Looksmaxxing will never fill the hole of not having positive reinforcement in childhood

[Deleted member 2846]

I would suspect the majority of people here want to looksmax because they lacked positive attention and reinforcement in/as a child/in school. You want to looksmax because you have a huge ego. You want to become the best looking guy in school, have every girl yearn for you and have a crush on you. You think Chad got all that and now you want a taste. The fact is, you will never get that.

This forum is honestly so deluded from reality most of the time. There’s so many people on the spectrum and guys who lacked validation their whole lives that whenever a post like this comes out, their reply is “didn’t read”. I don’t blame them though, they are holding onto a delusional reality reinforced by an echo chamber.

Going from a 4.5 to a 5.25 won’t make every girl want you. Sure you will get treated better IRL, but you won’t have a harem of women.

And JFL at the people who want to looksmax so hard that they think they can seemingly skip the step where they have to talk to women. You need to be able to talk to women. Being a 7PSL and behaving like a complete aspie is a turnoff. If you say otherwise, you’re delusional.

 

[crmsxg]

everything that op said is true

 

[SikKunt]

Being a 7PSL and behaving like a complete aspie is a turnoff. If you say otherwise, you’re delusional.

But if you look at good looking autists that get recorded on Youtube many women in the comment section talk about how attractive he is.
Also I doubt that people on Tinder talk jfl, just ask for phone number if Chad and you'll get a quick fuck.

Going from a 4.5 to a 5.25 won’t make every girl want you.

No shit, going from 4 to 8 will though.

 

[Deleted member 2095]

 

[jefferson]

No shit, going from 4 to 8 will though.

As if you could looksmax from 4 to 8

 

[Pietrosiek]

I would suspect the majority of people here want to looksmax because they lacked positive attention and reinforcement in/as a child/in school. You want to looksmax because you have a huge ego. You want to become the best looking guy in school, have every girl yearn for you and have a crush on you. You think Chad got all that and now you want a taste. The fact is, you will never get that.

This forum is honestly so deluded from reality most of the time. There’s so many people on the spectrum and guys who lacked validation their whole lives that whenever a post like this comes out, their reply is “didn’t read”. I don’t blame them though, they are holding onto a delusional reality reinforced by an echo chamber.

Going from a 4.5 to a 5.25 won’t make every girl want you. Sure you will get treated better IRL, but you won’t have a harem of women.

that's 100% me, so looksmaxing is not worth it for me

And JFL at the people who want to looksmax so hard that they think they can seemingly skip the step where they have to talk to women. You need to be able to talk to women. Being a 7PSL and behaving like a complete aspie is a turnoff. If you say otherwise, you’re delusional.

Jfl at this cope. Foids will text you why you're like that? Why you're so shy boy? I will hug you. This is how bitches treat hot aspies.

 

[SikKunt]

As if you could looksmax from 4 to 8

Just an example.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Looksmaxing will fill many holes

 

[Demir]

Most of people here are still teenagers or in early 20s and they are deluded because they don't have enough life experience. I know legit bellow average looking people who had more pussy than this whole forum combined, and I know above average looking virgins.

 

[Deleted member 2846]

But if you look at good looking autists that get recorded on Youtube many women in the comment section talk about how attractive he is.
Also I doubt that people on Tinder talk jfl, just ask for phone number if Chad and you'll get a quick fuck.

No shit, going from 4 to 8 will though.

Actions>words. Women virtue signal. Sure they may find them attractive but would they willingly hang out with them? Talk to them for more than 1 minute? Fuck them? Sure, if you want the ego boost of having women finding you attractive but not wanting to actually hang out with you and fuck, what’s the point of looksmaxxing outside your validation deprived ego?

Addressing the Tinder talk, yes you can easily get phone numbers from women if you’re attractive on Tinder. Then what??? You need to talk to them when you meet them IRL. You need to not be some weird aspie who has weird movements and mannerisms. She could easily change her mind from “oooo, he’s hot I want to fuck him” to “mmm, he seems really weird and now I’m uncomfortable.” Uncomfortable= not horny not horny= get out of my house

From your comment alone, I can tell you are one of the delusional ones I’m talking about. You can PSL for face value without thinking 2 steps ahead and only want to looksmax for the pure satisfaction of having girls find you attractive.

 

[SikKunt]

Actions>words. Women virtue signal. Sure they may find them attractive but would they willingly hang out with them? Talk to them for more than 1 minute? Fuck them? Sure, if you want the ego boost of having women finding you attractive but not wanting to actually hang out with you and fuck, what’s the point of looksmaxxing outside your validation deprived ego?

