Loneliness and sadness

[Deleted member 10536]

How do you deal with such things?
I know you can ignore it, or do things that will distract you. That's not what I'm asking. Your position doesn't change, only worsens in those cases - neglecting an issue.
The solution is to become not lonely and happy, but how? Life seems overly futile, despite me giving the best I can.
I have many ropes, so ye whatever. Imo seat belt is much better option. Literally built to hold you and is rather snuggly and soft.

 

[Tony]

lonilecocklossus

 

[Deleted member 4430]

rope is the only cure

 

[Deleted member 6538]

Inject t and cope with drugs sometimes that give you feelings similar to being in love

 

[Deleted member 10536]

rope is the only cure

I'm afraid of permanence. Tbh it's very comforting idea, but I keep on thinking I can turn the things around. But they don't tbh.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Inject t and cope with drugs sometimes that give you feelings similar to being in love

Tried. Worked for a little bit. Absolutely terrible idea even medium term.
Not a solution, tbh. If anything it'll just bring you closer to seatbelt at an accelerated rate.

 

[GymcelDoomer]

Jfl at extroverts. Nigga i can gladly spend 7 hours in my room alone

 

[Tony]

leg dey 3x / week with celves everydey helps

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Jfl at extroverts.

Not sure I follow. Sorry.
I'm introvert btw.
I couldn't fake into extrovert. Not yet anyway. Not discounting the possibility, but the outlook is rather bleak.

 

[WadlowMaxxing]

Take an Aromasin and nuke your sex drive

 

[GymcelDoomer]

How do you deal with such things?
I know you can ignore it, or do things that will distract you. That's not what I'm asking. Your position doesn't change, only worsens in those cases - neglecting an issue.
The solution is to become not lonely and happy, but how? Life seems overly futile, despite me giving the best I can.
I have many ropes, so ye whatever. Imo seat belt is much better option. Literally built to hold you and is rather snuggly and soft.

if ur weren't such a brainlet u would realise the best way to make friends is to become good at something. shared interests bring people together. nigga just join a boxing class or some shit

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Take an Aromasin and nuke your sex drive

Actually have some. I tried taking, but doesn't do me much mentally. I can get the dryness sides/heart issues from it, if I take too much. Otherwise felt close to placebo tbh. Might be an issue elsewhere.

 

[Danish_Retard]

Gratitude, just sit a couple of minutes everyday and think of the things you're grateful for. Then write it down for 3-5 min. It won't solve loneliness but I find that it makes me a lot less depressive, there have been many studies on this too.

 

[GymcelDoomer]

Not sure I follow. Sorry.
I'm introvert btw.
I couldn't fake into extrovert. Not yet anyway. Not discounting the possibility, but the outlook is rather bleak.

i meant i cant tolerate being lonely. it's not ideal but it doesn't effect me in a deep way.

 

[WadlowMaxxing]

Actually have some. I tried taking, but doesn't do me much mentally. I can get the dryness sides/heart issues from it, if I take too much. Otherwise felt close to placebo tbh. Might be an issue elsewhere.

I think you got bunk product. Only 5mg Aromasin from my source really affected my sex drive

 

[Deleted member 4430]

I'm afraid of permanence. Tbh it's very comforting idea, but I keep on thinking I can turn the things around. But they don't tbh.

depends. it depends on what the feeling is based on, whether you are really alone or its just a feeling. practically most things are cope when you do them yourself. If youre under 25 then you can turn around a lot of things or if you arent a trucel who needs a bunch of surgeries. Im in a similar situation as you and I practically dont see way out unless a miracle happens

 

[Deleted member 10679]

Jfl at extroverts. Nigga i can gladly spend 7 hours in my room alone

Can. spend a week alone with no issues

 

[Deleted member 10536]

if ur weren't such a brainlet u would realise the best way to make friends is to become good at something. shared interests bring people together. nigga just join a boxing class or some shit

I'm good at computers, electronics?, technological processes, have an interest in programming, but tbh more so from a hobby perspective.
I like walking, hiking. Used to be into running before.
Hard to find things irl to become good at etc, what you're saying.
Just want to have people that are close to me and be able to do something with them, I guess. Though ye, what you're saying could be a problem, as I don't really have much of anything.
Physically (lifting, boxing, martial stuff) is really not for me, I'm sort of frail bone wise. I'll literally break in half, I've tried. I'm afraid at this point of severely injuring myself, might have a disease is my suspicion at this point.
Used to play video games and was mostly very good, scoring top 99% percentile, tbh 99.9%
Too depressing to continue/lost an interest. Very unfulfilling.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Gratitude, just sit a couple of minutes everyday and think of the things you're grateful for. Then write it down for 3-5 min. It won't solve loneliness but I find that it makes me a lot less depressive, there have been many studies on this too.

