Love is just lust in general
L take, not at all.
What about love for your parents? Do you love them by lust
Love is something that takes time in order to bloom. Imo.
exactly.
How? You can get in love just by looking at her face, no lust involved.
That isn't love. Love is not easily acquired. You are mistaking lust for love.
No it is not lust. At least for me. I see a pretty girl and do not think about anything lustful. I fall in love with their faces.
I would say it's sort of a precursor to lust, if we are going to be more specific but it certainly cannot be love. Falling in love isn't an easy process. It takes time. Weeks, months or even years for some. That's why "love at first sight" isn't really a thing. Maybe "interest at first sight" is better and more realistic to say.
Cope. As soon as you analyze status, personality, etc, it's nothing more than a decision you actively make.
And guess where love blooms? In the heart. So you are proving me right.
It can be both ways. From the beginning or gained after interacting with her for X time.
I fell for my oneitis 5 years after meeting her.
I guess it all depends on what you would call love. Certainly I would not get some kind of sexual excitement from such an interaction but I would replay it in my head since I'm an overthinker and thinking that she's nice. But I'd never get the feeling that I'm head over heels. That is personally how I define love.
Took one year for me, but I was 19 so it happens much easier. I'm now 29 and I've lost the ability to fall in love (head over heels). I will never fall in love anymore.
It's undeniable that interacting with her and getting to know each other is the most important part and makes it or breaks it. I agree with that and it proves you right. It does not matter how pretty she is if she does not fit with you personality and psychologically wise then you will lose interest in her.
I have a pretty complicated relationship with her tbh, that's why took me that long to realice i was in love with her. I'm just hoping about fing some girl in the university but the thing is not going well.
I agree with you. Personality is very important. Sometimes we idolize women in our heads but they can end up being the opposite of how you perceived her to be. Take my oneitis for example, I've learned things about her that I don't like and as a result I think it's better I was rejected after all. I am an anti-natalist and she clearly wasn't. Those two lifestyles will always clash.
You will find someone, brother. You absolutely will.
I hope u find something that brings you peace amd happiness.You will find someone, brother. You absolutely will.
Thanks bhaijaan but I'm not holding my breath.
Do it, do it for whatever reason u find.
I'll PM.
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