Looksmaxxing ruined my relationship

[Krealorg]

Me and my girlfriend of 4 months just broke up from my overthinking cause i put to much emotional pressure on her which is totally my fault but i feel like the root of overthinking was from being a insecure incel i mean ik im decently looking but i was always worried about other guys hitting on her, yes i trusted her, but the thought of there being a hotter guy always worried me the thought of not being enough it worried me because last year when i was ltn i was always seen as second choice i waas always the guy whos feelings got played with im genuinely so fucking hurt i cant believe it ive never loved someone this much ive never wrote 22 pages A4 back and front to a girl ive never skipped the gym for a girl ive never missed my sport for a girl now its all gone i mean it was mostly my fault because i kept giving her unessacry emotional pressure but i feel like when i vented to her she never really listened she just got defensive she never truly wanted to understand my feelings ig im just a senstive man but fuck bro its so unfair she didnt tell me how she felt she just made the decision without telling me but its fine bro ig i was the one who let my past insecurities effect my thinking which effected our relationship please if you ever get in a relationship make sure you have put the looksmaxxing and bp community in the past before you get into any relationships because trust me the thought of there being a better looking man the thought of not being enough the thought of being cheated on creates problems in relationships and in my case the problems got to much for her which is my fault i still love her and i dont think ill be able to get over this quickly because it really really really hurts we ended it well im gonna get therapy to try fix my overthinking if any of you have a good ways of stopping overthinking please let me know

btw you dont have to read i just wanted to get it out

 

[kingofearth]

Looksmaxxing didn't ruin your relationship, you did.

You ruined it.

You're young, know absolutely nothing about managing frame and how woman act and inact during relationships.

All of these fuckups you make, I advise you make a notepad private file and store it throughout the years. You're learning and now know what not to do for next time.

Also, fuck the therapy off. You're insecure because there's a void in your life you haven't filled, probably stemming from underachievement, or you not doing something you know you should be doing. Whatever that thing is, be accountable for it, face it and fix it.

Or, don't. Keep running into the problems you're going to.

It's your responsibility as a man in a relationship to bear all of the emotional load. Woman are emotional creatures, more so than men. You manage hers, not the other way round. If that balance is off, everything is fucked (as you now see)

Shit day at work? Or school? And? Who gives a shit. Stop offloading everything onto her, deal with your own shit, and deal with hers. She is not capable of helping you. You can only help yourself.

 

[Sstark]

relationship and incel in the same post
kys faggot

 

[Evgeniy291]

Me and my girlfriend of 4 months just broke up from my overthinking cause i put to much emotional pressure on her which is totally my fault but i feel like the root of overthinking was from being a insecure incel i mean ik im decently looking but i was always worried about other guys hitting on her, yes i trusted her, but the thought of there being a hotter guy always worried me the thought of not being enough it worried me because last year when i was ltn i was always seen as second choice i waas always the guy whos feelings got played with im genuinely so fucking hurt i cant believe it ive never loved someone this much ive never wrote 22 pages A4 back and front to a girl ive never skipped the gym for a girl ive never missed my sport for a girl now its all gone i mean it was mostly my fault because i kept giving her unessacry emotional pressure but i feel like when i vented to her she never really listened she just got defensive she never truly wanted to understand my feelings ig im just a senstive man but fuck bro its so unfair she didnt tell me how she felt she just made the decision without telling me but its fine bro ig i was the one who let my past insecurities effect my thinking which effected our relationship please if you ever get in a relationship make sure you have put the looksmaxxing and bp community in the past before you get into any relationships because trust me the thought of there being a better looking man the thought of not being enough the thought of being cheated on creates problems in relationships and in my case the problems got to much for her which is my fault i still love her and i dont think ill be able to get over this quickly because it really really really hurts we ended it well im gonna get therapy to try fix my overthinking if any of you have a good ways of stopping overthinking please let me know

btw you dont have to read i just wanted to get it out

Dnr

If she isn’t willing to stop talking to other guys for you she isn’t your girl and never was

 

[Krealorg]

Looksmaxxing didn't ruin your relationship, you did.

You ruined it.

You're young, know absolutely nothing about managing frame and how woman act and inact during relationships.

All of these fuckups you make, I advise you make a notepad private file and store it throughout the years. You're learning and now know what not to do for next time.

Also, fuck the therapy off. You're insecure because there's a void in your life you haven't filled, probably stemming from underachievement, or you not doing something you know you should be doing. Whatever that thing is, be accountable for it, face it and fix it.

