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2 worst things for me that i get from adhd which affects my relationships:
Hyperfixation
and
Overreacting when there is rush of emotions
So basically what is hyperfixation - it is when you basically get like a crush on someone and you cant stop thinking about that person, you need his validation, attention. Worst part is - you start idolizing that person in your mind and basically living in your headspace, when they turn out to be whole lot different person actually.
This shit happened to me many times - falling in love w junkie girls who are addicted to drinking/doing drugs. Just because they drop some attention towards my side and i like them back, i start hyperfixating on them despite seeing all the red flags.
And then we come to the next part - when they actually do something (which you couldve expected from their red flags) the reaction goes insane. I went manic with my last gf after i caught her lying and manipulating me, i even wanted to do a really bad thing to her but i wont talk about it here, maybe in the future ill write a whole thread about what happened. Anyways overreaction was insane and i almost destroyed my life that day just because i was manic and aggressive as fuck.
But good thing is - as and ADHD person i can only be sad, if someone leaves me, for like 1 week max. After that week i will alrd looking for a new relationship and not giving literally any fucks about my ex.
Hyperfixation
and
Overreacting when there is rush of emotions
So basically what is hyperfixation - it is when you basically get like a crush on someone and you cant stop thinking about that person, you need his validation, attention. Worst part is - you start idolizing that person in your mind and basically living in your headspace, when they turn out to be whole lot different person actually.
This shit happened to me many times - falling in love w junkie girls who are addicted to drinking/doing drugs. Just because they drop some attention towards my side and i like them back, i start hyperfixating on them despite seeing all the red flags.
And then we come to the next part - when they actually do something (which you couldve expected from their red flags) the reaction goes insane. I went manic with my last gf after i caught her lying and manipulating me, i even wanted to do a really bad thing to her but i wont talk about it here, maybe in the future ill write a whole thread about what happened. Anyways overreaction was insane and i almost destroyed my life that day just because i was manic and aggressive as fuck.
But good thing is - as and ADHD person i can only be sad, if someone leaves me, for like 1 week max. After that week i will alrd looking for a new relationship and not giving literally any fucks about my ex.
