Looking for a girlfriend while I have a girlfriend

[LightSkinNoob]

As I've entered my first black pill relationship, I've realised that as men we also have to practice hypergamy if were good-looking enough, my current gf white, skinny, young, HTB, is all right however her personality and hobbies aren't ideal for me, even though wanting more then this is an effort it'll be worth it long term, ideally, I'll keep meeting/putting myself out there, meet a girl, date her for 2-4 months, make her my 'girlfriend' and break up with my current 'useless' one.

Thoughts on us as men being hypergamous...

 

[AspiringMogger]

As I've entered my first black pill relationship, I've realised that as men we also have to practice hypergamy if were good-looking enough, my current gf white, skinny, young, HTB, is all right however her personality and hobbies aren't ideal for me, even though wanting more then this is an effort it'll be worth it long term, ideally, I'll keep meeting/putting myself out there, meet a girl, date her for 2-4 months, make her my 'girlfriend' and break up with my current 'useless' one.

Thoughts on us as men being hypergamous...

It sounds like a good idea. When men get comfortable they stagnate, and most men get comfortable too easily.

Let’s say you got an unideal job but it isn’t bad enough for you to warrant leaving, it’s not good enough for you to work there in the long run but it’s good enough for now. Before you know it you will have wasted 5+ years working that job because it wasn’t bad enough for you to leave. It’s the same with women, most men will stay in unideal relationships because they’ve found comfort in the unideal and it would be too taxing to try and leave it.

 

[LightSkinNoob]

It sounds like a good idea. When men get comfortable they stagnate, and most men get comfortable too easily.

Let’s say you got an unideal job but it isn’t bad enough for you to warrant leaving, it’s not good enough for you to work there in the long run but it’s good enough for now. Before you know it you will have wasted 5+ years working that job because it wasn’t bad enough for you to leave. It’s the same with women, most men will stay in unideal relationships because they’ve found comfort in the unideal and it would be too taxing to try and leave it.

Yeah, the importance of taking looksmaxxing seriously in the haven of an LTR is key to using your time right, the week before I entered a relationship with this girl I started bulking in a slight surplus and increased my working hours per week (to afford surgery sonner) ideally, this lasts 8-14 months by which time I’ll have gone under the knife and completed a successful bulk, adding 0.5-1 points to my SMV, allowing me to get a better gf without any lost time (as I was getting a gf experience and actively cheating)

 

[AspiringMogger]

Yeah, the importance of taking looksmaxxing seriously in the haven of an LTR is key to using your time right, the week before I entered a relationship with this girl I started bulking in a slight surplus and increased my working hours per week (to afford surgery sonner) ideally, this lasts 8-14 months by which time I’ll have gone under the knife and completed a successful bulk, adding 0.5-1 points to my SMV, allowing me to get a better gf without any lost time (as I was getting a gf experience and actively cheating)

Mirin dedication and low inhib, I’m not gonna lie though this seems very sociopathic, but as long as you are happy that’s what matters.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

If you have a job alreadykeep applying for better ones

 

[DefinitelyNT]

Why not take it one psychopathic step further and change her personality/hobbies?

 

[Deleted member 28904]

I could never

 

[forevermirin]

Why not take it one psychopathic step further and change her personality/hobbies?

And then cheat on her anyway

 

[Deleted member 20399]

As I've entered my first black pill relationship, I've realised that as men we also have to practice hypergamy if were good-looking enough, my current gf white, skinny, young, HTB, is all right however her personality and hobbies aren't ideal for me, even though wanting more then this is an effort it'll be worth it long term, ideally, I'll keep meeting/putting myself out there, meet a girl, date her for 2-4 months, make her my 'girlfriend' and break up with my current 'useless' one.

Thoughts on us as men being hypergamous...

Mf said her hobbies aren’t ideal for me

 

[Deleted member 1140]

i also look for validation and flirts ever since i was in a relationship for a year or so

but i wouldnt cheat or leave

 

[Guba]

I did this, and while my new gf is "objectively" an upgrade in many respects, I still feel like the devil for what I did. Wish I could turn back time ngl and not commit such sin. I guess I'm not psycho enough for this kind of stuff. Maybe the feeling will fade and I will feel better about things some day. I do not recommend it at all. At least be a man and properly leave your gf before looking for a new one.

