive enough they won't Say no. Other way Is Just walking in the city during the night. Girls are usually looking for getting approached by gl men in that istance

 

[the BULL]

There Is no "real Life Is easier than old though". You Need to put effort and the looks requirements are the same (but the pool is potentially much larger because men use dating apps much more than girls)

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It's Easy you go in front of a college library and start asking out girls. It's basically the same shit but you can see them unfrauded and same for you. If you are attractive enough they won't Say no. Other way Is Just walking in the city during the night. Girls are usually looking for getting approached by gl men in that istance

irl they all have their guards up though- walk around college library is risking getting police called on you for sexual harrassment. I often walk around the city at night but I just do it hoping girls will approach me which only happened once.


Also if the look requirement is the same why not just do online where you have the advantage of being able to fraud and flex physqiue? Eeven when i did get girls numbers irl they often aired me after a few days of texting- no different to online dating, at least with online you can have a bunch of girls on the go for when this inevitably happens

 

[the BULL]

irl they all have their guards up though- walk around college library is risking getting police called on you for sexual harrassment. I often walk around the city at night but I just do it hoping girls will approach me which only happened once.

I'm gonna be honest with you, that's a looks problem. Girls are Happy if a gl guy approaches them

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I'm gonna be honest with you, that's a looks problem. Girls are Happy if a gl guy approaches them

I agree- which is like I said before, the looks requirement irl is a lot higher than online. If your a HTN or chadlite just stick to OLD. Below MTN just give up if you dont have social circle. Only chads should do irl cold approach

 

[the BULL]

I agree- which is like I said before, the looks requirement irl is a lot higher than online. If your a HTN or chadlite just stick to OLD. Below MTN just give up if you dont have social circle. Only chads should do irl cold approach

i think big htn (in frame or height department) is enough for real life

 

[Deleted member 2381]

The 'tinder isnt real life' crew always say go out and meet girls irl- but they never actually explain what this means. They never explain where youre meant to go in order to do this or really how to?

IMO school and uni you meet girls naturally through social cirlce without trying- after this when you graduate you either get pussy on dating apps or youre an incel

Literally every guy at my last job was incel for 3+ years

They'd work all day mon-fri, go out on the weekend and get nothing

Fire up their tinder and get nothing

There's no escape

 

[JBcollector]

The bluepill takes many forms and keeps evolving

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Literally every guy at my last job was incel for 3+ years

They'd work all day mon-fri, go out on the weekend and get nothing

Fire up their tinder and get nothing

There's no escape

Everyone in my office who doesn’t have gf is also a incel JFL

Game over for irl theory

Thank god I am gymmaxxed and know how to use FaceApp or else I’d be in the same boat (even though my OLD results are still giga frustrating and I get flaked on all the time)

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Everyone in my office who doesn’t have gf is also a incel JFL

Game over for irl theory

Thank god I am gymmaxxed and know how to use FaceApp or else I’d be in the same boat (even though my OLD results are still giga frustrating and I get flaked on all the time)

Working 9-5 with no social circle as a sub Chadite is a recipe for a lifetime of inceldom

You literally cannot escape it. Unless you're cold approaching in the streets on your lunch break or on the weekends, you're not going to get shit

Girls at work are usually subhuman so you can't go for them. Going out every weekend is hell cause you're hungover then back to work on monday

Going out on week nights is hell because you have work the next day, kiss goodbye to sleep, gym gains and collagen

If I were a wagecuck, OLD would be my salvation

Even as someone who has free time 24/7, making a social circle is near impossible, nobody wants to do anything

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Working 9-5 with no social circle as a sub Chadite is a recipe for a lifetime of inceldom

You literally cannot escape it. Unless you're cold approaching in the streets on your lunch break or on the weekends, you're not going to get shit

Girls at work are usually subhuman so you can't go for them. Going out every weekend is hell cause you're hungover then back to work on monday

Going out on week nights is hell because you have work the next day, kiss goodbye to sleep, gym gains and collagen

If I were a wagecuck, OLD would be my salvation

Even as someone who has free time 24/7, making a social circle is near impossible, nobody wants to do anything

