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I'll make this quick because I know most of y'all don't like reading.
I had a oneitis (y'all brutally burned her here) , and she ended up being an extremely toxic bitch. I also have some friends, who haven't really supported me in getting over her / or just lightly saying "yeah bro its ok shes not all that".
Thing is, they're following her, liking all her posts, giving her so much validation (she gets so much validation from Instagram, she has more followers than following and she's on Public Figure mode). So I just asked them, as bros, "hey can you guys unfollow her and not like her photos n stuff for me?" She ain't following them back too
They told me to "shut up" and it's "my decision". I asked them this twice. One 2 weeks ago, and one today. They said the same thing.
However, I just don't rlly want friends like that. They KNOW how uncomfortable it makes me and I told them everything, I also told them I don't want friends who would be fake and do stuff like this and just not support me in general, so I decided to cut them off.
So looksmax, Am i the asshole in cutting them off? I wasn't getting anything out of our friendship and they weren't supporting me.
And what would you guys have done in either my situation or my friends?
Tagging friends that might help @thecel @RAITEIII @Pussyslayer
I had a oneitis (y'all brutally burned her here) , and she ended up being an extremely toxic bitch. I also have some friends, who haven't really supported me in getting over her / or just lightly saying "yeah bro its ok shes not all that".
Thing is, they're following her, liking all her posts, giving her so much validation (she gets so much validation from Instagram, she has more followers than following and she's on Public Figure mode). So I just asked them, as bros, "hey can you guys unfollow her and not like her photos n stuff for me?" She ain't following them back too
They told me to "shut up" and it's "my decision". I asked them this twice. One 2 weeks ago, and one today. They said the same thing.
However, I just don't rlly want friends like that. They KNOW how uncomfortable it makes me and I told them everything, I also told them I don't want friends who would be fake and do stuff like this and just not support me in general, so I decided to cut them off.
So looksmax, Am i the asshole in cutting them off? I wasn't getting anything out of our friendship and they weren't supporting me.
And what would you guys have done in either my situation or my friends?
Tagging friends that might help @thecel @RAITEIII @Pussyslayer
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