MAKING A FIRST MOVE ON THE AWKWARD GIRL @ MY HIGHSCHOOL (GTFIH!!!!)

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So for some background information there is a very awkward but pretty girl at my school. she’s very reserved, makes herself small due to guys constantly bullying her and belittling her. she has very few friends but is visibly intelligent unlike my loud and obnoxious foid peers. as someone who is bound to be an articulate high achieving chad(n’t), i am naturally drawn to these types of women — smart, reserved, humble. because her self esteem would be at an all time low, i saw this as the perfect opportunity to shoot my shot, because surely that would increase my chances.

step 1: TALKING TO HER (COMPLETED✅)



so it’s time to talk to her when peers aren’t around to watch, to eliminate the risk of being criticised for talking to the ‘weird girl’. i find her walking home from school, crying. my plan is to fake comfort her — (offer her support but also add to her insecurities; “oh yeah i think i also heard your friends talking badly about you, are you alright?” — socially isolating her further, making her question her trust in friends. Thanks @autisticular :feelsgood:)

This works like a charm. She turns to be and forces a smile through the tears.
“I’m not surprised honestly. I don’t actually know what i did.”

“Hey hey, don’t worry about it. I’m always here if you want to talk.”

“Thank you” she replies with an awkward smile. (This made my heart melt. im a simp for these types of women.)

STEP 2: GETTING THE SNAP (COMPLETED✅)

it takes all my confidence to ask her for her Snapchat and she agrees. never in my life have i been successful with getting girls contact information likely because I’ve always been a social reject up until grade 12.


STEP 3: FURTHER ISOLATING HER (YET TO COMPLETE)

this will involve making her seperate from friendships, see myself as her source of peace and distrust everyone else around her. These threads will be an ongoing series but i am feeling confident about this. Only problem is peers criticising this relationship but fuck them niggas theyve done nothing but let me down my whole high school experience im ready to block them the second I graduate and have this girl all to myself :feelsgood:


PLEASE BUMP THIS THREAD I NEED MORE ADVICE THIS IS A ONE IN LIFETIME OPPORTUNITY FOR ME SO ALL LIKES AND REPLIES APPRECIATED
 
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Based, make her trust you more than her own friends

Now you’re in 3rd base
 
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Good manipulation tactics if this is true.
 
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I feel responsible for this so I’ll keep giving advice. All forms of manipulation fall into these categories Gaslighting, Mirroring, Love Bombing, and Isolation. Now that u have gotten her contact and become friends with her, u need to do love bombing and mirroring To make ur bond with this girl closer. The goal of love bombing isn’t to be a giga simp, but just make this girl feel seen by acknowledging her and complimenting her. However, to make love binding work and not be a simp, u are going to need to mirror some of her values, preferences, speech patterns to try and create a families report with this girl, pretty much acting like you’ve also been in the same situation as her, and also like the same things type thing. Now lastly, after u have done mirroring and love bobbing to crate a sense of familiarity and closer bond, u are going to gaslight her. When I mean gaslight, that is pretty much convincing her that the problem lies with particular issues of her, and also her friends. To sum it all up, u want to crate a sense of familiarity and close bond with her, so she will come to u for advice and help, cause she feels seen and acknowledged by u. Once u get this, u wanna gaslight her friends and insecurity to isolate her from other people more, so then at the end the only one she really trusts is u and no one else.
 
I feel responsible for this so I’ll keep giving advice. All forms of manipulation fall into these categories Gaslighting, Mirroring, Love Bombing, and Isolation. Now that u have gotten her contact and become friends with her, u need to do love bombing and mirroring To make ur bond with this girl closer. The goal of love bombing isn’t to be a giga simp, but just make this girl feel seen by acknowledging her and complimenting her. However, to make love binding work and not be a simp, u are going to need to mirror some of her values, preferences, speech patterns to try and create a families report with this girl, pretty much acting like you’ve also been in the same situation as her, and also like the same things type thing. Now lastly, after u have done mirroring and love bobbing to crate a sense of familiarity and closer bond, u are going to gaslight her. When I mean gaslight, that is pretty much convincing her that the problem lies with particular issues of her, and also her friends. To sum it all up, u want to crate a sense of familiarity and close bond with her, so she will come to u for advice and help, cause she feels seen and acknowledged by u. Once u get this, u wanna gaslight her friends and insecurity to isolate her from other people more, so then at the end the only one she really trusts is u and no one else.