Actually one of the things psychologists/therapists told me to do. I've tried too, but after a month or two you just get tired of doing it tbh.
Especially when nobody cares, or you can't share it with anybody. Becomes depressing in itself to continue.
When you do it as an status update for somebody though, it feels incentivising... That's why I'm really trying to find a gf.

 

[Deleted member 4464]

dont you have friends?

 

[Danish_Retard]

Actually one of the things psychologists/therapists told me to do. I've tried too, but after a month or two you just get tired of doing it tbh.
Especially when nobody cares, or you can't share it with anybody. Becomes depressing in itself to continue.
When you do it as an status update for somebody though, it feels incentivising... That's why I'm really trying to find a gf.

Yes im ngl, it gets a bit depressing especially when the things you find your gratitude drawn toward is the few people who put up with you and you realise that you're basically friendless and have wasted most of your youth. Or perhaps that's just me. I still find that it's worth it to do tho, but YMMV.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

I think you got bunk product. Only 5mg Aromasin from my source really affected my sex drive

My sex drive has never been great to begin with tbh.
I believe it is real, I just don't think estrogen is a problem. But on the other hand I'm a little bit feminine for sure and maybe medium t. Might do a blood test sometime.
Tbh expecting avg/above avg results.
Muscle building/sports were never my forte, so that would signal otherwise.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

i meant i cant tolerate being lonely. it's not ideal but it doesn't effect me in a deep way.

Can. spend a week alone with no issues

dont you have friends?

Try spending 20+ years, alone. Not even parents ever loved me or cared for me. Realistically can't say I've ever had even a single friend in my life.
Forums such as these has been essentially as close as I ever get to some kind of social interaction that is genuine - as in not business related.
I'm whining again.

 

[Tusseleif]

I just cope with vidya or movies. I also like to draw and worldbuild, worldbuilding is a very fun hobby tbh, maybe write a short story with it. I also like to go out in nature and take in the fresh air alone, far from people, that’s my favorite thing to do tbh, just go deep into the woods or mountains wherever with no plans on where to go. This is what I usually do after accepting that I’m a loner

 

[Deleted member 10679]

Try spending 20+ years, alone. Not even parents ever loved me or cared for me. Realistically can't say I've ever had even a single friend in my life.
Forums such as these has been essentially as close as I ever get to some kind of social interaction that is genuine - as in not business related.
I'm whining again.

Damn man you must have some sort of mental illness, not trying to offend you but to go 20+ years alone seems to require some sort of conscious effort on your part. There's no way people just refused to be friends with you (only happens to legitimate trucels and even then they can still have friends). I suggest you get some more sociable hobbies man, friends are a legitimately good cope.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

depends. it depends on what the feeling is based on, whether you are really alone or its just a feeling. practically most things are cope when you do them yourself. If youre under 25 then you can turn around a lot of things or if you arent a trucel who needs a bunch of surgeries. Im in a similar situation as you and I practically dont see way out unless a miracle happens

I'm not a girl, who feels lonely, when 100s of guys are trying to break down her doors daily.
I look 25/under, so that saves me a bit.
I just feel like I've been given the very few opportunities for sure. After those nobody has ever wanted to meet with me again. It always ends up in them never replying. Tbh don't want to be a creep and to bother them, so I give up really quickly in that case too.
I mean if they don't respond, means they didn't enjoy the interaction with me/don't want to keep me in their life. I'm talking about irl interactions.
I also most of the time think those interactions go well too... Never get involved in a conflict and in general ends on a positive note/with them saying "I'd like to meet you again." Yet it's never the case. Just feel like everyone is trying to be only nice and fuck off ASAP at this point. I never get any sort of feedback. It's crushing...

