looks =/= everything, my oneitis is the proof

[hopecel]

she's a high LTB/low MTB and her bff is a legit cute HTB (they're both a similar type of girl in terms of style/personality)

and her bff kinda 'notices' me more than my oneitis does, maybe I would even have better chances with the bff? saw her at the entrance of the uni few times yesterday and she stared at me (maybe because we have kinda similar style?) and she seemed the same way as my oneitis used to seem to me, cold and unapproachable, visibly lonely but always on her phone when she's smoking... if I only knew if they're just as miserable as I am or do they actually have relationships and life? I mean idc about the bff but if I knew more things about her, that would tell me a lot about my oneitis... at least, they both have some social circle (a few of alt girls) while I have no one except one loser "friend" (actually a colleague) while another giga-loser "friend" moved from my city so now I'm even more lonely than I used to be 2-3 years ago when I first met her

but yeah even if that was the case (if I really have better chances with the bff) I'm still obsessed with my oneitis

looks <<< something else

 

[eternalcoper]

shrek

 

[hopecel]

@TheVoidInside @twojei @Primalsplit @BoredPrince @Lefty Rankin

 

[Jason Voorhees]

All white girls thag are young and slim start at HTB

 

[hopecel]

All white girls thag are young and slim start at HTB

Hindu take tbh @St.TikTokcel

 

[hopecel]

@Bomber517 @Xangsane @Archimedes

 

[Sprinkles]

she's a high LTB/low MTB and her bff is a legit cute HTB (they're both a similar type of girl in terms of style/personality)

and her bff kinda 'notices' me more than my oneitis does, maybe I would even have better chances with the bff? saw her at the entrance of the uni few times yesterday and she stared at me (maybe because we have kinda similar style?) and she seemed the same way as my oneitis used to seem to me, cold and unapproachable, visibly lonely but always on her phone when she's smoking... if I only knew if they're just as miserable as I am or do they actually have relationships and life? I mean idc about the bff but if I knew more things about her, that would tell me a lot about my oneitis... at least, they both have some social circle (a few of alt girls) while I have no one except one loser "friend" (actually a colleague) while another giga-loser "friend" moved from my city so now I'm even more lonely than I used to be 2-3 years ago when I first met her

but yeah even if that was the case (if I really have better chances with the bff) I'm still obsessed with my oneitis

looks <<< something else

you’re first mistake was having a oneitis

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Hindu take tbh @St.TikTokcel

Half trolling half serious take

 

[Imaloser7754]

she's a high LTB/low MTB and her bff is a legit cute HTB (they're both a similar type of girl in terms of style/personality)

and her bff kinda 'notices' me more than my oneitis does, maybe I would even have better chances with the bff? saw her at the entrance of the uni few times yesterday and she stared at me (maybe because we have kinda similar style?) and she seemed the same way as my oneitis used to seem to me, cold and unapproachable, visibly lonely but always on her phone when she's smoking... if I only knew if they're just as miserable as I am or do they actually have relationships and life? I mean idc about the bff but if I knew more things about her, that would tell me a lot about my oneitis... at least, they both have some social circle (a few of alt girls) while I have no one except one loser "friend" (actually a colleague) while another giga-loser "friend" moved from my city so now I'm even more lonely than I used to be 2-3 years ago when I first met her

but yeah even if that was the case (if I really have better chances with the bff) I'm still obsessed with my oneitis

looks <<< something else

The HTB in question

 

[hopecel]

you’re first mistake was having a oneitis

I can't control my feelings sir

Half trolling half serious take

white women aren't special and we're not even the actual whites

The HTB in question View attachment 3756077

she looks like this

 

[sigma boii]

Just send the picture of her

 

[hopecel]

Just send the picture of her

I don't have it lol... I don't even know her bff's name

she looks like the girl in the post above yours

 

[sigma boii]

I don't have it lol... I don't even know her bff's name

she looks like the girl in the post above yours

Doesn't look like the type to date brown bois

 

[hopecel]

Doesn't look like the type to date brown bois

we're all brown here where I live

having blond hair sets you apart

 

[Deleted member 128803]

@TheVoidInside @twojei @Primalsplit @BoredPrince @Lefty Rankin

have ever even talked with these women OP?