Or, don't. Keep running into the problems you're going to.

It's your responsibility as a man in a relationship to bear all of the emotional load. Woman are emotional creatures, more so than men. You manage hers, not the other way round. If that balance is off, everything is fucked (as you now see)

Shit day at work? Or school? And? Who gives a shit. Stop offloading everything onto her, deal with your own shit, and deal with hers. She is not capable of helping you. You can only help yourself.

thanks you this is actually useful your right i wasnt being a man thank you

 

[kingofearth]

thanks you this is actually useful your right i wasnt being a man thank you

You wasn't being a man, because you aren't one yet. When you're a child relationships are supposed to be all about fun. Neither of you should have any real problems in the world to deal with. It's simply a lesson. I have hundreds of lessons saved in a notepad from years of failures, fuck ups, all the same shit you're going to experience. Eventually when you meet the right person, you will have enough knowledge to position yourself where she is truly invested. Mark my previous message as solution, thanks.

 

[Evgeniy291]

That’s how ur girlfriend should act when u ask her to stop talking to other guys btw
Look at screenshots

English translation of the messages:


9:16 AM
Sorry….


9:37 AM (edited)
I think I’d better go home today…?


10:05 AM (edited)
Please forgive me, I don’t want anything with him, and I wasn’t planning anything. I really just wanted to meet up, but I won’t, and I’ll forget everything that happened with him after yesterday. I really love you and don’t want to lose you… I’ll do everything so you can start trusting me again… Please, tell me what I need to do…. I feel really fucking bad right now because of how I acted, please forgive me… I hate myself for this.


10:28 AM
I wrote some really awful shit and acted really awfully too


10:28 AM
I’m really sorry……


10:29 AM
If you suggest breaking up, I’ll understand..


10:41 AM
I’m such an idiot…


10:41 AM
Please forgive me


12:34 PM
I really love you ……


12:41 PM
I’m scared of losing you….


12:43 PM
I realized my mistake and this will never happen again


6:27 PM
This really won’t happen again…




Let me know if you need a more natural/smooth version or any specific part clarified.

 

[udindindin]

Me and my girlfriend of 4 months just broke up from my overthinking cause i put to much emotional pressure on her which is totally my fault but i feel like the root of overthinking was from being a insecure incel i mean ik im decently looking but i was always worried about other guys hitting on her, yes i trusted her, but the thought of there being a hotter guy always worried me the thought of not being enough it worried me because last year when i was ltn i was always seen as second choice i waas always the guy whos feelings got played with im genuinely so fucking hurt i cant believe it ive never loved someone this much ive never wrote 22 pages A4 back and front to a girl ive never skipped the gym for a girl ive never missed my sport for a girl now its all gone i mean it was mostly my fault because i kept giving her unessacry emotional pressure but i feel like when i vented to her she never really listened she just got defensive she never truly wanted to understand my feelings ig im just a senstive man but fuck bro its so unfair she didnt tell me how she felt she just made the decision without telling me but its fine bro ig i was the one who let my past insecurities effect my thinking which effected our relationship please if you ever get in a relationship make sure you have put the looksmaxxing and bp community in the past before you get into any relationships because trust me the thought of there being a better looking man the thought of not being enough the thought of being cheated on creates problems in relationships and in my case the problems got to much for her which is my fault i still love her and i dont think ill be able to get over this quickly because it really really really hurts we ended it well im gonna get therapy to try fix my overthinking if any of you have a good ways of stopping overthinking please let me know

btw you dont have to read i just wanted to get it out

Stop messing around. Betrayal has always existed and always will, and there’s always going to be a 'bigger fish' who could potentially ruin your relationship. But it’s this very thought that makes you feel alive. Life is a risky business, and if you don’t take risks, you’re not truly living. The good thing is that she simply left, instead of making your worst fear come true — she didn't betray you

 

[Krealorg]

You wasn't being a man, because you aren't one yet. When you're a child relationships are supposed to be all about fun. Neither of you should have any real problems in the world to deal with. It's simply a lesson. I have hundreds of lessons saved in a notepad from years of failures, fuck ups, all the same shit you're going to experience. Eventually when you meet the right person, you will have enough knowledge to position yourself where she is truly invested. Mark my previous message as solution, thanks.

im not one yet your right

 

[Krealorg]

Stop messing around. Betrayal has always existed and always will, and there’s always going to be a 'bigger fish' who could potentially ruin your relationship. But it’s this very thought that makes you feel alive. Life is a risky business, and if you don’t take risks, you’re not truly living. The good thing is that she simply left, instead of making your worst fear come true — she didn't betray you

good view

 

[subhuman1996]

relationships are a waste of time anyway

 

[udindindin]

That’s how ur girlfriend should act when u ask her to stop talking to other guys btw
Look at screenshots

English translation of the messages:


9:16 AM
Sorry….