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

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[Deleted member 10536]

I just cope with vidya or movies. I also like to draw and worldbuild, worldbuilding is a very fun hobby tbh, maybe write a short story with it. I also like to go out in nature and take in the fresh air alone, far from people, that’s my favorite thing to do tbh, just go deep into the woods or mountains wherever with no plans on where to go. This is what I usually do after accepting that I’m a loner

Ye, I've tried vidya. Dead end. Movies - watched all the movies worth watching. I.e. 30-60s period and some random movies that are very good too, that pop up randomly. Anyway, lost any kind of passion as movies are quite dead field these days and as I've said - I've watched everything that's worth watching.
I'm not artistic, but kept on thinking about getting into 3d modelling a bit and world build there. Sort of worthwhile skill too nowadays, but maybe overcrowded. Still, I'd rather spend my time away from computers as much as possible, as I think they make me feel worse at this point.
I do go on hikes/walks as I've said. Week long trips in wilderness without even a tent. Spend a lot of time in forest, but doing it alone can become very mentally difficult and crushing.
I do though...

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Damn man you must have some sort of mental illness, not trying to offend you but to go 20+ years alone seems to require some sort of conscious effort on your part. There's no way people just refused to be friends with you (only happens to legitimate trucels and even then they can still have friends). I suggest you get some more sociable hobbies man, friends are a legitimately good cope.

Ye, that's what I've also keep on thinking from time to time. But nobody says anything to me, I don't really understand it at this point myself. I think I'm too good of a person/too nice, maybe...
I've been to many psychologists/psychiatrists... They told me I'm fine, mostly. And I should bee more confident and bee myself. I try to. I do, try, to meet people. It just flat out doesn't work. People see 0 value in me I guess.

 

[Deleted member 10679]

Ye, that's what I've also keep on thinking from time to time. But nobody says anything to me, I don't really understand it at this point myself. I think I'm too good of a person/too nice, maybe...
I've been to many psychologists/psychiatrists... They told me I'm fine, mostly. And I should bee more confident and bee myself. I try to. I do, try, to meet people. It just flat out doesn't work. People see 0 value in me I guess.

I guess you need to be more outgoing, being quiet/reserved won't help you because most people like you won't bother talking to others if they seem closed off. Also push to see people again, the more you are exposed to a certain group of people then the greater chances for more intimate bonds to form. You can be the most interesting person in the world but if you only hang out with a person once then it's almost impossible to become friends so it's important for you to kind of put yourself in a situation with the same people.

If that doesn't work then unironically get a better personality

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Damn man you must have some sort of mental illness, not trying to offend you but to go 20+ years alone seems to require some sort of conscious effort on your part. There's no way people just refused to be friends with you (only happens to legitimate trucels and even then they can still have friends). I suggest you get some more sociable hobbies man, friends are a legitimately good cope.

I've made a thread actually, like yesterday I think.
I've went on a date with a girl. We walked in a park, chatted, etc. She was shy, anyway. At the end I asked if she'd like to meet again. She said she'd like to, sometime again. Of course I have more details to add here, but just to make the story short.
Now I've sent her a message and she doesn't respond. Every single time that's what happens with everyone. Ye, it has been very little time, but I've experienced this thing so many times, it's just a pattern. She won't respond anymore and I'll try messaging again some time later, asking her for something and if even then she won't respond - I'll just try to forget it has ever happened, as it's just depressing at this point.
Btw the message I've sent her was "I liked looking into your eyes. Very beautiful colour. Too bad our eyes didn't meet all that often". Her eyes are really pretty, deep ocean blue and is what I genuinely think. Maybe this is just too stupid/autistic/mental...?
Is this a wrong thing? Am I being mental and misjudging here? Doesn't seem so to me, but I'm not in a position to be objective. Maybe I have a mental disease for sure. Or I'm ugly...

 

[Deleted member 10679]

I've made a thread actually, like yesterday I think.
I've went on a date with a girl. We walked in a park, chatted, etc. She was shy, anyway. At the end I asked if she'd like to meet again. She said she'd like to, sometime again. Of course I have more details to add here, but just to make the story short.
Now I've sent her a message and she doesn't respond. Every single time that's what happens with everyone. Ye, it has been very little time, but I've experienced this thing so many times, it's just a pattern. She won't respond anymore and I'll try messaging again some time later, asking her for something and if even then she won't respond - I'll just try to forget it has ever happened, as it's just depressing at this point.
Btw the message I've sent her was "I liked looking into your eyes. Very beautiful colour. Too bad our eyes didn't meet all that often". Her eyes are really pretty, deep ocean blue and is what I genuinely think. Maybe this is just too stupid/autistic/mental...?
Is this a wrong thing? Am I being mental and misjudging here? Doesn't seem so to me, but I'm not in a position to be objective. Maybe I have a mental disease for sure. Or I'm ugly...