 

[Primalsplit]

have ever even talked with these women OP?

I don't get it. Does he want me to make fun of him? Maybe you can help me in understanding him better.

 

[truecel_4]

have ever even talked with these women OP?

Don’t think so it’s probably all in his head

 

[TiktokUser]

she's a high LTB/low MTB and her bff is a legit cute HTB (they're both a similar type of girl in terms of style/personality)

and her bff kinda 'notices' me more than my oneitis does, maybe I would even have better chances with the bff? saw her at the entrance of the uni few times yesterday and she stared at me (maybe because we have kinda similar style?) and she seemed the same way as my oneitis used to seem to me, cold and unapproachable, visibly lonely but always on her phone when she's smoking... if I only knew if they're just as miserable as I am or do they actually have relationships and life? I mean idc about the bff but if I knew more things about her, that would tell me a lot about my oneitis... at least, they both have some social circle (a few of alt girls) while I have no one except one loser "friend" (actually a colleague) while another giga-loser "friend" moved from my city so now I'm even more lonely than I used to be 2-3 years ago when I first met her

but yeah even if that was the case (if I really have better chances with the bff) I'm still obsessed with my oneitis

looks <<< something else

what kind of schizo rambling is this?!

You haven’t even uttered a single word to any them, yet you’re still making up pajeet fan fictions

 

[TiktokUser]

have ever even talked with these women OP?

I never thought @TheVoidInside could be topped

You know it’s over for you when even void is clowning on you

 

[hopecel]

have ever even talked with these women OP?

no never except with my oneitis when she asked me to borrow her a pencil during test and that was when I fell in love with her

we didn't talk to each other since then

I don't get it. Does he want me to make fun of him? Maybe you can help me in understanding him better.

wdym bro? why would you make fun of me?

Don’t think so it’s probably all in his head

true that

how can I overcome it?

what kind of schizo rambling is this?!

You haven’t even uttered a single word to any them, yet you’re still making up pajeet fan fictions

they notice me I think they dream about me but don't wanna approach me cuz they're shy

 

[truecel_4]

no never except with my oneitis when she asked me to borrow her a pencil during test and that was when I fell in love with her
we didn't talk to each other since then

they notice me I think they dream about me but don't wanna approach me cuz they're shy

Schizo.org . If they actually wanted you they would’ve at least tried to approach to you

 

[Debetro]

Is she black?

 

[BoredPrince]

Since you don't really have a "reputation", then simply approach her and see how it goes

If she rejects you, at least you will stop obsessing over her

 

[Deleted member 128803]

no never except with my oneitis when she asked me to borrow her a pencil during test and that was when I fell in love with her

and why dont you talk to her instead of mentall y mastubrating over these gay scenarios?

 

[Deleted member 128803]

You know it’s over for you when even void is clowning on you

at least i got a personal demonstration

 

[Deleted member 128803]

Don’t think so it’s probably all in his head

mogs me

 

[hopecel]

Schizo.org . If they actually wanted you they would’ve at least tried to approach to you

they're shy just like me I'm sure they at very least know who I am

I know my oneitis thinks about me despite not knowing my name

Is she black?

not black, why would you ask me this?

Since you don't really have a "reputation", then simply approach her and see how it goes

I have no reputation but I'd be seen as a creep and normies would laugh at me

If she rejects you, at least you will stop obsessing over her

I don't think I will stop obsessing instead of that I'd feel pathetic if she rejects me... how can I cope?

 

[Deleted member 128803]

I don't get it. Does he want me to make fun of him? Maybe you can help me in understanding him better.

you cant even make fun of him because you dont have any input from his love interest to use against him. he just beats himself up over a grl that hasnt even rejected him

 

[BoredPrince]

they're shy just like me I'm sure they at very least know who I am

Even better, shy girl appreciate you making the first step more than popular ones

I have no reputation but I'd be seen as a creep and normies would laugh at me

That's called anxiety, you're overthinking it

I don't think I will stop obsessing instead of that I'd feel pathetic if she rejects me... how can I cope?

Then you approach her bff

 

[hopecel]

and why dont you talk to her instead of mentall y mastubrating over these gay scenarios?

