Losing my erection during sex

[Dr. Greenberg]

Which issue?

For my thyroid I have hashimoto’s so to treat it I eliminated gluten/dairy from my diet and I take a lot of supplements for it my doctor ordered me. For my pelvic floor basically breathing exercises, reverse kegels, stretching, loosening up my hip flexors, and fixing the muscle imbalance between my core/glutes/legs. Also I went completely cold turkey on fapping and porn.

How did you realize your pelvic floor was tight?

 

[Morpheus]

How did you realize your pelvic floor was tight?

Went to a urologist because I was concerned about my weak erections. She said my pelvic floor was the tightest she’d ever seen and when it’s tight it heavily restricts the blood flow.

Although be warned, in order to check you get two fingers up the ass and they feel around in there. I literally felt like my insides were being pulled out lmao I’ve never been more uncomfortable in my life.

 

[sensen]

you have the yips.


Focus on being more confident in your performance if possible.

 

[Dr. Greenberg]

Went to a urologist because I was concerned about my weak erections. She said my pelvic floor was the tightest she’d ever seen and when it’s tight it heavily restricts the blood flow.

Although be warned, in order to check you get two fingers up the ass and they feel around in there. I literally felt like my insides were being pulled out lmao I’ve never been more uncomfortable in my life.

Damn haha. I think my pelvic floor is tight too.

Could you send me the "training schedule" you followed. Like how often, how much and what exercises?

 

[Uglyandfat]

why you feel anxious ? i can understand first time sex but isn't she already your gf.

low self esteem plus probably imbalance in brain chemicals

 

[Morpheus]

Damn haha. I think my pelvic floor is tight too.

Could you send me the "training schedule" you followed. Like how often, how much and what exercises?

Yeah I’ll send you it tomorrow when I’m free. Remind me if I forget.

 

[Dr. Greenberg]

Yeah I’ll send you it tomorrow when I’m free. Remind me if I forget.

Awsome. Thanks. I'll do.

 

[prettyboycel]

low self esteem plus probably imbalance in brain chemicals

Its because im thinking about keeping the erection too much and the bad feeling when i lose it. Its a vicious circle. The more it happen the more you think about it and get nervous.

 

[prettyboycel]

If a girl talked shit about me because I lost my erection I would never talk to her again.

It’s probably not because she actually thinks you’re gay but because she’s insecure over the fact that you went soft during sex with her and thinks it’s a reflection on her not being attractive enough or good enough at sex. Regardless it’s immature as hell and I wouldn’t want any part of that.

It’s happened to me plenty of times because I used to have major thyroid issues that lowered my testosterone and I also had a tight pelvic floor. But my two ex girlfriends and a couple other chicks it happened with were super cool and understanding about it. I don’t know where you guys are meeting these mean ass bitches. Luckily I fixed the issue. Yours could be for a variety of reasons. Try no porn/no fap for a while. Get your testosterone checked. Do you have trouble getting all the way hard when you’re fapping alone and do you get morning wood?

Unfortunately its the opposite, she thinks no guy can be soft with her cause she gets complimented all the time on her ass

 

[CarnivoreDiet]

You go to the doctor and tell him you are a little nervous and asking for Viagra 100mg (you can cut into 50mg pieces). You take it for 1 month, 40 minutes before sex on empty stomach (4 hours no eating). This will 100% solve the problem. Then, after a month - you stop taking Viagra. You dont need it anymore because you gained confidence.
I had a similar problem. I solved it this way.

 

[MewingJBP]

nice roast beef logic right there

roastie so loose you can't even feel anything and get soft

also roastie: y-y-you must be gay bro, how can you get soft poking a botomless pit

 

[SomeoneUnimportant]

Same here, I thought sex would be the best feeling I'll ever experience but it turns out I have a problem with death grip. I stay rock hard during handjobs and blowjobs but get soft during sex because it doesn't feel as good. Nofap helped a bit, but I'm still unable to ejaculate during sex. Hopefully doing nofap for a full 90 days will cure me. I'll go to a doctor for a checkup and try viagra and cialis suggested here and see how it goes.

 

[bl0odyme5s]

I have a serious problem I need advice.

i just got a gf. She is very attractive, exactly my type with a bubble butt. When we started having sex, the first sessions were good and she kept telling me I was good at sex. However, one time i lost my erection during sex. I dont know if it was because her pussy got loose and I wasnt feeling anything, but since then I kept thinking about it and it happened twice again. Every time, she made me feel super bad, telling me I was gay and asking me what the problem was.
i don't think it is due to low test. I work out 4 times a week, i used to be on test, and every time she touches me I have an erection.
I also used to jerk off and watch porn a lot but stopped completely about 1 month ago.

i have 2 theory: performance anxiety or death grip. Either i get too nervous thinking about my erection which makes me lose it, or I am too used to masturbate with my hand that i dont feel the pussy that much.

Anybody experienced something similar?

I am late to the thread but most likely performance anxiety and your dumbass girl saying shit like that probably not making it any better. Also coupled with your cock probably being use to your right hand. The only time something similar happen to me was when a girl was sucking my dick it took me a long time to cum probably because I was use to my hand also BUT i never lost the erection it just took awkwardly long to nut

 

[highT]

I have a serious problem I need advice.

i just got a gf. She is very attractive, exactly my type with a bubble butt. When we started having sex, the first sessions were good and she kept telling me I was good at sex. However, one time i lost my erection during sex. I dont know if it was because her pussy got loose and I wasnt feeling anything, but since then I kept thinking about it and it happened twice again. Every time, she made me feel super bad, telling me I was gay and asking me what the problem was.
i don't think it is due to low test. I work out 4 times a week, i used to be on test, and every time she touches me I have an erection.
I also used to jerk off and watch porn a lot but stopped completely about 1 month ago.

i have 2 theory: performance anxiety or death grip. Either i get too nervous thinking about my erection which makes me lose it, or I am too used to masturbate with my hand that i dont feel the pussy that much.

Anybody experienced something similar?

Are you on fin?

 

[MexicanShortHotGuy]

Girls were so self-concious after I loose my erection too. Use viagra or cialis, maybe it could work.

At least she didn't mock for that.

 

[futureashtray]

You probably gave yourself death grip. I have/had the same problem. Masturbating for so long gets your dick used to your hand and the force you apply and pussy doesn't feel the same. Just stop watching porn and fapping and sensitivity will slowly come back. Also try using Cialis once in a while.

bra my sensitivity is so annoying everytime i wank and edge myself my dick getsso hard and sensitive. that if i lightly squeeze it or touch it i nut instantly

 

[TheAnomaly]

ED sucks.
See an MD to find out why. There are many tx for ED.