No offense but that was a very weird message, imo wait a few days before messaging and send something less poetic and more candid

 

[Deleted member 110]

>getting dates
Mogs me hard.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

I've made a thread actually, like yesterday I think.
I've went on a date with a girl. We walked in a park, chatted, etc. She was shy, anyway. At the end I asked if she'd like to meet again. She said she'd like to, sometime again. Of course I have more details to add here, but just to make the story short.
Now I've sent her a message and she doesn't respond. Every single time that's what happens with everyone. Ye, it has been very little time, but I've experienced this thing so many times, it's just a pattern. She won't respond anymore and I'll try messaging again some time later, asking her for something and if even then she won't respond - I'll just try to forget it has ever happened, as it's just depressing at this point.
Btw the message I've sent her was "I liked looking into your eyes. Very beautiful colour. Too bad our eyes didn't meet all that often". Her eyes are really pretty, deep ocean blue and is what I genuinely think. Maybe this is just too stupid/autistic/mental...?
Is this a wrong thing? Am I being mental and misjudging here? Doesn't seem so to me, but I'm not in a position to be objective. Maybe I have a mental disease for sure. Or I'm ugly...

it seems she doesnt want to spend time with you for some reason, maybe she found you boring, she has a lot of options unlike men.
Are you GL?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

I guess you need to be more outgoing, being quiet/reserved won't help you because most people like you won't bother talking to others if they seem closed off. Also push to see people again, the more you are exposed to a certain group of people then the greater chances for more intimate bonds to form. You can be the most interesting person in the world but if you only hang out with a person once then it's almost impossible to become friends so it's important for you to kind of put yourself in a situation with the same people.

If that doesn't work then unironically get a better personality

Well, yes. It's always essentially once. There never is the second chance.
Idk, I can and do talk with people. I'm introvert - yes, but I can still talk to people, with little issues, I might be awkward at times though, but it's who I am...

No offense but that was a very weird message, imo wait a few days before messaging and send something less poetic and more candid

Well, yeah then. I guess that confirms me being mental. As it did seem normal to me to send something like that. I thought that it was nice and cute, sort of. Felt like I was conveying myself well, with that sort of message, as it was who I am and how I perceive the world... I feel like I'm romantic person. Also my temperament is melancholic. I dream of things such as going for a walk under the starry sky of the moonlight by the river while holding hands with a girl of your life and whispering sweet little nothings into each other ears.
Also might have lost nuance in translation, as english is not the native language.
Instead I should apply to a psychiatric institution at this point.
Yeah, as I said. I will wait a bit and message her again, something with more down to earth maybe, but probably will just ask whether she'd like to meet again or whether I should just move on with my life at this point. Really don't expect anything anymore... As I said, seen this happen way too many times.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

>getting dates
Mogs me hard.

>dates
Yes, I've went on 2 dates in my entire life. Both of which happened this year after years and years of improving my looks. If anything, this is the least I should deserve for putting in the effort, time and money. Sorry if you feel that is unfair. To me it also feels unfair, as it felt like disproportionate amount of effort got me pretty much nowhere.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

it seems she doesnt want to spend time with you for some reason, maybe she found you boring, she has a lot of options unlike men.
Are you GL?

She was very shy and reserved. Didn't talk much, I had to carry the conversation essentially. It was probably 70/30 or 80/20 conversation wise. There were a few silent moments, but I tried to be upbeat and uplifting/happy. She did seem depressed a bit and gloomy. She said some few things in relation to being fed up with life and that her life has been "existing" so far, instead of actually living, if you catch what I'm trying to say. She seemed pessimistic, but I've tried to counter her with optimism and show her brighter tomorrow.
Ye, I was probably boring... I'm not that exciting person to be around, really.
She said she doesn't go on dates often.
Idk about whether I'm gl or not... I get really mixed results from people here from 3~ to 5+
I personally really like how I look, like in the mirror, but I think I look way worse irl.