I don't have a chance to talk to her.. if she had stayed in my major I'd maybe have had a chance but now when I barely see her, how can I approach her? impossible

mogs me

how? you at least have a chance to try while I don't

it really is all in my head but what else can I do? I can't make her available for me

Even better, shy girl appreciate you making the first step more than popular ones

that's true tbh

That's called anxiety, you're overthinking it

yeah but I'm a legit dork, normies by default see me as a weirdo

Then you approach her bff

I'd feel even worse if I had to act like I like her and not my oneitis

 

[Primalsplit]

no never except with my oneitis when she asked me to borrow her a pencil during test and that was when I fell in love with her

we didn't talk to each other since then

wdym bro? why would you make fun of me?

true that

how can I overcome it?

they notice me I think they dream about me but don't wanna approach me cuz they're shy

they're shy just like me I'm sure they at very least know who I am

I know my oneitis thinks about me despite not knowing my name

not black, why would you ask me this?

I have no reputation but I'd be seen as a creep and normies would laugh at me

I don't think I will stop obsessing instead of that I'd feel pathetic if she rejects me... how can I cope?

I don't have a chance to talk to her.. if she had stayed in my major I'd maybe have had a chance but now when I barely see her, how can I approach her? impossible

how? you at least have a chance to try while I don't

it really is all in my head but what else can I do? I can't make her available for me

that's true tbh

yeah but I'm a legit dork, normies by default see me as a weirdo

I'd feel even worse if I had to act like I like her and not my oneitis

Lol. You are clearly begging to be made fun of at this point.

The problem you have is, you have too much hope and too little substance. You don't want to try your chance because you don't want to lose your hope if she rejects you. Dropping your chance to a net 0%. It's all very counterproductive.

The truth is, based on the way you write you will never get her. You need to act and think like a cornered animal. You need to lose hope for the future and focus on the present moment. You need to be realistic. You don't have a future. So if you have a 1% chance, you need to take that chance. That's what a smart gambler would do.

But I know for a fact that you will not do that. You're still very naive and you think you can afford to be a coward.

 

[Deleted member 128803]

I don't have a chance to talk to her.. if she had stayed in my major I'd maybe have had a chance but now when I barely see her, how can I approach her? impossible

instagram?

how? you at least have a chance to try while I don't

true, i can always upvote her ig pics and comment "mommy" under it @Primalsplit . I think that will win her heart

 

[Deleted member 128803]

. You're still very naive and you think you can afford to be a coward.

and his itis sounds like she isnt particularly vindictive

 

[Primalsplit]

and his itis sounds like she isnt particularly vindictive

Every woman is vindictive to men they deem weak.

Which he clearly is btw.

 

[Deleted member 128803]

Every woman is vindictive to men they deem weak.

since when did my old itis become "eveyr woman" lol?

Which he clearly is btw.

sounds like she can give him a heart attack if she wants lol

 

[Archimedes]

Schizo.org . If they actually wanted you they would’ve at least tried to approach to you

Approaching isn't even a guarantee either. I've been approached by girls just because they wanted to turn me into an orbiter, and these girls would do it to other guys too.

 

[Archimedes]

I'm sorry bro but you HAVE to get over your oneitis. I promise she's just like all the others and judges you for your inability to be social and start conversations. From a woman's perspective, if you were her BF she would want to do a bunch of social activities with you and her friend group like going to the movies or hanging out at one of your houses, which she will judge an autist incapable of doing well and giving a good impression to your friends.

 

[hopecel]

Lol. You are clearly begging to be made fun of at this point.

The problem you have is, you have too much hope and too little substance. You don't want to try your chance because you don't want to lose your hope if she rejects you. Dropping your chance to a net 0%. It's all very counterproductive.

The truth is, based on the way you write you will never get her. You need to act and think like a cornered animal. You need to lose hope for the future and focus on the present moment. You need to be realistic. You don't have a future. So if you have a 1% chance, you need to take that chance. That's what a smart gambler would do.