9:37 AM (edited)
I think I’d better go home today…?


10:05 AM (edited)
Please forgive me, I don’t want anything with him, and I wasn’t planning anything. I really just wanted to meet up, but I won’t, and I’ll forget everything that happened with him after yesterday. I really love you and don’t want to lose you… I’ll do everything so you can start trusting me again… Please, tell me what I need to do…. I feel really fucking bad right now because of how I acted, please forgive me… I hate myself for this.


10:28 AM
I wrote some really awful shit and acted really awfully too


10:28 AM
I’m really sorry……


10:29 AM
If you suggest breaking up, I’ll understand..


10:41 AM
I’m such an idiot…


10:41 AM
Please forgive me


12:34 PM
I really love you ……


12:41 PM
I’m scared of losing you….


12:43 PM
I realized my mistake and this will never happen again


6:27 PM
This really won’t happen again…




Let me know if you need a more natural/smooth version or any specific part clarified.

Похуй

 

[Evgeniy291]

Похуй

пососи Инцел

 

[kingofearth]

That’s how ur girlfriend should act when u ask her to stop talking to other guys btw
Look at screenshots

English translation of the messages:


9:16 AM
Sorry….


9:37 AM (edited)
I think I’d better go home today…?


10:05 AM (edited)
Please forgive me, I don’t want anything with him, and I wasn’t planning anything. I really just wanted to meet up, but I won’t, and I’ll forget everything that happened with him after yesterday. I really love you and don’t want to lose you… I’ll do everything so you can start trusting me again… Please, tell me what I need to do…. I feel really fucking bad right now because of how I acted, please forgive me… I hate myself for this.


10:28 AM
I wrote some really awful shit and acted really awfully too


10:28 AM
I’m really sorry……


10:29 AM
If you suggest breaking up, I’ll understand..


10:41 AM
I’m such an idiot…


10:41 AM
Please forgive me


12:34 PM
I really love you ……


12:41 PM
I’m scared of losing you….


12:43 PM
I realized my mistake and this will never happen again


6:27 PM
This really won’t happen again…




Let me know if you need a more natural/smooth version or any specific part clarified.

Mate guarding is a very fine line you have to be careful crossing. Too easily done to come across as insecure. I personally say "I don't like it." not "Stop talking too that dude" me not liking it in and of itself is enough to terminate a relationship. Her not making me a coffee is enough to terminate a relationship. Not because of the inaction itself, but because of the disrespect. That's the frame.

She said: "Please forgive me, I don’t want anything with him, and I wasn’t planning anything. I really just wanted to meet up" meet up with who? Some random dude? An old best friend? Why does she even want to do that? That's just weird.

Her actual energy and investment is a good sign tho. She knows she's fucked up, now all you have to do is cut down and withdraw your attention over the next week or so to set a president where when she fucks up she knows what you disengage.

 

[Evgeniy291]

Похуй

Если в мск можешь домой приехать я стульчик поставлю у кровати

 

[udindindin]

good view

Siberian Psychotherapist)

 

[udindindin]

Если в мск можешь домой приехать я стульчик поставлю у кровати

Дак ты идиот, если девушка тебе изменила и ты ее даже выслушиваешь — это и означает стул возле кровати.

 

[badcanthal78]

Similar thing happened to me became insecure started overthinking like crazy put pressure on my girl and it led to her breaking up with me also never vent your emotions to a girl they don’t care and they will see you as weak

 

[Evgeniy291]

Mate guarding is a very fine line you have to be careful crossing. Too easily done to come across as insecure. I personally say "I don't like it." not "Stop talking too that dude" me not liking it in and of itself is enough to terminate a relationship. Her not making me a coffee is enough to terminate a relationship. Not because of the inaction itself, but because of the disrespect. That's the frame.

Just be the guy she’s scared to lose

She said: "Please forgive me, I don’t want anything with him, and I wasn’t planning anything. I really just wanted to meet up" meet up with who? Some random dude? An old best friend? Why does she even want to do that? That's just weird.