 

[Deleted member 9380]

music is my way of coping with this life

 

[Deleted member 110]

>dates
Yes, I've went on 2 dates in my entire life. Both of which happened this year after years and years of improving my looks. If anything, this is the least I should deserve for putting in the effort, time and money. Sorry if you feel that is unfair. To me it also feels unfair, as it felt like disproportionate amount of effort got me pretty much nowhere.

Combination of not being socialized enough in Teenage years,Overthinking,Autism/Asperger

 

[Deleted member 10679]

Well, yes. It's always essentially once. There never is the second chance.
Idk, I can and do talk with people. I'm introvert - yes, but I can still talk to people, with little issues, I might be awkward at times though, but it's who I am...

Well, yeah then. I guess that confirms me being mental. As it did seem normal to me to send something like that. I thought that it was nice and cute, sort of. Felt like I was conveying myself well, with that sort of message, as it was who I am and how I perceive the world... I feel like I'm romantic person. Also my temperament is melancholic. I dream of things such as going for a walk under the starry sky of the moonlight by the river while holding hands with a girl of your life and whispering sweet little nothings into each other ears.
Also might have lost nuance in translation, as english is not the native language.
Instead I should apply to a psychiatric institution at this point.
Yeah, as I said. I will wait a bit and message her again, something with more down to earth maybe, but probably will just ask whether she'd like to meet again or whether I should just move on with my life at this point. Really don't expect anything anymore... As I said, seen this happen way too many times.

There's nothing wrong with what you want, it's just that you're escalating too quick to that point. I think nowadays you can't really woo someone since everyone's so cut and dry about what they want, that doesn't mean you can't be romantic with this girl, you just have to give it time before you get to that point (like after you've slept together). I think your biggest issue must be your mannerisms, you can't really afford to be shy and closed off if you want this girl to be interested in you. Also, you seem to catastrophize quite a bit, you don't need to check into "psychiatric institution" just try hang out with some younger NT guys and pick up on how they act (meet them at gym or sports club or bar tbh)

 

[Deleted member 10536]

music is my way of coping with this life

Ye, I listen a lot to beatles. It's very... uplifting? Happy oriented music and also feels very close to my soul, so to say. A lot about love and such stuff...

 

[Deleted member 10536]

There's nothing wrong with what you want, it's just that you're escalating too quick to that point. I think nowadays you can't really woo someone since everyone's so cut and dry about what they want, that doesn't mean you can't be romantic with this girl, you just have to give it time before you get to that point (like after you've slept together). I think your biggest issue must be your mannerisms, you can't really afford to be shy and closed off if you want this girl to be interested in you. Also, you seem to catastrophize quite a bit, you don't need to check into "psychiatric institution" just try hang out with some younger NT guys and pick up on how they act (meet them at gym or sports club or bar tbh)

No, you don't really get it. I wasn't shy. She was. I'm sort of a shy person - yes. But during the date I wasn't shy. I might have been very... reserved in terms of my physical interactions, I didn't try to touch her or anything, but I had to carry the conversation for example. I didn't feel anxious or awkward really. I felt just fine during it. I wasn't closed off, I don't think so. I was telling stories about myself for example... Guess they sucked.
It wasn't a particularly romantic date, it was just every day life related things and such, trying to get to know each other. Who we are so to say.
I just felt like messaging her that, because it felt right to me. That's it. I don't think it mattered what kind of message I would have sent to her, as I didn't think that she ever wanted to meet me again anymore. At exactly the point she was saying the words "I'd like to meet you sometime again." I felt it in her tone/voice/manner in which she said. When I heard those words, I knew inside that it was over. I kept on being optimistic though, maybe it's a start of a beautiful relationship, maybe it's just my autism misleading me, etc, etc.
She seemed a bit autistic for sure. Very introverted. Interested in science. Felt like I had a lot of in common with her. Had huge hopes tbh. Never met such a person irl.

 

[Deleted member 4464]

Try spending 20+ years, alone. Not even parents ever loved me or cared for me. Realistically can't say I've ever had even a single friend in my life.
Forums such as these has been essentially as close as I ever get to some kind of social interaction that is genuine - as in not business related.
I'm whining again.

im sorry bro, try to get friends somehow

 

[Deleted member 10536]

im sorry bro, try to get friends somehow

I try. I don't really know how. I always ask people, such as here, other forums, therapists, other people.
I'm just cursed. Or mentally retarded. Or ugly. All together really. It's hard.