But I know for a fact that you will not do that. You're still very naive and you think you can afford to be a coward.

you're 100% right about me, maybe my hope is just too delusional and based on my dreams and not on reality

but you know what? what shaped my mindset this way is my lack of confidence due to my deformed appearance... if I looked like I was supposed to look, I wouldn't be insecure and I'd be able to act the way I wanna act... you get what I mean? I'm too ugly which stops me from making moves because I overthink it, I'm aware of my failos and I predict possible unsuccess before even trying

what do you recommend to me then? is it smart to make moves before 'ascension'? (which is unlikely to happen soon since it hasn't happened for 3 years of my hopecelling)

instagram?

I found it but how can I add her? it would be beyond creepy, she didn't even know me and she didn't give it to me

I found her insta by stalking her acquaintance she'd see me as a stalker creep and it would be a massive turn off

true, i can always upvote her ig pics and comment "mommy" under it @Primalsplit . I think that will win her heart

she will eventually give you a chance

and his itis sounds like she isnt particularly vindictive

I don't really know that... she's mysterious and I don't know anything about her personality... yes I know her interests and I can assume what her life looks like but other than that, I didn't get to know her better

Every woman is vindictive to men they deem weak.

Which he clearly is btw.

she has no reason to hate me... even if I approached her and confessed my feelings to her, I don't think she'd hate me for that

but yeah if she considered me a weak man, she'd probably just be cold to me and make it clear to me that she doesn't like me back


my oneitis doesn't seem to be some bad bitch that bullies incels who simp for her, she gives me a nice girl vibes

sounds like she can give him a heart attack if she wants lol

she could do that, but unintentionally

I'd melt if she showed me even the slightest IOI ever

 

[hopecel]

Approaching isn't even a guarantee either. I've been approached by girls just because they wanted to turn me into an orbiter, and these girls would do it to other guys too.

makes sense but these two girls (my oneitis and her bff) don't seem to be some attention seekers who crave male attention

yes they're eccentric but I don't think they need male validation... they'd approach someone only if they liked him

I'm sorry bro but you HAVE to get over your oneitis. I promise she's just like all the others and judges you for your inability to be social and start conversations. From a woman's perspective, if you were her BF she would want to do a bunch of social activities with you and her friend group like going to the movies or hanging out at one of your houses, which she will judge an autist incapable of doing well and giving a good impression to your friends.

'thank you' for this brutal blackpill brother then what am I supposed to do? yes I'm a no lifer and yes she probably has such expectations for relationship but what can I ever do about that? is my only hope finding a total outcast asocial loser gf and forgetting my oneitis?

I mean she's an introvert too and I don't think she minds it if I don't have a big social circle but still shy women tend to demand outgoing men who they could feel secure and safe with she needs a man who has experience and I don't have any so yeah, my dreams about her are far from reality - in reality I'm not ready for relationship, I'm immature and I haven't done anything with my life but it's not like I can forget her, you can't do that with your oneitis... she will stay in my head forever, especially since I never ever got to actually try something with her, I never ever was important to her as she is to me

I mean you're probably right about everything but what can I do anymore bro? is there anything I can do?

and let me tell you something, she STATUSMOGS me to oblivion... her family and my family, we're nowhere at the same level.. she lives in a top tier aparment on a top tier location meanwhile I'm a broke loser without any property in the city where I'm unicucking

even if she liked me phyqically (which is unlikely to be the case), why would she settle for less?

 

[Primalsplit]

you're 100% right about me, maybe my hope is just too delusional and based on my dreams and not on reality

but you know what? what shaped my mindset this way is my lack of confidence due to my deformed appearance... if I looked like I was supposed to look, I wouldn't be insecure and I'd be able to act the way I wanna act... you get what I mean? I'm too ugly which stops me from making moves because I overthink it, I'm aware of my failos and I predict possible unsuccess before even trying

what do you recommend to me then? is it smart to make moves before 'ascension'? (which is unlikely to happen soon since it hasn't happened for 3 years of my hopecelling)

I found it but how can I add her? it would be beyond creepy, she didn't even know me and she didn't give it to me

I found her insta by stalking her acquaintance she'd see me as a stalker creep and it would be a massive turn off

she will eventually give you a chance

I don't really know that... she's mysterious and I don't know anything about her personality... yes I know her interests and I can assume what her life looks like but other than that, I didn't get to know her better

she has no reason to hate me... even if I approached her and confessed my feelings to her, I don't think she'd hate me for that

but yeah if she considered me a weak man, she'd probably just be cold to me and make it clear to me that she doesn't like me back


my oneitis doesn't seem to be some bad bitch that bullies incels who simp for her, she gives me a nice girl vibes

she could do that, but unintentionally

I'd melt if she showed me even the slightest IOI ever

Can you not do something about the thing which makes you insecure? Maybe if you could improve your looks, your confidence would improve too?