Wanted to meet a guy she fucked with in the past

Her actual energy and investment is a good sign tho. She knows she's fucked up, now all you have to do is cut down and withdraw your attention over the next week or so to set a president where when she fucks up she knows what you disengage.

Not looking for relationship advice and wouldn’t recommend anyone to go off other people’s words because every time I did it it fucked the things up.

You withdrawing for a week will make her leave you so you don’t leave her first

 

[Evgeniy291]

Дак ты идиот, если девушка тебе изменила и ты ее даже выслушиваешь — это и означает стул возле кровати.

Можешь процитировать сообщение где написано что она мне изменила

 

[udindindin]

Можешь процитировать сообщение где написано что она мне изменила

А чё она тогда сделал

 

[Evgeniy291]

А чё она тогда сделал

Хотела встретится с типом с которым ебалась пол года назад

 

[udindindin]

Хотела встретится с типом с которым ебалась пол года назад

А сколько она с тем типом встречалась?

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

Looksmaxxing didn't ruin your relationship, her giving up on you did.

Don't let her gaslight you into thinking you blew it when really she just figured that she could get someone better than you (in her mind)

 

[Evgeniy291]

А сколько она с тем типом встречалась?

2-3 недели хз

 

[udindindin]

2-3 недели хз

А ты с ней встречаешься сколько?

 

[Evgeniy291]

А ты с ней встречаешься сколько?

Вместе 2 месяца встречаемся месяц

 

[Krealorg]

Looksmaxxing didn't ruin your relationship, her giving up on you did.

Don't let her gaslight you into thinking you blew it when really she just figured that she could get someone better than you (in her mind)

wait lowkey true

 

[udindindin]

Вместе 2 месяца встречаемся месяц

Зеленый ещё

 

[udindindin]

Вместе 2 месяца встречаемся месяц

Если она на первом месяце такую тему мутит — это плохой

 

[Evgeniy291]

Если она на первом месяце такую тему мутит — это плохой

В курсе

 

[udindindin]

В курсе

Так что хз, лучше расстанься пока не прошло много времени, ибо потом расстаться будешь сложнее, так как чувства и эмоции будут тяготить, и лишь одна мысль о расставание будет вызывать чувство кипения в груди.

Есть личный пример к чему это может привести. У меня есть брат, и он в скором жениться. Ну и суть в том, что он не расстался пока был момент, и сейчас по сути скоро свадьба, а у него за плечами с десяток измен.

 

[Eren]

Me and my girlfriend of 4 months just broke up from my overthinking cause i put to much emotional pressure on her which is totally my fault but i feel like the root of overthinking was from being a insecure incel i mean ik im decently looking but i was always worried about other guys hitting on her, yes i trusted her, but the thought of there being a hotter guy always worried me the thought of not being enough it worried me because last year when i was ltn i was always seen as second choice i waas always the guy whos feelings got played with im genuinely so fucking hurt i cant believe it ive never loved someone this much ive never wrote 22 pages A4 back and front to a girl ive never skipped the gym for a girl ive never missed my sport for a girl now its all gone i mean it was mostly my fault because i kept giving her unessacry emotional pressure but i feel like when i vented to her she never really listened she just got defensive she never truly wanted to understand my feelings ig im just a senstive man but fuck bro its so unfair she didnt tell me how she felt she just made the decision without telling me but its fine bro ig i was the one who let my past insecurities effect my thinking which effected our relationship please if you ever get in a relationship make sure you have put the looksmaxxing and bp community in the past before you get into any relationships because trust me the thought of there being a better looking man the thought of not being enough the thought of being cheated on creates problems in relationships and in my case the problems got to much for her which is my fault i still love her and i dont think ill be able to get over this quickly because it really really really hurts we ended it well im gonna get therapy to try fix my overthinking if any of you have a good ways of stopping overthinking please let me know

btw you dont have to read i just wanted to get it out

 

[Krealorg]

Looksmaxxing didn't ruin your relationship, her giving up on you did.

Don't let her gaslight you into thinking you blew it when really she just figured that she could get someone better than you (in her mind)

you ended up being right i went to therapy today and the therapist said the exact same thing

 

[teenroider310]

Looksmaxxing didn't ruin your relationship, you did.

You ruined it.

You're young, know absolutely nothing about managing frame and how woman act and inact during relationships.