Addressing the Tinder talk, yes you can easily get phone numbers from women if you’re attractive on Tinder. Then what??? You need to talk to them when you meet them IRL. You need to not be some weird aspie who has weird movements and mannerisms. She could easily change her mind from “oooo, he’s hot I want to fuck him” to “mmm, he seems really weird and now I’m uncomfortable.” Uncomfortable= not horny not horny= get out of my house

From your comment alone, I can tell you are one of the delusional ones I’m talking about. You can PSL for face value without thinking 2 steps ahead and only want to looksmax for the pure satisfaction of having girls find you attractive.

I've never seen a girl be uncomfortable around any attractive guy whatsoever, no proof, just speculation here.

 

[Zeta ascended]

You kind of right I've been ostracized/bullied for my looks in elementary school and had zero social life in high schook. Had I lived an average life or had an average face I would have never been interested in looksmaxing.

 

[Deleted member 2846]

that's 100% me, so looksmaxing is not worth it for me


Jfl at this cope. Foids will text you why you're like that? Why you're so shy boy? I will hug you. This is how bitches treat hot aspies.

Your whole scenario is based off texting. I’m talking REAL LIFE. Sure, 7PSL guy gets more leeway for acting aspie, but the more they talk IRL, the more weirded out she will get.

I've never seen a girl be uncomfortable around any attractive guy whatsoever, no proof, just speculation here.

Well, how many aspie attractive guys have you seen around women? None.

 

[SikKunt]

Well, how many aspie attractive guys have you seen around women? None.

Very few exist in my opinion

 

[Deleted member 2846]

Very few exist in my opinion

So your counter argument was also a speculation jfl

 

[SikKunt]

So your counter argument was also a speculation jfl

How?

 

[Pietrosiek]

Sure, if you want the ego boost of having women finding you attractive but not wanting to actually hang out with you and fuck, what’s the point of looksmaxxing outside your validation deprived ego?

that's exacly what i want, not sex but validation and mogging other

 

[Deleted member 2846]

How?

I honestly forgot.

 

[turkproducer]

slaying is cope after a certain age/amount of experience anyway

 

[Deleted member 2933]

Some girls will forgive your aspie vibes, but no one will forgive your uglyness.

 

[Deleted member 2846]

that's exacly what i want, not sex but validation and mogging other

Then good luck to you, but you will be trying to fill a void. Just a heads up.

 

[Zeta ascended]

As if you could looksmax from 4 to 8

Everyman has his looksmaxing limits and we should accept that.

 

[Deleted member 2846]

Some girls will forgive your aspie vibes, but no one will forgive your uglyness.

No they won’t. They will just move onto another guy who’s attractive and not aspie. They have dozens of options. Why settle for the one that’s socially awkward?

 

[Pietrosiek]

Then good luck to you, but you will be trying to fill a void. Just a heads up.

that's why i'm fuckin deppresed i don't have what is lifefuel for me. i hope i will not rope in few years when i will get even more frustrated

 

[Chadelite]

I would suspect the majority of people here want to looksmax because they lacked positive attention and reinforcement in/as a child/in school. You want to looksmax because you have a huge ego. You want to become the best looking guy in school, have every girl yearn for you and have a crush on you. You think Chad got all that and now you want a taste. The fact is, you will never get that.

This forum is honestly so deluded from reality most of the time. There’s so many people on the spectrum and guys who lacked validation their whole lives that whenever a post like this comes out, their reply is “didn’t read”. I don’t blame them though, they are holding onto a delusional reality reinforced by an echo chamber.

Going from a 4.5 to a 5.25 won’t make every girl want you. Sure you will get treated better IRL, but you won’t have a harem of women.

And JFL at the people who want to looksmax so hard that they think they can seemingly skip the step where they have to talk to women. You need to be able to talk to women. Being a 7PSL and behaving like a complete aspie is a turnoff. If you say otherwise, you’re delusional.

lol i had the most positive reinforcement as a child that one can get. I was tall, cute, and the fastest as a kid - that is all you need at that age. I was high iq as well,

 

[Deleted member 2846]

lol i had the most positive reinforcement as a child that one can get. I was tall, cute, and the fastest as a kid - that is all you need at that age. I was high iq as well,

Not enough positive reinforcement if you have to make it about yourself when this post has absolutely nothing to do with you.

 

[Chadelite]

Not enough positive reinforcement if you have to make it about yourself when this post has absolutely nothing to do with you.

i can comment brah, it is ez for me.

 

[Deleted member 2581]

No they won’t. They will just move onto another guy who’s attractive and not aspie. They have dozens of options. Why settle for the one that’s socially awkward?

This.

 

[SikKunt]

i can comment brah, it is ez for me.

u really like talkin bout yourself

 

[Chadelite]

u really like talkin bout yourself

@SikKunt = bro

 

[Pietrosiek]

lol i had the most positive reinforcement as a child that one can get. I was tall, cute, and the fastest as a kid - that is all you need at that age. I was high iq as well,

GTFO

 

[Deleted member 2581]

Everyman has his looksmaxing limits and we should accept that.