 

[hopecel]

Can you not do something about the thing which makes you insecure? Maybe if you could improve your looks, your confidence would improve too?

it absolutely would improve after my ascension but the thing is, my ascension is unlikely to happen since I need a lot of money (and not even for actual hardmaxxes like surgeries but for advanced orthodontics because I have a truecel-tier smile/occlusion)

if only I had money, I'd have known what to do with my life but either way, no ascension can buy me the lost time... how to cope with that?

 

[LTNUser]

How old are you now OP

 

[hopecel]

How old are you now OP

21

 

[EmEn]

All white girls thag are young and slim start at HTB

Are you brown?

 

[Primalsplit]

it absolutely would improve after my ascension but the thing is, my ascension is unlikely to happen since I need a lot of money (and not even for actual hardmaxxes like surgeries but for advanced orthodontics because I have a truecel-tier smile/occlusion)

if only I had money, I'd have known what to do with my life but either way, no ascension can buy me the lost time... how to cope with that?

Why not just try softmaxxing and see where it goes?

 

[hopecel]

Are you brown?

he's black @Jason Voorhees

Why not just try softmaxxing and see where it goes?

well what softmaxxes? I hairmaxxed, I'm lean (as I always have been), I dietmaxxed and improved T levels, also my skin isn't full of pimples anymore (it's not ideal tho), I stylemaxxed...
yeah I maybe COULD try skincare for better skin around nose and mouth but honestly, would that change anything?

what else can I do? and better question would be: is there anything that you can compensate with for having a truecel smile?

 

[Archimedes]

makes sense but these two girls (my oneitis and her bff) don't seem to be some attention seekers who crave male attention

yes they're eccentric but I don't think they need male validation... they'd approach someone only if they liked him

'thank you' for this brutal blackpill brother then what am I supposed to do? yes I'm a no lifer and yes she probably has such expectations for relationship but what can I ever do about that? is my only hope finding a total outcast asocial loser gf and forgetting my oneitis?

I mean she's an introvert too and I don't think she minds it if I don't have a big social circle but still shy women tend to demand outgoing men who they could feel secure and safe with she needs a man who has experience and I don't have any so yeah, my dreams about her are far from reality - in reality I'm not ready for relationship, I'm immature and I haven't done anything with my life but it's not like I can forget her, you can't do that with your oneitis... she will stay in my head forever, especially since I never ever got to actually try something with her, I never ever was important to her as she is to me

I mean you're probably right about everything but what can I do anymore bro? is there anything I can do?

and let me tell you something, she STATUSMOGS me to oblivion... her family and my family, we're nowhere at the same level.. she lives in a top tier aparment on a top tier location meanwhile I'm a broke loser without any property in the city where I'm unicucking

even if she liked me phyqically (which is unlikely to be the case), why would she settle for less?

Probably true that being approached means shes interested in you somewhat but for women that can change based on their mood. Especially if you reveal failos which is inevitable.

'Oneitis' is actually just love, its brutal our first loves are like this.

I'm not saying don't go for it, either way your material reality is the same so anything that improves your chances is justified. But if you don't intend to escalate soon then being on the sidelines and loving this woman who barley knows you is just turbo brutal.

 

[hopecel]

Probably true that being approached means shes interested in you somewhat but for women that can change based on their mood. Especially if you reveal failos which is inevitable.

'Oneitis' is actually just love, its brutal our first loves are like this.

I'm not saying don't go for it, either way your material reality is the same so anything that improves your chances is justified. But if you don't intend to escalate soon then being on the sidelines and loving this woman who barley knows you is just turbo brutal.

there's nothing I can do to change my situation rapidly

I've already wasted 3 years so now I just gotta get over her...