Lust : The battle you will never win

[landymaxxed]

if you think porn in any way is okay, then this forum isn't for you.

i'll be honest. lately lust has been consuming me for the past 2 months now. those who are experiencing the same can agree that this can take a toll on mental health. with the way the media is currently, it has become a normal thing. this only makes it harder to quit, and to stay away from. i'm not a bad looking dude whatsoever. i've been with this girl for a little over a year now. but i find that i'm beginning to lose her because of it. it seems that the only reason i wanna see and talk to her are for wrong reasons. this is only putting me in a dark corner afterwards, thinking to myself "what am i doing". sometimes i can't even look her in the eye. because in the back of my mind all i can think of is the lust. it is killing my love for her. whenever i come to clarity i always feel so disgusted with myself but its like i cant stop. as if it is a drug and im 100% vulnerable. the only thing i wanna do right now is quit for good.

if you guys have any advice or tips, don't hesitate to leave a reply. i know i'm not the only one.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Your guilt is misplaced. Don't be afraid to look anyone in the eye for any reason.

 

[landymaxxed]

Your guilt is misplaced. Don't be afraid to look anyone in the eye for any reason.

you may be right. but how can i look in her in the eye after all that

 

[Lefty Rankin]

you may be right. but how can i look in her in the eye after all that

I guess by just being guiltless.

 

[landymaxxed]

I guess by just being guiltless.

lol be serious.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

lol be serious.

I am being serious.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

lol be serious.

I guess by just being guiltless.

Guilt never helped anyone in any situation.

 

[malibu122]

no fap is a meme man, you can’t really fight against your biological programming for reproducing, its all natural, you can either satisfy it via relationships & sex or quickly rub one off every once in a few weeks (without watching porn obivously cuz it isnt natural) best method in my opinion and just stay busy and not think about it much.

 

[Dejean]

if you think porn in any way is okay, then this forum isn't for you.

i'll be honest. lately lust has been consuming me for the past 2 months now. those who are experiencing the same can agree that this can take a toll on mental health. with the way the media is currently, it has become a normal thing. this only makes it harder to quit, and to stay away from. i'm not a bad looking dude whatsoever. i've been with this girl for a little over a year now. but i find that i'm beginning to lose her because of it. it seems that the only reason i wanna see and talk to her are for wrong reasons. this is only putting me in a dark corner afterwards, thinking to myself "what am i doing". sometimes i can't even look her in the eye. because in the back of my mind all i can think of is the lust. it is killing my love for her. whenever i come to clarity i always feel so disgusted with myself but its like i cant stop. as if it is a drug and im 100% vulnerable. the only thing i wanna do right now is quit for good.

if you guys have any advice or tips, don't hesitate to leave a reply. i know i'm not the only one.

If you try to battle lust kys

 

[Sakl]

What I noticed about guys that dont fap is that they have like this permanent pump to them like their muscles.

Smartest people I know irl have never fapped.

100% believe in no fap

 

[landymaxxed]

no fap is a meme man, you can’t really fight against your biological programming for reproducing, its all natural, you can either satisfy it via relationships & sex or quickly rub one off every once in a few weeks (without watching porn obivously cuz it isnt natural) best method in my opinion and just stay busy and not think about it much.

i get what you’re saying, but i don’t really agree. just because something is biologically natural doesn’t automatically mean it’s beneficial or something you should give in to every time you feel the urge. i think there’s value in having self-control and being able to resist your impulses instead of always satisfying them. and i don’t think nofap is necessarily about “fighting biology” either, it can just be about discipline and changing your habits. why would i not try to better myself

 

[landymaxxed]

Guilt never helped anyone in any situation.

in this case, it doesn't really make sense.

 

[malibu122]

i get what you’re saying, but i don’t really agree. just because something is biologically natural doesn’t automatically mean it’s beneficial or something you should give in to every time you feel the urge. i think there’s value in having self-control and being able to resist your impulses instead of always satisfying them. and i don’t think nofap is necessarily about “fighting biology” either, it can just be about discipline and changing your habits. why would i not try to better myself

that was the point though, I didnt mean give into it, just that the body will force you to satisfy the urge as thats how your programmed, you can go on no fap but the wet dreams will take over at some point as it is just natural for the body to release a buildup of semen at some point, best not let it torture or take your psyche and helps to retardmaxx a bit and have sex (if you have access to poosay) or jack off once in a blue moon (via imagination) (what I originally meant) to relive some pressure and move on to other things in life. This does not imply be an addict and have no self control what so ever.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

in this case, it doesn't really make sense.

Guilt doesn't make you a better person. Stop entertaining it.