Love is fully instinctive. Only love at first sight is real.

[Volksstaffel]

The only real love is based on your body releasing hormones when he sees a suitable partner.

Only love at first sight is real.

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

Mirin take, agreed.

 

[Klasik616]

It doesn't matter cus I am incel
Romanticism = bluepill cope

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

“Love” at first sight is really lust at first sight.

 

[Volksstaffel]

“Love” at first sight is really lust at first sight.

Love is just lust in general

 

[Finnishmogger]

Love is just lust in general

L take, not at all.

 

[Mogs Me]

Love is just lust in general

What about love for your parents? Do you love them by lust

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

Love is just lust in general

Love is something that takes time in order to bloom. Imo.

 

[Finnishmogger]

What about love for your parents? Do you love them by lust

exactly.

 

[Deleted member 30845]

“Love” at first sight is really lust at first sight.

How? You can get in love just by looking at her face, no lust involved.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

How? You can get in love just by looking at her face, no lust involved.

That isn't love. Love is not easily acquired. You are mistaking lust for love.

 

[Deleted member 30845]

That isn't love. Love is not easily acquired. You are mistaking lust for love.

No it is not lust. At least for me. I see a pretty girl and do not think about anything lustful. I fall in love with their faces.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

No it is not lust. At least for me. I see a pretty girl and do not think about anything lustful. I fall in love with their faces.

I would say it's sort of a precursor to lust, if we are going to be more specific but it certainly cannot be love. Falling in love isn't an easy process. It takes time. Weeks, months or even years for some. That's why "love at first sight" isn't really a thing. Maybe "interest at first sight" is better and more realistic to say.

 

[Volksstaffel]

Love is something that takes time in order to bloom. Imo.

Cope. As soon as you analyze status, personality, etc, it's nothing more than a decision you actively make.
Love should be from the heart, not the brain

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

Cope. As soon as you analyze status, personality, etc, it's nothing more than a decision you actively make.
Love should be from the heart, not the brain

And guess where love blooms? In the heart. So you are proving me right.

 

[Deleted member 30845]

I would say it's sort of a precursor to lust, if we are going to be more specific but it certainly cannot be love. Falling in love isn't an easy process. It takes time. Weeks, months or even years for some. That's why "love at first sight" isn't really a thing. Maybe "interest at first sight" is better and more realistic to say.

Cope. As soon as you analyze status, personality, etc, it's nothing more than a decision you actively make.
Love should be from the heart, not the brain

It can be both ways. From the beginning or gained after interacting with her for X time.

But it's not necessarily lust at first.

Imagine you bumped into an unknown girl unintentionally while walking, you tell her "Sorry" and she tells you "it's alright don't worry" and then gives you this smile:

Would feel any lust looking at her? Or any precursor to lust? Because I certainly wouldn't, but would fall instantly in love with her right there.

 

[childishkillah]

The only real love is based on your body releasing hormones when he sees a suitable partner.

Only love at first sight is real.

I fell for my oneitis 5 years after meeting her.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

It can be both ways. From the beginning or gained after interacting with her for X time.

But it's not necessarily lust at first.

Imagine you bumped into an unknown girl unintentionally while walking, you tell her "Sorry" and she tells you "it's alright don't worry" and then gives you this smile:

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Would feel any lust looking at her? Or any precursor to lust? Because I certainly wouldn't, but would fall instantly in love with her right there.

I guess it all depends on what you would call love. Certainly I would not get some kind of sexual excitement from such an interaction but I would replay it in my head since I'm an overthinker and thinking that she's nice. But I'd never get the feeling that I'm head over heels. That is personally how I define love.

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

The only real love is based on your body releasing hormones when he sees a suitable partner.

Only love at first sight is real.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

I fell for my oneitis 5 years after meeting her.

Took one year for me, but I was 19 so it happens much easier. I'm now 29 and I've lost the ability to fall in love (head over heels). I will never fall in love anymore.

 

[Deleted member 30845]

I guess it all depends on what you would call love. Certainly I would not get some kind of sexual excitement from such an interaction but I would replay it in my head since I'm an overthinker and thinking that she's nice. But I'd never get the feeling that I'm head over heels. That is personally how I define love.

It's undeniable that interacting with her and getting to know each other is the most important part and makes it or breaks it. I agree with that and it proves you right. It does not matter how pretty she is if she does not fit with you personality and psychologically wise then you will lose interest in her.

 

[childishkillah]

Took one year for me, but I was 19 so it happens much easier. I'm now 29 and I've lost the ability to fall in love (head over heels). I will never fall in love anymore.

I have a pretty complicated relationship with her tbh, that's why took me that long to realice i was in love with her. I'm just hoping about fing some girl in the university but the thing is not going well.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

It's undeniable that interacting with her and getting to know each other is the most important part and makes it or breaks it. I agree with that and it proves you right. It does not matter how pretty she is if she does not fit with you personality and psychologically wise then you will lose interest in her.

I agree with you. Personality is very important. Sometimes we idolize women in our heads but they can end up being the opposite of how you perceived her to be. Take my oneitis for example, I've learned things about her that I don't like and as a result I think it's better I was rejected after all. I am an anti-natalist and she clearly wasn't. Those two lifestyles will always clash.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

I have a pretty complicated relationship with her tbh, that's why took me that long to realice i was in love with her. I'm just hoping about fing some girl in the umiversity but the thing is not going well.

You will find someone, brother. You absolutely will.

 

[childishkillah]

You will find someone, brother. You absolutely will.

I hope u find something that brings you peace amd happiness.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

I hope u find something that brings you peace amd happiness.

Thanks bhaijaan but I'm not holding my breath.

 

[childishkillah]

Thanks bhaijaan but I'm not holding my breath.

Do it, do it for whatever reason u find.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

Do it, do it for whatever reason u find.

I'll PM.

 

[Volksstaffel]

Thanks bhaijaan but I'm not holding my breath.

Traitorrrr!!!!!