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Tldr: hair = life
August 21, 2004 at 1:09 pm
Last reply: 17:47
Hello girls.
I have been reading to you for a while and I have decided to share my problem with you.
Been with a boyfriend, Andrea, for three years. We even knew each other before, but love blossomed at the end of university (economics for both). The first year everything went smoothly, but about two years ago, my boyfriend started losing his hair. The thing was as surprising (there is no bald in his family) as fast, so much so that within a year and a half he found himself with a very conspicuous receding hairline. Not that he was long-haired before, he had very fine blond hair but also thick. At the beginning of this year, fed up with the situation, he cut himself to zero, as many do (Yul Brinner style). He hasn't even asked for my opinion, obviously sure I like it even so. The fact is that things are different.
He has a slightly irregular face, which with hair became pleasant but so ... The problem is that, apart from the aesthetic factor, he is always the same, indeed over the years he has become not only sweet, romantic and witty ( always has been) but also more mature than the average (he is 28 years old).
Nevertheless I decided to leave him, it doesn't seem right, not even for him, to continue this situation: please don't consider me too superficial, but I can't be with someone I don't like anymore. As if that weren't enough, the situation is aggravated by the attitude of my mother (who keeps repeating to me "But with all the beautiful boys around, you really had to get a bald one" or "Woe to you if you bring me a destined grandchild home to become bald! ") and my friends (among whom I went from the condition if not envied but still privileged to that of pity: all to tell me" You could have much better ").
Last but not least, a colleague of mine, very charming, made me understand that he would like to deepen my knowledge ... it is not for this reason however (which is the classic "one hit and go" type I have no illusions) that I decided to end the story.
I respect Andrea too much, even if I no longer love him, to betray him, also because I know that he would never do it.
So I have long ago decided to leave him, but I would like to do it in the most painless way for him. I understand of course that there is no way not to make him suffer, but I don't want to tell him "I don't want you anymore because you have become ugly".
Is there anyone who has been in a similar situation or feels able to give me advice?
August 21, 2004 at 1:09 pm
Last reply: 17:47
Hello girls.
I have been reading to you for a while and I have decided to share my problem with you.
Been with a boyfriend, Andrea, for three years. We even knew each other before, but love blossomed at the end of university (economics for both). The first year everything went smoothly, but about two years ago, my boyfriend started losing his hair. The thing was as surprising (there is no bald in his family) as fast, so much so that within a year and a half he found himself with a very conspicuous receding hairline. Not that he was long-haired before, he had very fine blond hair but also thick. At the beginning of this year, fed up with the situation, he cut himself to zero, as many do (Yul Brinner style). He hasn't even asked for my opinion, obviously sure I like it even so. The fact is that things are different.
He has a slightly irregular face, which with hair became pleasant but so ... The problem is that, apart from the aesthetic factor, he is always the same, indeed over the years he has become not only sweet, romantic and witty ( always has been) but also more mature than the average (he is 28 years old).
Nevertheless I decided to leave him, it doesn't seem right, not even for him, to continue this situation: please don't consider me too superficial, but I can't be with someone I don't like anymore. As if that weren't enough, the situation is aggravated by the attitude of my mother (who keeps repeating to me "But with all the beautiful boys around, you really had to get a bald one" or "Woe to you if you bring me a destined grandchild home to become bald! ") and my friends (among whom I went from the condition if not envied but still privileged to that of pity: all to tell me" You could have much better ").
Last but not least, a colleague of mine, very charming, made me understand that he would like to deepen my knowledge ... it is not for this reason however (which is the classic "one hit and go" type I have no illusions) that I decided to end the story.
I respect Andrea too much, even if I no longer love him, to betray him, also because I know that he would never do it.
So I have long ago decided to leave him, but I would like to do it in the most painless way for him. I understand of course that there is no way not to make him suffer, but I don't want to tell him "I don't want you anymore because you have become ugly".
Is there anyone who has been in a similar situation or feels able to give me advice?
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