Losing interest in socializing.

[fukmylyf]

I've had a very active social life over the past 6-7 years compared to most people here. I had lots of fun and made some amazing memories, but it's all starting to feel pointless.

Most relationships are temporary and short-lived. From experience, 95% of the people I meet won't be in my life a year from now. We either drift apart and remain instagram friends or end up beefing over something. The ones who stick around add limited value to my life. Truthfully I find most people boring, stupid, or annoying.

I wonder if this is normal or something is wrong with me. I don't think I'm an introvert like most here. I crave social interaction, enjoy going out and doing things. But I feel like I need to constantly cycle through new people to be happy. And it's fucking exhausting tbh

 

[nofap]

Im going trough the same for the past few months
Have 0 interest in social interaction anymore
When going to the city was like paradise to me with all the people there, couldn’t be bothered at all to go out anymore

 

[qFlodz]

I saw some interesting meme-type graphs that unfortunately I didn't save, related to how our number of friends and significant others in high school, mid 20s and early 30s is drastically decreasing over the years.. (it was brutally true)

Friends and people in general are contextual. You need something external to bring you together (generally a team sport that you play a couple of times a week is very good, after you are out of school and have a job and generally live more isolated), but in general, as time passes, monotony sets in, and lack of patience for change occurs

This is why it is assumed that at some point you will have a gf who turns into a wife and with whom you have kids, and you will spend less and less time with your friends, but if they do the same, at some point you will cross paths again, you will go on vacations together in large groups, etc. and you will continue to talk about life as an adult, even if less time than in your youth

Life is generally very brutal with the "power of friendship"

 

[<6PSLcel]

I saw some interesting meme-type graphs that unfortunately I didn't save, related to how our number of friends and significant others in high school, mid 20s and early 30s is drastically decreasing over the years.. (it was brutally true)

Friends and people in general are contextual. You need something external to bring you together (generally a team sport that you play a couple of times a week is very good, after you are out of school and have a job and generally live more isolated), but in general, as time passes, monotony sets in, and lack of patience for change occurs

This is why it is assumed that at some point you will have a gf who turns into a wife and with whom you have kids, and you will spend less and less time with your friends, but if they do the same, at some point you will cross paths again, you will go on vacations together in large groups, etc. and you will continue to talk about life as an adult, even if less time than in your youth

Life is generally very brutal with the "power of friendship"

Brutal, I haven’t had friends since 14 yrs old I’m now turning 19

 

[fukmylyf]

I saw some interesting meme-type graphs that unfortunately I didn't save, related to how our number of friends and significant others in high school, mid 20s and early 30s is drastically decreasing over the years.. (it was brutally true)

Friends and people in general are contextual. You need something external to bring you together (generally a team sport that you play a couple of times a week is very good, after you are out of school and have a job and generally live more isolated), but in general, as time passes, monotony sets in, and lack of patience for change occurs

This is why it is assumed that at some point you will have a gf who turns into a wife and with whom you have kids, and you will spend less and less time with your friends, but if they do the same, at some point you will cross paths again, you will go on vacations together in large groups, etc. and you will continue to talk about life as an adult, even if less time than in your youth

Life is generally very brutal with the "power of friendship"

Just another reason youth is everything. Only time where you can have a good social life and a gf with minimal responsibilities.

 

[sickdawgie]

Brutal, I haven’t had friends since 14 yrs old I’m now turning 19

Happy birthday

 

[<6PSLcel]

Happy birthday

not 19 yet, will b very very soon

 

[fukmylyf]

Brutal, I haven’t had friends since 14 yrs old I’m now turning 19

happy birthday

 

[romanstock]

I prefer to socialise on here. It's safe and risk-free.