Loss of libido is a really under-discussed side effect of the Blackpill

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It's not just aging. Being blackpilled legitimately lowers your libido and makes it much harder to experience sexual arousal that would be the case if you were a bluepilled normie. There are plenty of horny guys in their 30s, 40s and even 50s.

The main issue that arousal is largely psychological, and once you achieve a certain level of self-awareness regarding your blackpilled reality, it becomes extremely difficult to 'suspend disbelief' that sexual situations could actually happen to you. You essentially become asexual unintentionally.

There were times in my early to mid 20s where I could easily get and maintain erections despite still being a loner, because I could at least pretend that maybe 'something could happen', but that's all history now. Now that I'm a norwooding blackpiller in my 30s, I know it for a fact that it's 100% over for me and that any sexual fantasy I can come up with will be nothing more than pure fantasy.

And it just kills the mood.

It makes it so that any time I look at porn, I'm being taunted somehow. Like somebody is flashing something at me with "YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THIS!" written all over it.

Combine this with my crippling levels of depression and...well.

This is an extremely underrated element of the blackpill. It's not just that you can't get laid, you can't even enjoy masturbating anymore. Your libido almost dies.
 
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I cope with possibility of surgery so my libido is the same while still being blackpilled
 
Most here are younger then 25
 
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Bro you Just have ed
 
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did you discover blackpill too late?? cause looksmaxxing in ur 20’s def can help, even now you can ascend never too late
 
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Are you out of shape?
 
It's a different problem for me. Most women just look too subhuman to get hard too once you're accustomed to appreciating high PSL faces.
 
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My libido is dead since i was 14
 
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Cope. You’re just subhuman.
 
My Libido is still through the roof
 
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Could also be that LDAR lifestyle reduces testosterone and sex drive due to physical inactivity
 
disillusioned said:
No, I just can't stay aroused long enough. I do get hard, just nowhere near as long as in the past.
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it's purely because of aging, plus if you aren't sexually active is just normal.
 
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mizrahi_hater said:
My libido is dead since i was 14
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It returned at a time i thought my inceldom was cured than it turned itself off again when i failed, It's not permanant a stacy would fix me
 
the BULL said:
it's purely because of aging, plus if you aren't sexually active is just normal.
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it's not... I'm 17 and I have to jerk off 2 times in order to be able to sleep and that combo of jerking off and going outside knowing human nature just destroys all your desires and motivation...
 
justleavemealone said:
it's not... I'm 17 and I have to jerk off 2 times in order to be able to sleep and that combo of jerking off and going outside knowing human nature just destroys all your desires and motivation...
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It's called being a coomer lol what blackpill has to do with it
 
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the BULL said:
It's called being a coomer lol what blackpill has to do with it
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blackpill has to do with it since it makes you realize how human nature work and what you can benefit from humanity depending on how you are viewed... An invisible man who is aware that he's invisible can't take love nor sex seriously IRL... Only he can coom by fantasizing via porn....
So unless a stacy comes to rescue a woke subhuman's libido (0% chance) then the woke dude will just loose hope and start to adapt by loosing his desire to fuck because he understands that he has no chance in filling up that desire...
 
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justleavemealone said:
blackpill has to do with it since it makes you realize how human nature work and what you can benefit from humanity depending on how you are viewed... An invisible man who is aware that he's invisible can't take love nor sex seriously IRL... Only he can coom by fantasizing via porn....
So unless a stacy comes to rescue a woke subhuman's libido (0% chance) then the woke dude will just loose hope and start to adapt by loosing his desire to fuck because he understands that he has no chance in filling up that desire...
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And isn't supposed to be an advantage? Why would you want to be rock hard if you don't get to fuck
 
the BULL said:
And isn't supposed to be an advantage? Why would you want to be rock hard if you don't get to fuck
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libido is important for men lol... It's literally linked to productivity, motivation and even responsability... Nobody wants to be a fucking invisible zombie NPC and yet that's the faith that awaits most men
 
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justleavemealone said:
libido is important for men lol... It's literally linked to productivity, motivation and even responsability... Nobody wants to be a fucking invisible zombie NPC and yet that's the faith that awaits most men
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Yet the most productive men on earth are some senile old fucks lol
 
the BULL said:
Yet the most productive men on earth are some senile old fucks lol
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these old senile fucks have had their relationships (or are married/divorced), and have children ???
 
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the BULL said:
But no libido
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bro career + children + past love experiences (even if they might've ended up bad) is more than enough fuel to stay open minded and keep wanting to go on? idk what are you trying to tell me
 
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bwrauycnee said:
It's a different problem for me. Most women just look too subhuman to get hard too once you're accustomed to appreciating high PSL faces.
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Same. Im only attracted to white staceys. Ethnics and landwhales give me the same feeling when I look at men, which is either nothing, or pure disgust.
 
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my dick doesn't get hard for girls above age 25
 
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justleavemealone said:
bro career + children + past love experiences (even if they might've ended up bad) is more than enough fuel to stay open minded and keep wanting to go on? idk what are you trying to tell me
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@the BULL doesn’t realise these men got to where they are so they could bust nuts in many women. Yes they are now old but they were slaying in their youth. I myself did well in uni so I could ascend and slay hoes.

I am MGTOW now and I’m on a self development journey as much as I want to say it’s not for women I know deep down subconsciously I’m losing weight to Increace my attr to women and I’m getting a car for the same reason as well as more money. It all adds up and is a sign of a high T male. I cannot run from my Gentic predisposition to ascned for PUSSY
 
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disillusioned said:
It makes it so that any time I look at porn, I'm being taunted somehow. Like somebody is flashing something at me with "YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THIS!" written all over it.
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why would you want libido when you cant fuck?
 
Crestfallen95 said:
why would you want libido when you cant fuck?
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Because as long as you have any libido there's still a glimmer of hope a bit of sunshine in your ball bag
 
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You forgot about escorts. They won't imitate affection well enough but they surely can physically do a lot of things that can help with overcoming that barrier.
Unironically, check your testosterone and prolactin levels. Elevated prolactin is probably even worse than lower t for libido.
 
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go er
 
Mr.Proper said:
You forgot about escorts. They won't imitate affection well enough but they surely can physically do a lot of things that can help with overcoming that barrier.
Unironically, check your testosterone and prolactin levels. Elevated prolactin is probably even worse than lower t for libido.
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I was put on risperidone for supposedly being bipolar and it increases prolactin and it absolutely killed my dick and sex drive for months until I took myself off it. I'd rather be unhinged but still have a dick that works
 
my libido works in me thinking of ascending. having surgery done on me get my dick hard
 
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soulless_npc said:
it's about claiming your humanity
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OP pulling some serious mental gymnastics. when i met my old itis, i was shooting precum like i never had before and forgot all tbis blackpill bs.
 
Crestfallen95 said:
OP pulling some serious mental gymnastics. when i met my old itis, i was shooting precum like i never had before and forgot all tbis blackpill bs.
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it's a problem of inertia. the more (even marginal) success u have you will stay up and would have no thoughts of even visiting this site, I wouldn't anyway

but once you've been alone and hopeless and descended into coomer porn consumer rot zone (exactly where the global elite want you) for long enough it will take inertia once again to pull you back out
 
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soulless_npc said:
but once you've been alone and hopeless and descended into coomer porn consumer rot zone (exactly where the global elite want you) for long enough it will take inertia once again to pull you back out
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what can we do, thats like for ya
 
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