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veryplump67
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bro the whole looksism shit is so fucking different for girls compared to dudes 
people act like guys and girls are starting from the exact same position when theyre not even close from my perspective
girls are born with certain physical traits that are already considered attractive and already contribute to their SMV. they dont have to build every single part of their appeal from scratch. a dude can literally be born with none of the traits people find attractive and then spend years trying to compensate for it
thats why i dont understand when foids get into looksmaxing and act like theyre going through the same shit. a guy has to be born tall, have a naturally good face, have good proportions, good hair, good genetics, or spend years trying to maximize whatever he has. you have to gymmax, looksmax, stylemax, socialmax, whatever the fuck just to get yourself above average
girls can literally train and improve their appearance too, obviously, but from the way i see it they already have a baseline that guys are constantly trying to reach. they can improve on something for a fraction of the time and still get results because theyre starting with traits that already contribute to their appeal
and thats what makes the whole thing so fucking frustrating. an average dude doesnt get to just exist and automatically have people interested in him. if youre not attractive, females will literally just not give a fuck about you
ive lived that shit. just being completely ignored. nobody approaching you, nobody showing interest, nobody really giving you that attention. and its not even like i desperately need a relationship or some fucking girlfriend. thats not even the point
i want attention too. i want people to actually notice me. i want to feel like i exist socially instead of being some background character that nobody gives a fuck about
and thats what people dont understand when they say “just be confident” or “just have a good personality.” bro i can do all that and still be an average dude. none of that automatically changes how people perceive your appearance
you can be funny, nice, respectful, interesting, have good social skills, whatever, and if youre not attractive enough, females can still completely overlook you
meanwhile a girl can have certain traits naturally that give her baseline appeal without having to spend years building them. thats the difference im talking about
guys have to maximize. thats literally the fucking game. either you were born with the parts that are considered attractive or you spend years trying to build, improve, compensate and maximize everything you possibly can
heightmax, gymmax, looksmax, stylemax, socialmax, everythingmax
and even after doing all that you can still just end up average
thats why i think girls have it easier when it comes to looksism. im not saying every girl has an easy life or that every girl is attractive. im saying the average female starts with advantages that an average male has to work his ass off to create
and then foids get into looksmaxing and im just sitting there like bro you dont understand why dudes are so obsessed with this shit
for an average guy, being above average isnt just some nice bonus. it can completely change how people treat you and how much attention you get
thats what im actually pissed about. not even relationships specifically. i dont need some fucking love story. i just want to know what its like to actually get attention without having to spend years maximizing every part of myself just to get noticed
because when youre an average dude, being invisible can become your normal
and thats the part nobody wants to fucking talk about
people act like guys and girls are starting from the exact same position when theyre not even close from my perspectivegirls are born with certain physical traits that are already considered attractive and already contribute to their SMV. they dont have to build every single part of their appeal from scratch. a dude can literally be born with none of the traits people find attractive and then spend years trying to compensate for it
thats why i dont understand when foids get into looksmaxing and act like theyre going through the same shit. a guy has to be born tall, have a naturally good face, have good proportions, good hair, good genetics, or spend years trying to maximize whatever he has. you have to gymmax, looksmax, stylemax, socialmax, whatever the fuck just to get yourself above average
girls can literally train and improve their appearance too, obviously, but from the way i see it they already have a baseline that guys are constantly trying to reach. they can improve on something for a fraction of the time and still get results because theyre starting with traits that already contribute to their appeal
and thats what makes the whole thing so fucking frustrating. an average dude doesnt get to just exist and automatically have people interested in him. if youre not attractive, females will literally just not give a fuck about you
ive lived that shit. just being completely ignored. nobody approaching you, nobody showing interest, nobody really giving you that attention. and its not even like i desperately need a relationship or some fucking girlfriend. thats not even the point
i want attention too. i want people to actually notice me. i want to feel like i exist socially instead of being some background character that nobody gives a fuck about
and thats what people dont understand when they say “just be confident” or “just have a good personality.” bro i can do all that and still be an average dude. none of that automatically changes how people perceive your appearance
you can be funny, nice, respectful, interesting, have good social skills, whatever, and if youre not attractive enough, females can still completely overlook you
meanwhile a girl can have certain traits naturally that give her baseline appeal without having to spend years building them. thats the difference im talking about
guys have to maximize. thats literally the fucking game. either you were born with the parts that are considered attractive or you spend years trying to build, improve, compensate and maximize everything you possibly can
heightmax, gymmax, looksmax, stylemax, socialmax, everythingmax
and even after doing all that you can still just end up average
thats why i think girls have it easier when it comes to looksism. im not saying every girl has an easy life or that every girl is attractive. im saying the average female starts with advantages that an average male has to work his ass off to create
and then foids get into looksmaxing and im just sitting there like bro
you dont understand why dudes are so obsessed with this shitfor an average guy, being above average isnt just some nice bonus. it can completely change how people treat you and how much attention you get
thats what im actually pissed about. not even relationships specifically. i dont need some fucking love story. i just want to know what its like to actually get attention without having to spend years maximizing every part of myself just to get noticed
because when youre an average dude, being invisible can become your normal
and thats the part nobody wants to fucking talk about
