Love drains me as an ADHD person

[Lust]

2 worst things for me that i get from adhd which affects my relationships:

Hyperfixation

and

Overreacting when there is rush of emotions


So basically what is hyperfixation - it is when you basically get like a crush on someone and you cant stop thinking about that person, you need his validation, attention. Worst part is - you start idolizing that person in your mind and basically living in your headspace, when they turn out to be whole lot different person actually.

This shit happened to me many times - falling in love w junkie girls who are addicted to drinking/doing drugs. Just because they drop some attention towards my side and i like them back, i start hyperfixating on them despite seeing all the red flags.

And then we come to the next part - when they actually do something (which you couldve expected from their red flags) the reaction goes insane. I went manic with my last gf after i caught her lying and manipulating me, i even wanted to do a really bad thing to her but i wont talk about it here, maybe in the future ill write a whole thread about what happened. Anyways overreaction was insane and i almost destroyed my life that day just because i was manic and aggressive as fuck.

But good thing is - as and ADHD person i can only be sad, if someone leaves me, for like 1 week max. After that week i will alrd looking for a new relationship and not giving literally any fucks about my ex.

 

[Deleted member 249796]

do adhd meds improve/worsen your relationships?

 

[Wexilarious]

just don't think then

 

[datboijj]

Disease

 

[Lust]

do adhd meds improve/worsen your relationships?

id say improve i guess. i try to take my meds everytime i wake up instantly to not do anything impulsive

 

[Deleted member 249796]

just don't think then

i wish life was that easy

 

[Deleted member 249796]

id say improve i guess. i try to take my meds everytime i wake up instantly to not do anything impulsive

what do you take?

 

[Lust]

what do you take?

concerta. lowest dose tho cuz i only started it recently. doc will bump it higher for me upcoming week

 

[Wexilarious]

i wish life was that easy

it is

 

[pharmatropics]

I have ADHD and I relate to this to an extent. But are you fucking retarded? Who lets their emotions override their logical thought?

 

[GoblinMaxxer]

2 worst things for me that i get from adhd which affects my relationships:

Hyperfixation

and

Overreacting when there is rush of emotions


So basically what is hyperfixation - it is when you basically get like a crush on someone and you cant stop thinking about that person, you need his validation, attention. Worst part is - you start idolizing that person in your mind and basically living in your headspace, when they turn out to be whole lot different person actually.

This shit happened to me many times - falling in love w junkie girls who are addicted to drinking/doing drugs. Just because they drop some attention towards my side and i like them back, i start hyperfixating on them despite seeing all the red flags.

And then we come to the next part - when they actually do something (which you couldve expected from their red flags) the reaction goes insane. I went manic with my last gf after i caught her lying and manipulating me, i even wanted to do a really bad thing to her but i wont talk about it here, maybe in the future ill write a whole thread about what happened. Anyways overreaction was insane and i almost destroyed my life that day just because i was manic and aggressive as fuck.

But good thing is - as and ADHD person i can only be sad, if someone leaves me, for like 1 week max. After that week i will alrd looking for a new relationship and not giving literally any fucks about my ex.

ADHD isnt real retard

 

[Lust]

ADHD isnt real retard

kys greycel faggot

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

I have adhd but dnr sexhaver ramblings kys

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

I have adhd but dnr sexhaver ramblings kys

 

[Lust]

I have adhd but dnr sexhaver ramblings kys

you didnt have to write this comment twice

 

[SilvioMoltisantiDan]

2 worst things for me that i get from adhd which affects my relationships:

Hyperfixation

and

Overreacting when there is rush of emotions


So basically what is hyperfixation - it is when you basically get like a crush on someone and you cant stop thinking about that person, you need his validation, attention. Worst part is - you start idolizing that person in your mind and basically living in your headspace, when they turn out to be whole lot different person actually.

This shit happened to me many times - falling in love w junkie girls who are addicted to drinking/doing drugs. Just because they drop some attention towards my side and i like them back, i start hyperfixating on them despite seeing all the red flags.

And then we come to the next part - when they actually do something (which you couldve expected from their red flags) the reaction goes insane. I went manic with my last gf after i caught her lying and manipulating me, i even wanted to do a really bad thing to her but i wont talk about it here, maybe in the future ill write a whole thread about what happened. Anyways overreaction was insane and i almost destroyed my life that day just because i was manic and aggressive as fuck.

But good thing is - as and ADHD person i can only be sad, if someone leaves me, for like 1 week max. After that week i will alrd looking for a new relationship and not giving literally any fucks about my ex.

so true bro, relatable.

 

[fr0st]

2 worst things for me that i get from adhd which affects my relationships:

Hyperfixation

and

Overreacting when there is rush of emotions


So basically what is hyperfixation - it is when you basically get like a crush on someone and you cant stop thinking about that person, you need his validation, attention. Worst part is - you start idolizing that person in your mind and basically living in your headspace, when they turn out to be whole lot different person actually.

This shit happened to me many times - falling in love w junkie girls who are addicted to drinking/doing drugs. Just because they drop some attention towards my side and i like them back, i start hyperfixating on them despite seeing all the red flags.

And then we come to the next part - when they actually do something (which you couldve expected from their red flags) the reaction goes insane. I went manic with my last gf after i caught her lying and manipulating me, i even wanted to do a really bad thing to her but i wont talk about it here, maybe in the future ill write a whole thread about what happened. Anyways overreaction was insane and i almost destroyed my life that day just because i was manic and aggressive as fuck.

But good thing is - as and ADHD person i can only be sad, if someone leaves me, for like 1 week max. After that week i will alrd looking for a new relationship and not giving literally any fucks about my ex.

"His validation" ????

 

[Lust]

"His validation" ????

fuck i messed up

im not native english speaker so i thought person mainly goes as being male

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

you didnt have to write this comment twice

shithouse Australian internet site lagged and clicked twice

 

[moonch1ld]

2 worst things for me that i get from adhd which affects my relationships:

Hyperfixation

and

Overreacting when there is rush of emotions


So basically what is hyperfixation - it is when you basically get like a crush on someone and you cant stop thinking about that person, you need his validation, attention. Worst part is - you start idolizing that person in your mind and basically living in your headspace, when they turn out to be whole lot different person actually.

This shit happened to me many times - falling in love w junkie girls who are addicted to drinking/doing drugs. Just because they drop some attention towards my side and i like them back, i start hyperfixating on them despite seeing all the red flags.

And then we come to the next part - when they actually do something (which you couldve expected from their red flags) the reaction goes insane. I went manic with my last gf after i caught her lying and manipulating me, i even wanted to do a really bad thing to her but i wont talk about it here, maybe in the future ill write a whole thread about what happened. Anyways overreaction was insane and i almost destroyed my life that day just because i was manic and aggressive as fuck.

But good thing is - as and ADHD person i can only be sad, if someone leaves me, for like 1 week max. After that week i will alrd looking for a new relationship and not giving literally any fucks about my ex.

Same nigger