Love requires delusion and ignorance

[disillusioned]

If you genuinely love someone, be it romantically or the way you'd love a family member or friend, you do so only because you don't truly know them.

Very, very few people actually truly understand other humans, including even close family members, because our society is brainwashed with so much bs that almost nobody truly understands how other human beings actually behave. They have protagonist bias and think only themselves can have 'dirty secrets', as if they're somehow the only degenerate in the world to be into weird fetish shit or some other peculiar interest. They don't actually love other people for what they are, but for what they THINK they are. They project their ideal romanticized version of that person onto them and assume that is what they're really like.

This is why there are so many bluepilled fathers who are hyper-protective about their 'little angels' even when their so-called angels are giant whores who start doing drugs and sucking dick at age 12. They actually have no idea what they're looking at. They don't know the person that's been living under the same roof its entire life. They think they do. But they don't.

I can even use myself as an example. Many of my bluepilled relatives see me as an innocent cloudcuckoolander because of my scrawny build and relatively boyish appearance, even going as far as treating me like a kid or teenager even though I'm now in my 30s. If they were even semi-aware of what my real personality is like, they'd be shocked and horrified. They treat me for what they THINK I am, not for what I ACTUALLY am. They'd be horrified and disgusted if they knew the 'real' me.

And this goes for everything. I'm unconvinced that the concept of love could even exist if it wasn't for popular delusions and ignorance.

 

[Elias.dgaf]

i aint reading allat

 

[160cmcurry]

true love exits for chad only

most people that get married end up as betabuxxers in a dead bedroom with their supposed wife that ‘loves’ them
still fantasizing about chad

 

[Dip3shx]

If you genuinely love someone, be it romantically or the way you'd love a family member or friend, you do so only because you don't truly know them.

Very, very few people actually truly understand other humans, including even close family members, because our society is brainwashed with so much bs that almost nobody truly understands how other human beings actually behave. They have protagonist bias and think only themselves can have 'dirty secrets', as if they're somehow the only degenerate in the world to be into weird fetish shit or some other peculiar interest. They don't actually love other people for what they are, but for what they THINK they are. They project their ideal romanticized version of that person onto them and assume that is what they're really like.

This is why there are so many bluepilled fathers who are hyper-protective about their 'little angels' even when their so-called angels are giant whores who start doing drugs and sucking dick at age 12. They actually have no idea what they're looking at. They don't know the person that's been living under the same roof its entire life. They think they do. But they don't.

I can even use myself as an example. Many of my bluepilled relatives see me as an innocent cloudcuckoolander because of my scrawny build and relatively boyish appearance, even going as far as treating me like a kid or teenager even though I'm now in my 30s. If they were even semi-aware of what my real personality is like, they'd be shocked and horrified. They treat me for what they THINK I am, not for what I ACTUALLY am. They'd be horrified and disgusted if they knew the 'real' me.

And this goes for everything. I'm unconvinced that the concept of love could even exist if it wasn't for popular delusions and ignorance.

Yeah this is why I have a tendency to not fully trust people right away and keep myself at arms distance

 

[Wildlife]

If you genuinely love someone, be it romantically or the way you'd love a family member or friend, you do so only because you don't truly know them.

Very, very few people actually truly understand other humans, including even close family members, because our society is brainwashed with so much bs that almost nobody truly understands how other human beings actually behave. They have protagonist bias and think only themselves can have 'dirty secrets', as if they're somehow the only degenerate in the world to be into weird fetish shit or some other peculiar interest. They don't actually love other people for what they are, but for what they THINK they are. They project their ideal romanticized version of that person onto them and assume that is what they're really like.

This is why there are so many bluepilled fathers who are hyper-protective about their 'little angels' even when their so-called angels are giant whores who start doing drugs and sucking dick at age 12. They actually have no idea what they're looking at. They don't know the person that's been living under the same roof its entire life. They think they do. But they don't.