 

[xtremfailer]

For years I pursued slaying with relatively little success (low tier and unfrequent slays mostly), and now I've come to realize that the best strategy for HTNs is to get a gf you mog and be always open to accept a substitute. If you're not an evident chad, who is assumed to be single or engaged voluntarily, being single for too long will negatively impact your status as you'll be perceived as non-desirable by women. If you can, get a gf, and forget about her being looksmatched, that window will open eventually

 

[TITUS]

You should always have hoes on the side if you can afford it.

 

[russwestbrook]

in a similar spot with a new girl. cant let urself isolate on her too much, and most importantly she has to know and be aware other girls are into you.

 

[russwestbrook]

I did this, and while my new gf is "objectively" an upgrade in many respects, I still feel like the devil for what I did. Wish I could turn back time ngl and not commit such sin. I guess I'm not psycho enough for this kind of stuff. Maybe the feeling will fade and I will feel better about things some day. I do not recommend it at all. At least be a man and properly leave your gf before looking for a new one.

being selfish>

 

[Primalsplit]

As I've entered my first black pill relationship, I've realised that as men we also have to practice hypergamy if were good-looking enough, my current gf white, skinny, young, HTB, is all right however her personality and hobbies aren't ideal for me, even though wanting more then this is an effort it'll be worth it long term, ideally, I'll keep meeting/putting myself out there, meet a girl, date her for 2-4 months, make her my 'girlfriend' and break up with my current 'useless' one.

Thoughts on us as men being hypergamous...

Based monkey branchmaxxing

 

[infini]

As I've entered my first black pill relationship, I've realised that as men we also have to practice hypergamy if were good-looking enough, my current gf white, skinny, young, HTB, is all right however her personality and hobbies aren't ideal for me, even though wanting more then this is an effort it'll be worth it long term, ideally, I'll keep meeting/putting myself out there, meet a girl, date her for 2-4 months, make her my 'girlfriend' and break up with my current 'useless' one.

Thoughts on us as men being hypergamous...

It's difficult the longer you're with someone. I've been with the same girl for 10 years and soon getting blackpilled I pushed her beyond her limits. My potential ex made me wonder what the point of slaying is if you're happy. See how it goes. I mean can't a girl like yours just ascend hobby/personality branch out and max out more?

 

[Deleted member 21403]

Mf said her hobbies aren’t ideal for me

unless her hobbies are clubbing or something degenerate this thought is so bluepilled. Its legit what normies think though because ive heard some bluepilled guys say they want their hobbies to align.

 

[Deleted member 16203]

Mf said her hobbies aren’t ideal for me

he's one of these weirdos that has to spend every free hour with his chick, probably also brings her to a night out with his boys, just to annoy all of his friends

 

[Deleted member 30593]

As I've entered my first black pill relationship, I've realised that as men we also have to practice hypergamy if were good-looking enough, my current gf white, skinny, young, HTB, is all right however her personality and hobbies aren't ideal for me, even though wanting more then this is an effort it'll be worth it long term, ideally, I'll keep meeting/putting myself out there, meet a girl, date her for 2-4 months, make her my 'girlfriend' and break up with my current 'useless' one.

Thoughts on us as men being hypergamous...

Don't make her your "official" girlfriend it will become "unethical" for you to talk to other girls at the same time just keep things lowkey and casual with several girls at a time, trust me it's way eaiser than having 1 of them as your girlfriend then when you've explored your options then pick the girl you want to be with

 

[LightSkinNoob]

Why not take it one psychopathic step further and change her personality/hobbies?

And then cheat on her anyway

Yeah currently working on tweaking her hobbies but her hoe friends are a bother and I’d rather not directly interact with these whores as they’ll probs cause problems if they realise what I’m trying to do

Cheat irrespective of the situation

 

[Moggedbyevery1]

What too much power does to a man

 

[Clown Show]

Foids are doing that daily, so I see no problem with it.