All of these fuckups you make, I advise you make a notepad private file and store it throughout the years. You're learning and now know what not to do for next time.

Also, fuck the therapy off. You're insecure because there's a void in your life you haven't filled, probably stemming from underachievement, or you not doing something you know you should be doing. Whatever that thing is, be accountable for it, face it and fix it.

Or, don't. Keep running into the problems you're going to.

It's your responsibility as a man in a relationship to bear all of the emotional load. Woman are emotional creatures, more so than men. You manage hers, not the other way round. If that balance is off, everything is fucked (as you now see)

Shit day at work? Or school? And? Who gives a shit. Stop offloading everything onto her, deal with your own shit, and deal with hers. She is not capable of helping you. You can only help yourself.

Gf and being an insecure "incel" dnr retard

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

you ended up being right i went to therapy today and the therapist said the exact same thing

keep ur head up king

 

[kingofearth]

Looksmaxxing didn't ruin your relationship, her giving up on you did.

Don't let her gaslight you into thinking you blew it when really she just figured that she could get someone better than you (in her mind)

Zyzz, did you fully read what his entire thread? He himself pushed her away due to his insecurities. When I was younger, a girl pushed herself away from me due to the fact that she always said: "You don't love me" it ends up becoming true. Those insecurities become such a nuisance that you're better off without that partner. She gave up on him because of how he is acting, don't allow this individual to read your comment and believe he shouldn't take accountability for it. It's his fault, and only his fault.

 

[ER1887]

Me and my girlfriend of 4 months just broke up from my overthinking cause i put to much emotional pressure on her which is totally my fault but i feel like the root of overthinking was from being a insecure incel i mean ik im decently looking but i was always worried about other guys hitting on her, yes i trusted her, but the thought of there being a hotter guy always worried me the thought of not being enough it worried me because last year when i was ltn i was always seen as second choice i waas always the guy whos feelings got played with im genuinely so fucking hurt i cant believe it ive never loved someone this much ive never wrote 22 pages A4 back and front to a girl ive never skipped the gym for a girl ive never missed my sport for a girl now its all gone i mean it was mostly my fault because i kept giving her unessacry emotional pressure but i feel like when i vented to her she never really listened she just got defensive she never truly wanted to understand my feelings ig im just a senstive man but fuck bro its so unfair she didnt tell me how she felt she just made the decision without telling me but its fine bro ig i was the one who let my past insecurities effect my thinking which effected our relationship please if you ever get in a relationship make sure you have put the looksmaxxing and bp community in the past before you get into any relationships because trust me the thought of there being a better looking man the thought of not being enough the thought of being cheated on creates problems in relationships and in my case the problems got to much for her which is my fault i still love her and i dont think ill be able to get over this quickly because it really really really hurts we ended it well im gonna get therapy to try fix my overthinking if any of you have a good ways of stopping overthinking please let me know

btw you dont have to read i just wanted to get it out

DNR fag you sound just like a cuck

 

[darodiddler]

DNR faggot retard kys cuck pussy

 

[Peco]

Mate guarding is a very fine line you have to be careful crossing. Too easily done to come across as insecure. I personally say "I don't like it." not "Stop talking too that dude" me not liking it in and of itself is enough to terminate a relationship. Her not making me a coffee is enough to terminate a relationship. Not because of the inaction itself, but because of the disrespect. That's the frame.

She said: "Please forgive me, I don’t want anything with him, and I wasn’t planning anything. I really just wanted to meet up" meet up with who? Some random dude? An old best friend? Why does she even want to do that? That's just weird.

Her actual energy and investment is a good sign tho. She knows she's fucked up, now all you have to do is cut down and withdraw your attention over the next week or so to set a president where when she fucks up she knows what you disengage.

Please bro fix this way of thinking. It's really unhealthy

 

[kingofearth]

Please bro fix this way of thinking. It's really unhealthy

Ok cuckboy. If women cheating on you turns you on, whatever helps you cope with that, that's totally fine Peco. I only associate with woman who listen to and respect me.

 

[Peco]

thanks you this is actually useful your right i wasnt being a man thank you

Don't listen to this guy please. He is suffering from the same insecurities that destroyed your relationship.

Your problem is that you are too self conscious. You are constantly comparing yourself to other people. I'm sure you look at yourself in the mirror or camera a lot.

Later I will link 2 threads about this that were written by probably the only smart and lucid user I've ever met on the forum.

