lol I’m so dogshit at talking to people

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I think it’s fuckibg over even if I woke up and looked good through some miracle

I’m so fucking ND I just can’t do it I’m ruined from a childhood and a lifetime of isolation I never even really learned how to converse beyond 3rd grade
 
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I can't even hold a conversation with people in my family
 
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its not rocket science, Mr. High IQ.
 
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I think it’s fuckibg over even if I woke up and looked good through some miracle

I’m so fucking ND I just can’t do it I’m ruined from a childhood and a lifetime of isolation I never even really learned how to converse beyond 3rd grade
same, i just drink everyday seems to help
 
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Improve yourself then
Bitch ass
 
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it’s a Trial and error learning what social cues to pick up on and how to maintain eye contact. Try to talk to people online like Omegle first and go from there.
 
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just throw yourself into conversations enthusiastically even if it humiliates you in the moment, try to be adaptable

you wouldn't believe the kind of social autism i experienced last year, some incidents were genuinely laughable and memorable to the extent I wouldn't be surprised at all if people gossiped about me behind my back. i promise you rn i'm not exaggerating or out-of-touch with this whatsoever, felt like i was about to have a heart attack the entire time.

this year i'm genuinely fine at socializing and can carry a conversation fine--it's way worse in the beginning but just be brave and learn through painful trial and error.
 
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it’s a Trial and error learning what social cues to pick up on and how to maintain eye contact. Try to talk to people online like Omegle first and go from there.
My problem is the shame I feel whenever I fuck up or get called out makes me want to isolate myself for months, such a vicious cycle
 
just throw yourself into conversations enthusiastically even if it humiliates you in the moment, try to be adaptable

you wouldn't believe the kind of social autism i experienced last year, some incidents were genuinely laughable and memorable to the extent I wouldn't be surprised at all if people gossiped about me behind my back. i promise you rn i'm not exaggerating or out-of-touch with this whatsoever, felt like i was about to have a heart attack the entire time.

this year i'm genuinely fine at socializing and can carry a conversation fine--it's way worse in the beginning but just be brave and learn through painful trial and error.
Inspiring
 
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My problem is the shame I feel whenever I fuck up or get called out makes me want to isolate myself for months, such a vicious cycle
Of course but that feeling of fucking up loosens up the more you do try. You’ll get more comfortable talking to people if your practice. Don’t overthink and let the convo flow, be casual, and adjust how you talk to different people based on behavior.
 

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