beypazarisoda0
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You have a competitive personality. You always want to grind and be the best.
But you don't have what it takes. Lazy, scared, constantly coping.
It could be school, work, being popular in friend group or even gym. For example when you first started going to the gym you thought you'll be ripped in couple of months but no, you're just average. (Gym is the least important ofc but most general one.)
And when you first realized looks matter a lot. You also found out about looksmaxxing. This was a way to cope for you. Finally you could be better at something important than others, looks. But looksmaxxing don't take you anywhere, there are only so little "looksmaxxing" a sane person do. And most of those "looksmaxxes" normies do it too.
So it's simply not a solution but a cope.
What's the solution? Well, it depends on the person.
For me, focusing on the right things and trying enjoy life.
But you don't have what it takes. Lazy, scared, constantly coping.
It could be school, work, being popular in friend group or even gym. For example when you first started going to the gym you thought you'll be ripped in couple of months but no, you're just average. (Gym is the least important ofc but most general one.)
And when you first realized looks matter a lot. You also found out about looksmaxxing. This was a way to cope for you. Finally you could be better at something important than others, looks. But looksmaxxing don't take you anywhere, there are only so little "looksmaxxing" a sane person do. And most of those "looksmaxxes" normies do it too.
So it's simply not a solution but a cope.
What's the solution? Well, it depends on the person.
For me, focusing on the right things and trying enjoy life.