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Kraken
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Had a discussion with my fwb turned gf turned fwb and then i got rejected.
Anyways, I asked her what she really liked about me, what made her fall for me.
And she said it was because I appeared confident our first date and she loved that energy. But when I confessed to her later that I had struggles, insecurities, difficulties, and she realized I wasn't the confident person I looked like, she lost attraction.
So what can I conclude from this? You need to look/appear confident and keep up that look/appeal. Obviously your real confidence doesn't matter, since I was never confident and only appeared confident.
Aka looks, = physical attractiveness is the most important thing.
Checkmate personality-incels.
Anyways, I asked her what she really liked about me, what made her fall for me.
And she said it was because I appeared confident our first date and she loved that energy. But when I confessed to her later that I had struggles, insecurities, difficulties, and she realized I wasn't the confident person I looked like, she lost attraction.
So what can I conclude from this? You need to look/appear confident and keep up that look/appeal. Obviously your real confidence doesn't matter, since I was never confident and only appeared confident.
Aka looks, = physical attractiveness is the most important thing.
Checkmate personality-incels.