Yes also everyone after the age of 21 who isn’t a massive fucking weirdo already has their friends - they aren’t looking to make a social circle

If anything - people are cutting down on their friends at that age as they get replaced by more workcelling, gf, family etc

JFL at this fantasy that you can be a 25 yo wageslave normie and just meet a nice sweet normie girl through your social circle of men whom you meet up with once every 4 months at a curry house to have a meal + 4 pints of lager then go home at midnight and wank yourself to sleep

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Yes also everyone after the age of 21 who isn’t a massive fucking weirdo already has their friends - they aren’t looking to make a social circle

If anything - people are cutting down on their friends at that age as they get replaced by more workcelling, gf, family etc

JFL at this fantasy that you can be a 25 yo wageslave normie and just meet a nice sweet normie girl through your social circle of men whom you meet up with once every 4 months at a curry house to have a meal + 4 pints of lager then go home at midnight and wank yourself to sleep

This is so accurate and so fucking brutal

@ChickenAndRiceBrah

 

[Deleted member 13158]

Working 9-5 with no social circle as a sub Chadite is a recipe for a lifetime of inceldom

You literally cannot escape it. Unless you're cold approaching in the streets on your lunch break or on the weekends, you're not going to get shit

Girls at work are usually subhuman so you can't go for them. Going out every weekend is hell cause you're hungover then back to work on monday

Going out on week nights is hell because you have work the next day, kiss goodbye to sleep, gym gains and collagen

If I were a wagecuck, OLD would be my salvation

Even as someone who has free time 24/7, making a social circle is near impossible, nobody wants to do anything

Or nobody has time, in high school social circle is super legit. But once everyone’s working and has bills to pay free time disappears. Not to mention different jobs have different schedules

 

[the BULL]

Working 9-5 with no social circle as a sub Chadite is a recipe for a lifetime of inceldom

You literally cannot escape it. Unless you're cold approaching in the streets on your lunch break or on the weekends, you're not going to get shit

Girls at work are usually subhuman so you can't go for them. Going out every weekend is hell cause you're hungover then back to work on monday

Going out on week nights is hell because you have work the next day, kiss goodbye to sleep, gym gains and collagen

If I were a wagecuck, OLD would be my salvation

Even as someone who has free time 24/7, making a social circle is near impossible, nobody wants to do anything

Yes also everyone after the age of 21 who isn’t a massive fucking weirdo already has their friends - they aren’t looking to make a social circle

If anything - people are cutting down on their friends at that age as they get replaced by more workcelling, gf, family etc

JFL at this fantasy that you can be a 25 yo wageslave normie and just meet a nice sweet normie girl through your social circle of men whom you meet up with once every 4 months at a curry house to have a meal + 4 pints of lager then go home at midnight and wank yourself to sleep

jfl tinder is more comfortable but this is pure gaslighting, an htn male with gymcelled body can get girls on the street. it just requires more effort. plus irl has no "filter" so you can approach girls much higher SMV than you and shit. the amount of girls on dating apps is just too little, only a fraction is using them. if all the single girls of the city were on tinder, then it would be realistic.

 

[Deleted member 2381]

jfl tinder is more comfortable but this is pure gaslighting, an htn male with gymcelled body can get girls on the street. it just requires more effort. plus irl has no "filter" so you can approach girls much higher SMV than you and shit. the amount of girls on dating apps is just too little, only a fraction is using them. if all the single girls of the city were on tinder, then it would be realistic.

Ok and how many guys do you know who cold approach on the street irl

Even on a blackpilled forum filled with guys who are obsessed with slaying and self improvement, barely anyone here approaches on the street. Never mind your average happy go lucky optimistic subhuman skinnyfat normie

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

jfl tinder is more comfortable but this is pure gaslighting, an htn male with gymcelled body can get girls on the street. it just requires more effort. plus irl has no "filter" so you can approach girls much higher SMV than you and shit. the amount of girls on dating apps is just too little, only a fraction is using them. if all the single girls of the city were on tinder, then it would be realistic.

A htn with gymcelled body can also slay on tinder so whats your point?