Max I think you can looksmax is 3 psl points if you have a good base and get extensive surgeries and do everything possible like cj or tyd or Toni Mahfud did on lookism but in general most people can only hope for 1 or 2 psl increase. still worth it though

 

[Chadelite]

GTFO

i still am lol

 

[Deleted member 245]

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And JFL at the people who want to looksmax so hard that they think they can seemingly skip the step where they have to talk to women. You need to be able to talk to women. Being a 7PSL and behaving like a complete aspie is a turnoff. If you say otherwise, you’re delusional.

As long as you have very basic conversation skills, you're good. If a girl is attracted to you, she will do all the heavy lifting in terms of socializing.

Take it from a diagnosed autist that's gotten laid off his looks alone.

Looksmaxing to get to the point where you skip the bullshit that they make guys they're not physically attracted to go through is legit.

No they won’t. They will just move onto another guy who’s attractive and not aspie. They have dozens of options. Why settle for the one that’s socially awkward?

Because they're so fucking attracted to you at that moment they don't care that you don't have super charisma or that you're not saying all the right things. You have to get to the point where her feelings for you overwhelm her rational decision making. If you don't have a girl constantly smiling, giggling and on cloudnine when around you she is not attracted to you. If a bitch shows up to a date with a cold emotionless vibe waiting for you to entertain her, she is not attracted to you and is thinking about what you can do for her.

 

[rockndogs]

You will never fill someone's else hole as well fwark its over for many men

 

[Deleted member 616]

Nah I'm already 27 and had multiple relationships behind me. The reason why I still wanna looksmax is because: 1. I'm a narcy who wants better / privileged treatment from others, and my current looks arent sufficient for that, and I hate being average. 2. I have good potential. 3. I have no problem talking to women (one to one) but I've seen too many better looking couples which made me depressed. Knowing that I ruined my potential by mouth breathing / being negligent just added to that.

Till now I've been doing fairly well in other aspects of life (education, profession). I just want more validation, more chances in casual sex, and a better looking gf.

 

[Deleted member 2227]

I want to mog others, but i see that i cant, it's sad being inferior, i dont fucking care about woman, only about MOG.

 

[Deleted member 2426]

The real blackpill is that most subhumans shouldn’t even think of spreading their genes, let alone try with a girl now. People should just be focusing on get money, ldar and escortcel

The reason you guys are like this is cause you’re not compatible and it should stick that way. Let evolution do its thing

It’s tough pill to swallow, but it is what it is

 

[Deleted member 2227]

Nah I'm already 27 and had multiple relationships behind me. The reason why I still wanna looksmax is because: 1. I'm a narcy who wants better / privileged treatment from others, and my current looks arent sufficient for that, and I hate being average. 2. I have good potential. 3. I have no problem talking to women (one to one) but I've seen too many better looking couples which made me depressed. Knowing that I ruined my potential by mouth breathing / being negligent just added to that.

Till now I've been doing fairly well in other aspects of life (education, profession). I just want more validation, more chances in casual sex, and a better looking gf.

Mouth Breathing? show me photos of what you lookes before and now please.

 

[Ritalincel]

didn't read but my childhoos was just fine tyvm

 

[Deleted member 2227]

The real blackpill is that most subhumans shouldn’t even think of spreading their genes, let alone try with a girl now. People should just be focusing on get money, ldar and escortcel

The reason you guys are like this is cause you’re not compatible and it should stick that way. Let evolution do its thing

It’s tough pill to swallow, but it is what it is

Yes, genes inferiority is the most fucked thing.

 

[Ritalincel]

The real blackpill is that most subhumans shouldn’t even think of spreading their genes, let alone try with a girl now. People should just be focusing on get money, ldar and escortcel

The reason you guys are like this is cause you’re not compatible and it should stick that way. Let evolution do its thing

Cuck.

 

[Deleted member 2846]

The real blackpill is that most subhumans shouldn’t even think of spreading their genes, let alone try with a girl now. People should just be focusing on get money, ldar and escortcel

The reason you guys are like this is cause you’re not compatible and it should stick that way. Let evolution do its thing

It’s tough pill to swallow, but it is what it is

Environmental and prenatal T make a huge role in looks.

 

[Deleted member 502]

Cuck.

 

[Angelrun]

You can be a chad and still come off as creepy/rapey if you don’t know how to talk

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Framletgod]

so legit tbh

 

[Deleted member 2227]

Environmental and prenatal T make a huge role in looks.

What environmental can make? it's not like only 6% of affect in the looks/height? if you are not extremely poor so seems like a cope.

 

[Deleted member 2846]

What environmental can make? it's not like only 6% of affect in the looks/height? if you are not extremely poor so seems like a cope.

Playing sports, being active. When I said environment, I basically meant everything but genetics.

 

[Deleted member 795]

at this point i guess there's not point in life