I can even use myself as an example. Many of my bluepilled relatives see me as an innocent cloudcuckoolander because of my scrawny build and relatively boyish appearance, even going as far as treating me like a kid or teenager even though I'm now in my 30s. If they were even semi-aware of what my real personality is like, they'd be shocked and horrified. They treat me for what they THINK I am, not for what I ACTUALLY am. They'd be horrified and disgusted if they knew the 'real' me.

And this goes for everything. I'm unconvinced that the concept of love could even exist if it wasn't for popular delusions and ignorance.

Family members feel obligated to love you

 

[disillusioned]

i aint reading allat

I remember a time back when people only posted this in response to literal walls of text, and not just 3 paragraphs.

 

[Elias.dgaf]

I remember a time back when people only posted this in response to literal walls of text, and not just 3 paragraphs.

sorry unc

 

[disillusioned]

true love exits for chad only

most people that get married end up as betabuxxers in a dead bedroom with their supposed wife that ‘loves’ them
still fantasizing about chad

This is why women don't get married anymore btw.

 

[Aox Ofwar]

If you genuinely love someone, be it romantically or the way you'd love a family member or friend, you do so only because you don't truly know them.

Very, very few people actually truly understand other humans, including even close family members, because our society is brainwashed with so much bs that almost nobody truly understands how other human beings actually behave. They have protagonist bias and think only themselves can have 'dirty secrets', as if they're somehow the only degenerate in the world to be into weird fetish shit or some other peculiar interest. They don't actually love other people for what they are, but for what they THINK they are. They project their ideal romanticized version of that person onto them and assume that is what they're really like.

This is why there are so many bluepilled fathers who are hyper-protective about their 'little angels' even when their so-called angels are giant whores who start doing drugs and sucking dick at age 12. They actually have no idea what they're looking at. They don't know the person that's been living under the same roof its entire life. They think they do. But they don't.

I can even use myself as an example. Many of my bluepilled relatives see me as an innocent cloudcuckoolander because of my scrawny build and relatively boyish appearance, even going as far as treating me like a kid or teenager even though I'm now in my 30s. If they were even semi-aware of what my real personality is like, they'd be shocked and horrified. They treat me for what they THINK I am, not for what I ACTUALLY am. They'd be horrified and disgusted if they knew the 'real' me.

And this goes for everything. I'm unconvinced that the concept of love could even exist if it wasn't for popular delusions and ignorance.

Stopped reading because it's yet another blackpill thread that I won't benefit from reading

Ignorance is bliss

 

[pfl]

 

[Deleted member 180145]

If you genuinely love someone, be it romantically or the way you'd love a family member or friend, you do so only because you don't truly know them.

Very, very few people actually truly understand other humans, including even close family members, because our society is brainwashed with so much bs that almost nobody truly understands how other human beings actually behave. They have protagonist bias and think only themselves can have 'dirty secrets', as if they're somehow the only degenerate in the world to be into weird fetish shit or some other peculiar interest. They don't actually love other people for what they are, but for what they THINK they are. They project their ideal romanticized version of that person onto them and assume that is what they're really like.

This is why there are so many bluepilled fathers who are hyper-protective about their 'little angels' even when their so-called angels are giant whores who start doing drugs and sucking dick at age 12. They actually have no idea what they're looking at. They don't know the person that's been living under the same roof its entire life. They think they do. But they don't.

I can even use myself as an example. Many of my bluepilled relatives see me as an innocent cloudcuckoolander because of my scrawny build and relatively boyish appearance, even going as far as treating me like a kid or teenager even though I'm now in my 30s. If they were even semi-aware of what my real personality is like, they'd be shocked and horrified. They treat me for what they THINK I am, not for what I ACTUALLY am. They'd be horrified and disgusted if they knew the 'real' me.

And this goes for everything. I'm unconvinced that the concept of love could even exist if it wasn't for popular delusions and ignorance.

your threads are pretty much always blackpilled but this one really hit me. nobody is actually liked. only archetypes people project onto each other are.