My point is the looks threshold is the same to slay irl vs OLD or if anything slightly higher IRL cos you dont have the power of frauding on your side. So if you cant get any pussy off apps theres not much point you going out on some cringey PUA spam approach spress in your city bevause youre gonna get 0 pussy and just end up getting arrested for sexual harrassment

Ok and how many guys do you know who cold approach on the street irl

Even on a blackpilled forum filled with guys who are obsessed with slaying and self improvement, barely anyone here approaches on the street. Never mind your average happy go lucky optimistic subhuman skinnyfat normie

And I never even claimed its not possible to get laid from cold approach I simply said the looks threshold is the same IF NOT HIGHER than for succes from OLD. So if youre not getting anything on apps theres no point going out an cold apporaching because youre not gonna get shit from that either and youre just getting gonna get humiliated. If you do have some success from apps then I guess you could try approaching for the sake of improving yourself and to set yourself apart in some way - but if you havent got past the looks threshold theres no pooint un-neccesarily exposing yourself to such traumatic experiences

 

[Deleted member 16133]

couldnt be me but ok

 

[the BULL]

Ok and how many guys do you know who cold approach on the street irl

Even on a blackpilled forum filled with guys who are obsessed with slaying and self improvement, barely anyone here approaches on the street. Never mind your average happy go lucky optimistic subhuman skinnyfat normie

A htn with gymcelled body can also slay on tinder so whats your point?

My point is the looks threshold is the same to slay irl vs OLD or if anything slightly higher IRL cos you dont have the power of frauding on your side. So if you cant get any pussy off apps theres not much point you going out on some cringey PUA spam approach spress in your city bevause youre gonna get 0 pussy and just end up getting arrested for sexual harrassment

yes that's what i said. the point is that only a small fraction of girls are on tinder, so your pool is reduced, but you get a guaranteed easy lay if she's dtf. the 2 options are still both viable (for gl men). for average men it's over, they must betabuxx some becky at work or some shit.

 

[zharupodrugu]

Everyone in my office who doesn’t have gf is also a incel JFL

Game over for irl theory

Thank god I am gymmaxxed and know how to use FaceApp or else I’d be in the same boat (even though my OLD results are still giga frustrating and I get flaked on all the time)

Try dancing classes rumba, tango. Usually this classes in high demand of males cuz people think its gay. Its easier being physical and create warm social circles and teachers usually gather people on social event which lead to even more pussy. (Maybe this even cure some autism a little bit)

Foreign language classes again a lot of women go there but its less physical but u can gain some status inside your group if u will be best which is not hard since people are lazy as fuck. Later with some level of proficiency u can visit speaking clubs.

Also random people gather to play mafia. Try to find them on internet in your city\town.

People most of the time will be absolutely strangers so noone will know that u autistic loser unless u show them by your behavior.

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Try dancing classes rumba, tango. Usually this classes in high demand of males cuz people think its gay. Its easier being physical and create warm social circles and teachers usually gather people on social event which lead to even more pussy. (Maybe this even cure some autism a little bit)

Foreign language classes again a lot of women go there but its less physical but u can gain some status inside your group if u will be best which is not hard since people are lazy as fuck. Later with some level of proficiency u can visit speaking clubs.

Also random people gather to play mafia. Try to find them on internet in your city\town.

People most of the time will be absolutely strangers so noone will know that u autistic loser unless u show them by your behavior.

 

[zharupodrugu]

This is so accurate and so fucking brutal

@ChickenAndRiceBrah

yeah this Friends tv show seems like fantasy now where in ther world 6 adults will constantly hang out and do cool shit?

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I was the only guy besides teacher in my tango class

A htn with gymcelled body can also slay on tinder so whats your point?