 

[Deleted member 10679]

No, you don't really get it. I wasn't shy. She was. I'm sort of a shy person - yes. But during the date I wasn't shy. I might have been very... reserved in terms of my physical interactions, I didn't try to touch her or anything, but I had to carry the conversation for example. I didn't feel anxious or awkward really. I felt just fine during it. I wasn't closed off, I don't think so. I was telling stories about myself for example... Guess they sucked.
It wasn't a particularly romantic date, it was just every day life related things and such, trying to get to know each other. Who we are so to say.
I just felt like messaging her that, because it felt right to me. That's it. I don't think it mattered what kind of message I would have sent to her, as I didn't think that she ever wanted to meet me again anymore. At exactly the point she was saying the words "I'd like to meet you sometime again." I felt it in her tone/voice/manner in which she said. When I heard those words, I knew inside that it was over. I kept on being optimistic though, maybe it's a start of a beautiful relationship, maybe it's just my autism misleading me, etc, etc.
She seemed a bit autistic for sure. Very introverted. Interested in science. Felt like I had a lot of in common with her. Had huge hopes tbh. Never met such a person irl.

Yeah I read your other comment and I misunderstood, honestly I'm not sure what you should do man besides the texting thing. This girl you're talking about might still be interested if she's autistic then the way she acted kind of made sense like it's not completely over just wait then if she doesn't respond I'm sorry bro.

Definitely take my advice about being more NT with clubs and stuff to make friends. Good luck with the dating.

I try. I don't really know how. I always ask people, such as here, other forums, therapists, other people.
I'm just cursed. Or mentally retarded. Or ugly. All together really. It's hard.

Nah man you're not ugly, I think you just need to be around these people more that's why hobbies in the same place with the same people will help you

 

[Deleted member 4464]

I try. I don't really know how. I always ask people, such as here, other forums, therapists, other people.
I'm just cursed. Or mentally retarded. Or ugly. All together really. It's hard.

more like mentally retarded, I have seen all kinds of subhumans with social circle, yea being gl will make people want to be friends with you more but this doesnt matter you cant have friends when you are ugly

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Yeah I read your other comment and I misunderstood, honestly I'm not sure what you should do man besides the texting thing. This girl you're talking about might still be interested if she's autistic then the way she acted kind of made sense like it's not completely over just wait then if she doesn't respond I'm sorry bro.

Definitely take my advice about being more NT with clubs and stuff to make friends. Good luck with the dating.

Ye, was thinking of going to club, never been to one ever. Tbh, I'd probably just end up sitting in a corner, being invisible. I don't have anybody to go with. Anyway, quarantine and stuff, so not really a possibility for a while at least.
I think it might make things just way worse though, more depressing. I also think that barely any girl ever goes to clubs and it's mostly just dudes.
Also it just doesn't fit my personality, but regardless it might be something to try. I just don't feel like I'd find genuine and caring people there or people interested in relationships. I don't know really, just seems like a bad place.
Also if you wear a mask in a club, sort of defeats entire purpose of even going there. Like the looks are so important, and hiding face is just suicide imo.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Thank you all for coming and your writings.
Hope this will influence me somehow in a positive way in the upcoming future.
Tbh just can't forget about that snug seat belt.

 

[RAITEIII]

How do you deal with such things?
I know you can ignore it, or do things that will distract you. That's not what I'm asking. Your position doesn't change, only worsens in those cases - neglecting an issue.
The solution is to become not lonely and happy, but how? Life seems overly futile, despite me giving the best I can.
I have many ropes, so ye whatever. Imo seat belt is much better option. Literally built to hold you and is rather snuggly and soft.

1) Look good (not just face)

2) Have decent amount of money for the things you wanna do

3) Something to look forward

4) a new start. Everytime I change to a new place I grow as a person and don't feel depressed. Because it's something new. A new place. New people. New projects that you can do...

You see like rotting makes you depressed? Being ALWAYS in the same environment can cause this effect. It's just a bigger cage.

 

[Rabbi]

My hair follicles are lonely