 

[160cmcurry]

This is why women don't get married anymore btw.

women that advocate for being ‘childfree’ are just fat ugly whores that can’t get chad to ltr them

it’s always some subhuman betabuxxer they refer to whenever they talk about being childfree in a marriage

if it was chad in the picture they’d want kids

you’ll start seeing more “childfree” marriages soon enough where they convinced some subhuman betabuxxer that it’s a preference that they’re just ‘this way’

women like that just want stability

nah wifey just doesn’t find you attractive lol

 

[Foreverbrad]

This describes perfectly how I feel about my ex, even though I actually do know better it’s a state of wilful delusion. I despise my own mental weakness in that regard.

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

it's a emotion so you have to push back emotional thinking

 

[disillusioned]

your threads are pretty much always blackpilled but this one really hit me. nobody is actually liked. only archetypes people project onto each other are.

It hits harder because it's something that's relevant to the lives of literally every person on Earth, even Chad. All the 'good' memories you have of people, be it your uncle, brother, mother, or whatever... those are just what they allowed you to see. Consider your OWN projections, what YOU are picking and choosing in regards to what you're letting other people see of you. What would those other people think if you just showed them the 'raw you'? yea... there's a reason you don't do that. Well, guess what? All those other people are doing the same with you. The smiles are not real.

 

[lightswinning]

It hits harder because it's something that's relevant to the lives of literally every person on Earth, even Chad. All the 'good' memories you have of people, be it your uncle, brother, mother, or whatever... those are just what they allowed you to see. Consider your OWN projections, what YOU are picking and choosing in regards to what you're letting other people see of you. What would those other people think if you just showed them the 'raw you'? yea... there's a reason you don't do that. Well, guess what? All those other people are doing the same with you. The smiles are not real.

I consider myself highly blackpilled, being someone whos an anti-natalist/pessimist/nihilist/ dosent believe free will exists/ dosent believe in the concept of human-created morality/societal obligations/ 50/50 hedonist/ blackpilled+ genetic determinismpilled alladat usual shit, but HOLY this shit hits hard i cant even look / will be able to look at my past/future partners in the same way ever again.
The protagonist bias shit hits fucking hard tbh, what a comical joke it is to think oh "bruh its only me bruh i only have dirty secrets, my -insert loved one is a fucking angel brah", JFL. It is highly likely your "angel GF" has probably had thoughts/fantasies about other guys in a very despicable manner(natural human tendency) yet YOU WILL NEVER fucking know LOL. Hell,the same way a lot of husbands in marriage watch corn without their wives ever knowing/ the marriage still being perfectly normal and "healthy"(according to the wife). In other words, it is impossible to reconcile the concept of "love" with true raw human nature.

 

[disillusioned]

I consider myself highly blackpilled, being someone whos an anti-natalist/pessimist/nihilist/ dosent believe free will exists/ dosent believe in the concept of human-created morality/societal obligations/ 50/50 hedonist/ blackpilled+ genetic determinismpilled alladat usual shit, but HOLY this shit hits hard i cant even look / will be able to look at my past/future partners in the same way ever again.
The protagonist bias shit hits fucking hard tbh, what a comical joke it is to think oh "bruh its only me bruh i only have dirty secrets, my -insert loved one is a fucking angel brah", JFL. It is highly likely your "angel GF" has probably had thoughts/fantasies about other guys in a very despicable manner(natural human tendency) yet YOU WILL NEVER fucking know LOL. Hell,the same way a lot of husbands in marriage watch corn without their wives ever knowing/ the marriage still being perfectly normal and "healthy"(according to the wife). In other words, it is impossible to reconcile the concept of "love" with true raw human nature.

It's especially brutal for people you thought were 'pure' e.g. your mother. Frankly, I'm unsure if mothers even truly love their sons or if they just see them as a future investment (e.g. need them to take care of them in their old age). Women are extremely good at faking their 'love' for their husbands, so why wouldn't the same hold true for their sons?

