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Your goal in life shouldn't be to look like a model (a man who in a lot of cases sells his honor by wearing gay clothes and walks around gay people for money), your real goals should be much higher and of course, at the same time, achievable. And always realize that no matter what you achieve, it will make you no company after death.
Don't live to please people or specifically a woman, Imam As Shafii said:
I laughed and they said "can't you be modest".
I cried and they said "Why don't you smile?"
I smiled and they said "He's a show off"
I frowned and they said "I started showing my true colors".
I was silent and they said i had a feeble tongue.
When i spoke they said i was too talkative.
When i was tolerant they called it cowardice and said, had I been brave, i would have taken a revenge.
When i showed up some courage they said it was rash & reckless and i wouldn't have behaved so if i were balanced.
When I said NO they considered me odd, When i agreed with them, they called me a blind follower.
So it became certain, that no matter how hard i try, pleasing people will bring nothing but criticism.
If your standard of success is such a low one, then no wonder why you are such a low self esteem person.
Don't live to please people or specifically a woman, Imam As Shafii said:
I laughed and they said "can't you be modest".
I cried and they said "Why don't you smile?"
I smiled and they said "He's a show off"
I frowned and they said "I started showing my true colors".
I was silent and they said i had a feeble tongue.
When i spoke they said i was too talkative.
When i was tolerant they called it cowardice and said, had I been brave, i would have taken a revenge.
When i showed up some courage they said it was rash & reckless and i wouldn't have behaved so if i were balanced.
When I said NO they considered me odd, When i agreed with them, they called me a blind follower.
So it became certain, that no matter how hard i try, pleasing people will bring nothing but criticism.
If your standard of success is such a low one, then no wonder why you are such a low self esteem person.