My point is the looks threshold is the same to slay irl vs OLD or if anything slightly higher IRL cos you dont have the power of frauding on your side. So if you cant get any pussy off apps theres not much point you going out on some cringey PUA spam approach spress in your city bevause youre gonna get 0 pussy and just end up getting arrested for sexual harrassment



And I never even claimed its not possible to get laid from cold approach I simply said the looks threshold is the same IF NOT HIGHER than for succes from OLD. So if youre not getting anything on apps theres no point going out an cold apporaching because youre not gonna get shit from that either and youre just getting gonna get humiliated. If you do have some success from apps then I guess you could try approaching for the sake of improving yourself and to set yourself apart in some way - but if you havent got past the looks threshold theres no pooint un-neccesarily exposing yourself to such traumatic experiences

btw traumatic experiences become less traumatic with time. Just progressive overload at some point u just dont care. I remember how bad i was in my first dates barely could talk to women or got drunk just to talk to them. Yeah theres no point if u attrocious looking fella

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Or nobody has time, in high school social circle is super legit. But once everyone’s working and has bills to pay free time disappears. Not to mention different jobs have different schedules

I mean I have the weekends pretty much entirely free still but no one ever really wants to do anything- or if they do its jsut 4-5 men sitting round a table chatting- how are you meant to meet any girls from that? Dont get me wrong I like to meet up with friends occassionally jsut for the sake of doing it- but having a few friends isnt exaclty enough to get you laid you need to have a big cirlce with access to lots of girls and be abel to meet new ones through that cirlce on a semi regualr basis to have any sort of chance. The only way that happens in high school and university- the one exception to that I could maybe see is wokring at a really big company that hired tons of grads so youve got a set up fro you at work everyday in a sense

 

[Deleted member 2381]

I mean I have the weekends pretty much entirely free still but no one ever really wants to do anything- or if they do its jsut 4-5 men sitting round a table chatting- how are you meant to meet any girls from that? Dont get me wrong I like to meet up with friends occassionally jsut for the sake of doing it- but having a few friends isnt exaclty enough to get you laid you need to have a big cirlce with access to lots of girls and be abel to meet new ones through that cirlce on a semi regualr basis to have any sort of chance. The only way that happens in high school and university- the one exception to that I could maybe see is wokring at a really big company that hired tons of grads so youve got a set up fro you at work everyday in a sense

You could also try house sharing with 6 other people, could be legit if there are more girls in house than lads, then you could meet their friends too

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You could also try house sharing with 6 other people, could be legit if there are more girls in house than lads, then you could meet their friends too

I couldve tryed this when I moved tbh- but I wanted to have a small house so I can slay in private cos I am very secretive about my OLD escapades which some people find to be a weird trait.

 

[the BULL]

I mean I have the weekends pretty much entirely free still but no one ever really wants to do anything- or if they do its jsut 4-5 men sitting round a table chatting- how are you meant to meet any girls from that? Dont get me wrong I like to meet up with friends occassionally jsut for the sake of doing it- but having a few friends isnt exaclty enough to get you laid you need to have a big cirlce with access to lots of girls and be abel to meet new ones through that cirlce on a semi regualr basis to have any sort of chance. The only way that happens in high school and university- the one exception to that I could maybe see is wokring at a really big company that hired tons of grads so youve got a set up fro you at work everyday in a sense

you just need to go into bars tbh you sit there and if the girls are interested they will let you know. but if a guy has like more than 200 quality matches on tinder and it's satisfied with his supply of pussy then there is no point in putting effort to go out from his basement.

 

[Yliaster]

even if you approach irl its all becoming close to pointless nowadays because every girl has their phone 24/7 with better options in it this is actually why they flake soo much btw instead of some awkward creep who approaches her irl

 

[Deleted member 20056]

Honestly I'm too aspie yesterday girl from my uni class approached me but I couldn't hold a conversation and ofcourse like most women she was boring af and the encounter was awkward, I've been in the same class as her for more than 2 years and I know she's into me but I can't do the cringy talking stage cause I'm socially awkward

 

[Deleted member 20056]

Also earlier that day I decided to approach one of her friends who is more social and gives me more IOIs they are both MTBs, she was very receptive and wanted to chat but I couldn't hold a proper conversation lmao and we just talked about school shit, she even tried carrying part of the convo but she was also boring, one of my truecel friends came in and it gave me an excuse to walk away. It's over for me

 

[zharupodrugu]

Also earlier that day I decided to approach one of her friends who is more social and gives me more IOIs they are both MTBs, she was very receptive and wanted to chat but I couldn't hold a proper conversation lmao and we just talked about school shit, she even tried carrying part of the convo but she was also boring, one of my truecel friends came in and it gave me an excuse to walk away. It's over for me

Drunk confidence works like a magic

 

[Johnnybegood]

jfl tinder is more comfortable but this is pure gaslighting, an htn male with gymcelled body can get girls on the street. it just requires more effort. plus irl has no "filter" so you can approach girls much higher SMV than you and shit. the amount of girls on dating apps is just too little, only a fraction is using them. if all the single girls of the city were on tinder, then it would be realistic.