 

[lightswinning]

It's especially brutal for people you thought were 'pure' e.g. your mother. Frankly, I'm unsure if mothers even truly love their sons or if they just see them as a future investment (e.g. need them to take care of them in their old age). Women are extremely good at faking their 'love' for their husbands, so why wouldn't the same hold true for their sons?

I mean evolutionarily speaking, women were never required to be attracted to a male since the dominant males who killed off the other males usually just forcefully reproduced with the women, thus their sons born inheriting the "dads" dominant genes---> more likely to survive and pass on their genes blah blah the whole natural selection process.

However, evolution DID require the mothers to take care of their sons/ not abandon them after the dominant male has simply moved on( the dominant male just forcefully mates with every women in the tribe he could find after killing off the physically weaker males and moves tf on), because the mothers that did NOT abandon the sons meant these sons now had a higher probability of surviving and passing on their genes etc etc than the son who did inherit the same dominant genes but their mothers had a tendency to abandon the son, which means natural selection favored women who "loved" their sons. Hence i personally think motherly love is the purest form of love that exists since its very primal and wired into females.

 

[disillusioned]

I mean evolutionarily speaking, women were never required to be attracted to a male since the dominant males who killed off the other males usually just forcefully reproduced with the women, thus their sons born inheriting the "dads" dominant genes---> more likely to survive and pass on their genes blah blah the whole natural selection process.

However, evolution DID require the mothers to take care of their sons/ not abandon them after the dominant male has simply moved on( the dominant male just forcefully mates with every women in the tribe he could find after killing off the physically weaker males and moves tf on), because the mothers that did NOT abandon the sons meant these sons now had a higher probability of surviving and passing on their genes etc etc than the son who did inherit the same dominant genes but their mothers had a tendency to abandon the son, which means natural selection favored women who "loved" their sons. Hence i personally think motherly love is the purest form of love that exists since its very primal and wired into females.

This is actually false. There's evidence suggesting that ancient humans were collectivist and that children belonged to the tribe rather than individual people.

 

[lightswinning]

This is actually false. There's evidence suggesting that ancient humans were collectivist and that children belonged to the tribe rather than individual people.

Yes but wouldnt that still require the women of the tribe to be more likely to take care of the children than not?

 

[disillusioned]

Yes but wouldnt that still require the women of the tribe to be more likely to take care of the children than not?

Yes but it wouldn't be 'their' children, it would just be the children of the tribe.

 

[lightswinning]

Yes but it wouldn't be 'their' children, it would just be the children of the tribe.

AHHHlight bulb moment ahh, so your saying there was no real evolutionary reason for females to take a liking to their own son of their genetics since primitive tribes were collectivist gotcha, they just needed to evolve to"like children", actually this explains why women love babies in general and find any baby they see "cute", or idk if im going schizo

 

[disillusioned]

AHHHlight bulb moment ahh, so your saying there was no real evolutionary reason for females to take a liking to their own son of their genetics since primitive tribes were collectivist gotcha, they just needed to evolve to"like children", actually this explains why women love babies in general and find any baby they see "cute", or idk if im going schizo

Something akin to this but imo they only like 'babies' not toddlers (which nobody fucking likes).

 

[The Grinch]

I been saying this for years. You don‘t fall in love with a person, you fall in love with the fantasy of that person you created in your head. I‘m not saying you can‘t find someone physically attractive or even find their personality interesting, you absolutely can like someone despite knowing they have flaws, i‘m talking about people who suffer from oneitis and are obsessed with someone and convinced themselves that their oneitis is some kind of superior being who fell from heaven

 

[holerabp]

If you genuinely love someone, be it romantically or the way you'd love a family member or friend, you do so only because you don't truly know them.