Gotta cook now but I'll find and link later. But please stop listening to these people that tell you that you need to be more of a man or shit like that.

 

[Peco]

Ok cuckboy. If women cheating on you turns you on, whatever helps you cope with that, that's totally fine Peco. I only associate with woman who listen to and respect me.

I'm not trying to judge you here or put myself on a moral highground but I really think you should work on your mental health. The way you are talking about things isn't healthy. You sound like Andrew Tate and it's pretty concerning

 

[RichardSpencel]

Ok user fatchudwithlandwhale wife from IT

 

[kingofearth]

I'm not trying to judge you here or put myself on a moral highground but I really think you should work on your mental health. The way you are talking about things isn't healthy. You sound like Andrew Tate and it's pretty concerning

I'm all about respect, life is give and take.

If I'm willing to put my LIFE on the line and die, face armed men, dick her down right, take care of her life and deal with all her problems and stress whilst building up my own multi-national conglomerate, and she is going to sit there siphoning all of these benefits, and not even make me a fucking coffee when I say so?

Do you not see how my point of view, on how disrespectful and absurd that frame is? Am I a clown? I don't think so, bro. Any one in my life is going to end up living a fantastic life, so it's their responsibility to treat me with the respect I deserve.

 

[Peco]

I'm all about respect, life is give and take.

If I'm willing to put my LIFE on the line and die, face armed men, dick her down right, take care of her life and deal with all her problems and stress whilst building up my own multi-national conglomerate, and she is going to sit there siphoning all of these benefits, and not even make me a fucking coffee when I say so?

Do you not see how my point of view, on how disrespectful and absurd that frame is? Am I a clown? I don't think so, bro. Any one in my life is going to end up living a fantastic life, so it's their responsibility to treat me with the respect I deserve.

Jeez bro. You seem full of resentment towards the world and especially women. Life shouldn't feel like that much of a struggle.

 

[kingofearth]

Jeez bro. You seem full of resentment towards the world and especially women. Life shouldn't feel like that much of a struggle.

I have no hate in my heart for anybody, or anything. I mean that, and trust me I've been done dirty before. We have different world views and perspectives, I am interested in 3 things; Conquest, success and domination. Everything else is noise to me. Good luck with your life and worldview Peco. And thanks for keeping everything respectful.

 

[Peco]

I have no hate in my heart for anybody, or anything. I mean that, and trust me I've been done dirty before.

You clearly do. Your first reaction to my message was calling me a cuckboy . Now you try to act nice because I pointed it out to you but your first response speaks for itself. It seems you are trying to shove your insecurities in a corner and put on a mask without facing things. That's what most people do because it's the easiest thing to do. You probably have some trauma that caused this resentment and you think you are facing it by putting on this act but in reality you are just trying to avoid it.

 

[kingofearth]

You clearly do. Your first reaction to my message was calling me a cuckboy . Now you try to act nice because I pointed it out to you but your first response speaks for itself. It seems you are trying to shove your insecurities in a corner and put on a mask without facing things. That's what most people do because it's the easiest thing to do. You probably have some trauma that you think you are trying to face by putting on this act but in reality you are just trying to avoid it.

You mistake me being polite for something I'm unaware of. I still stand by what I said, and everything I have said. That doesn't mean I cannot be or will not continue being polite, especially after you have been respectful. If you believe that giving the world to a woman who will not make you a coffee is a sensible, adequate and appropriate decision, then I suggest you continue to do that. I have tangible, real world results which are a by-product from my world view. I believe I'm on a great trajectory, as my current results support that claim. I will not be responding now to anything you reply, so I suggest you save your time and we will leave it at this.

Thanks for the chat. Good luck.

 

[Peco]

You mistake me being polite for something I'm unaware of. I still stand by what I said, and everything I have said. That doesn't mean I cannot be or will not continue being polite, especially after you have been respectful. If you believe that giving the world to a woman who will not make you a coffee is a sensible, adequate and appropriate decision, then I suggest you continue to do that. I have tangible, real world results which are a by-product from my world view. I believe I'm on a great trajectory, as my current results support that claim. I will not be responding now to anything you reply, so I suggest you save your time and we will leave it at this.

Thanks for the chat. Good luck.

At least now you realize you were wrong by responding like that initially. Still that shows that you do carry resentment. The rest of your replies show that you are not totally brainwashed and understand when you have done something wrong, which means you are open to change, at least marginally. That's good.