Where i live in Portugal even chad has to social circle maxx. A HTN?? Wtf??

Maybe if you go to local village parties yes it can work since most couples met that way, but in the Middle of the street? No way!

Also, @forevergymcelling is correct the minimum looks threshold if you are a friendless guy after uni is a low tier Chadlite.

You really think a girl even if she is HTB, is gonna leave her MTN boyfriend that she met in college and shares the same friends and possibly lives with him in the same house for someone who is marginally better looking (HTN) but is a weirdo?!! After 25 years old if a girl lives with her boyfriend...forget about it, move on if you are sub-chadlite tbh

 

[the BULL]

Where i live in Portugal even chad has to social circle maxx. A HTN?? Wtf??

Maybe if you go to local village parties yes it can work since most couples met that way, but in the Middle of the street? No way!

Also, @forevergymcelling is correct the minimum looks threshold if you are a friendless guy after uni is a low tier Chadlite.

You really think a girl even if she is HTB, is gonna leave her MTN boyfriend that she met in college and shares the same friends and possibly lives with him in the same house for someone who is marginally better looking (HTN) but is a weirdo?!! After 25 years old if a girl lives with her boyfriend...forget about it, move on if you are sub-chadlite tbh

i said big HTN. low chadlite with average size alternatively.

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Where i live in Portugal even chad has to social circle maxx. A HTN?? Wtf??

Maybe if you go to local village parties yes it can work since most couples met that way, but in the Middle of the street? No way!

Also, @forevergymcelling is correct the minimum looks threshold if you are a friendless guy after uni is a low tier Chadlite.

You really think a girl even if she is HTB, is gonna leave her MTN boyfriend that she met in college and shares the same friends and possibly lives with him in the same house for someone who is marginally better looking (HTN) but is a weirdo?!! After 25 years old if a girl lives with her boyfriend...forget about it, move on if you are sub-chadlite tbh

Where in Portugal do you live?


I will be in the algarve in August slaying those putas sujas caralho

 

[Johnnybegood]

Where in Portugal do you live?


I will be in the algarve in August slaying those putas sujas caralho

Vivo no norte ao pé da região do Porto.

Fdss em agosto vou estar a wagecucking

 

[Deleted member 11097]

i cringe so hard whenever i see someone's essay about an interaction with a girl and then, after two estrogenic paragraphs, realize they've never even seen or talked to her irl, and are talking about likes, swipes and meaningless texts

if you aren't comfortably above average and still try getting effortless lays on tinder and similar apps, you are the epitome of a delusional bluepilled clown.

with shitty to average looks, your only chance is to exhibit attractive behavioral traits/showcase status in real life (and you can't do that by posting autistic pics of your potato faces online)

but yeah, keep telling yourself you are so much ahead of the curve when it comes to understanding of the sociosexual dynamics

Legit

 

[Pendejo]

Where i live in Portugal even chad has to social circle maxx.

Over.

 

[Deleted member 20273]

How to do this?

I hate doing anything that doesnt have practical actionable steps to take

just create soical circle nigga I didnt think of that. Can I just whip one up from thin air

Get a hobby or do sports.

 

[thereallegend]

I cant go to clubs or bars alone I get refused entry or giga shit tested by girls for being alone

Yeah I don't go to club/bar/concert alone anymore because it's incel tier game. Preselection is needed. At least come with friends, preferable female.

 

[Skywalker]

not 1 word here about GEOMAXXING and getting into remote work so you can afford to do that for extended periods of time
= the real solution for MTN-Chadlite( depending on where you relocate you can jump in foid quality anywhere from a 4 to an 8)
very sad