Very, very few people actually truly understand other humans, including even close family members, because our society is brainwashed with so much bs that almost nobody truly understands how other human beings actually behave. They have protagonist bias and think only themselves can have 'dirty secrets', as if they're somehow the only degenerate in the world to be into weird fetish shit or some other peculiar interest. They don't actually love other people for what they are, but for what they THINK they are. They project their ideal romanticized version of that person onto them and assume that is what they're really like.

This is why there are so many bluepilled fathers who are hyper-protective about their 'little angels' even when their so-called angels are giant whores who start doing drugs and sucking dick at age 12. They actually have no idea what they're looking at. They don't know the person that's been living under the same roof its entire life. They think they do. But they don't.

I can even use myself as an example. Many of my bluepilled relatives see me as an innocent cloudcuckoolander because of my scrawny build and relatively boyish appearance, even going as far as treating me like a kid or teenager even though I'm now in my 30s. If they were even semi-aware of what my real personality is like, they'd be shocked and horrified. They treat me for what they THINK I am, not for what I ACTUALLY am. They'd be horrified and disgusted if they knew the 'real' me.

And this goes for everything. I'm unconvinced that the concept of love could even exist if it wasn't for popular delusions and ignorance.

Dnr but title real unc

 

[registerfasterusing]

If you genuinely love someone, be it romantically or the way you'd love a family member or friend, you do so only because you don't truly know them.

Very, very few people actually truly understand other humans, including even close family members, because our society is brainwashed with so much bs that almost nobody truly understands how other human beings actually behave. They have protagonist bias and think only themselves can have 'dirty secrets', as if they're somehow the only degenerate in the world to be into weird fetish shit or some other peculiar interest. They don't actually love other people for what they are, but for what they THINK they are. They project their ideal romanticized version of that person onto them and assume that is what they're really like.

This is why there are so many bluepilled fathers who are hyper-protective about their 'little angels' even when their so-called angels are giant whores who start doing drugs and sucking dick at age 12. They actually have no idea what they're looking at. They don't know the person that's been living under the same roof its entire life. They think they do. But they don't.

I can even use myself as an example. Many of my bluepilled relatives see me as an innocent cloudcuckoolander because of my scrawny build and relatively boyish appearance, even going as far as treating me like a kid or teenager even though I'm now in my 30s. If they were even semi-aware of what my real personality is like, they'd be shocked and horrified. They treat me for what they THINK I am, not for what I ACTUALLY am. They'd be horrified and disgusted if they knew the 'real' me.

And this goes for everything. I'm unconvinced that the concept of love could even exist if it wasn't for popular delusions and ignorance.

U could say this abt literally anything

 

[ConfusedBolivian]

If you genuinely love someone, be it romantically or the way you'd love a family member or friend, you do so only because you don't truly know them.

Very, very few people actually truly understand other humans, including even close family members, because our society is brainwashed with so much bs that almost nobody truly understands how other human beings actually behave. They have protagonist bias and think only themselves can have 'dirty secrets', as if they're somehow the only degenerate in the world to be into weird fetish shit or some other peculiar interest. They don't actually love other people for what they are, but for what they THINK they are. They project their ideal romanticized version of that person onto them and assume that is what they're really like.

This is why there are so many bluepilled fathers who are hyper-protective about their 'little angels' even when their so-called angels are giant whores who start doing drugs and sucking dick at age 12. They actually have no idea what they're looking at. They don't know the person that's been living under the same roof its entire life. They think they do. But they don't.

I can even use myself as an example. Many of my bluepilled relatives see me as an innocent cloudcuckoolander because of my scrawny build and relatively boyish appearance, even going as far as treating me like a kid or teenager even though I'm now in my 30s. If they were even semi-aware of what my real personality is like, they'd be shocked and horrified. They treat me for what they THINK I am, not for what I ACTUALLY am. They'd be horrified and disgusted if they knew the 'real' me.

And this goes for everything. I'm unconvinced that the concept of love could even exist if it wasn't for popular delusions and ignorance.

Totally agree.
I like youre threads You are HIGH iq mate.
Good job