What a bunch of fucking larping fags
 
DID NOT READ NIGGA KEEP TYPNG ESSAYS NOBODY WILL READ YOU FAGGOT SHOOT YOURSLEF IN THE HEAD
 
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So for some background information there is a very awkward but pretty girl at my school. she’s very reserved, makes herself small due to guys constantly bullying her and belittling her. she has very few friends but is visibly intelligent unlike my loud and obnoxious foid peers. as someone who is bound to be an articulate high achieving chad(n’t), i am naturally drawn to these types of women — smart, reserved, humble. because her self esteem would be at an all time low, i saw this as the perfect opportunity to shoot my shot, because surely that would increase my chances.

step 1: TALKING TO HER (COMPLETED✅)



so it’s time to talk to her when peers aren’t around to watch, to eliminate the risk of being criticised for talking to the ‘weird girl’. i find her walking home from school, crying. my plan is to fake comfort her — (offer her support but also add to her insecurities; “oh yeah i think i also heard your friends talking badly about you, are you alright?” — socially isolating her further, making her question her trust in friends. Thanks @autisticular :feelsgood:)

This works like a charm. She turns to be and forces a smile through the tears.
“I’m not surprised honestly. I don’t actually know what i did.”

“Hey hey, don’t worry about it. I’m always here if you want to talk.”

“Thank you” she replies with an awkward smile. (This made my heart melt. im a simp for these types of women.)

STEP 2: GETTING THE SNAP (COMPLETED✅)

it takes all my confidence to ask her for her Snapchat and she agrees. never in my life have i been successful with getting girls contact information likely because I’ve always been a social reject up until grade 12.


STEP 3: FURTHER ISOLATING HER (YET TO COMPLETE)

this will involve making her seperate from friendships, see myself as her source of peace and distrust everyone else around her. These threads will be an ongoing series but i am feeling confident about this. Only problem is peers criticising this relationship but fuck them niggas theyve done nothing but let me down my whole high school experience im ready to block them the second I graduate and have this girl all to myself :feelsgood:


PLEASE BUMP THIS THREAD I NEED MORE ADVICE THIS IS A ONE IN LIFETIME OPPORTUNITY FOR ME SO ALL LIKES AND REPLIES APPRECIATED
Mirin
 
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It was going so good until you started being a fucking lunatic
 
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I feel responsible for this so I’ll keep giving advice. All forms of manipulation fall into these categories Gaslighting, Mirroring, Love Bombing, and Isolation. Now that u have gotten her contact and become friends with her, u need to do love bombing and mirroring To make ur bond with this girl closer. The goal of love bombing isn’t to be a giga simp, but just make this girl feel seen by acknowledging her and complimenting her. However, to make love binding work and not be a simp, u are going to need to mirror some of her values, preferences, speech patterns to try and create a families report with this girl, pretty much acting like you’ve also been in the same situation as her, and also like the same things type thing. Now lastly, after u have done mirroring and love bobbing to crate a sense of familiarity and closer bond, u are going to gaslight her. When I mean gaslight, that is pretty much convincing her that the problem lies with particular issues of her, and also her friends. To sum it all up, u want to crate a sense of familiarity and close bond with her, so she will come to u for advice and help, cause she feels seen and acknowledged by u. Once u get this, u wanna gaslight her friends and insecurity to isolate her from other people more, so then at the end the only one she really trusts is u and no one else.
facts but i dont want her to feel unhappy and dependant on me at the same time i still have a heart and i feel for her as someone who has been socially isolated my whole life. duly noted and very much appreciated
 
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facts but i dont want her to feel unhappy and dependant on me at the same time i still have a heart and i feel for her as someone who has been socially isolated my whole life. duly noted and very much appreciated
the goal isn’t to make her unhappy, it’s literally to make her happy with being with u, and replace her dogshit friends with urs
 
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the goal isn’t to make her unhappy, it’s literally to make her happy with being with u, and replace her dogshit friends with urs
well obviously but i meant like i dont want it so she feels unfulfilled when not in my presence and has an anxious attachment yk not only is that annoying but thatd suck for her
 
So for some background information there is a very awkward but pretty girl at my school. she’s very reserved, makes herself small due to guys constantly bullying her and belittling her. she has very few friends but is visibly intelligent unlike my loud and obnoxious foid peers. as someone who is bound to be an articulate high achieving chad(n’t), i am naturally drawn to these types of women — smart, reserved, humble. because her self esteem would be at an all time low, i saw this as the perfect opportunity to shoot my shot, because surely that would increase my chances.

step 1: TALKING TO HER (COMPLETED✅)



so it’s time to talk to her when peers aren’t around to watch, to eliminate the risk of being criticised for talking to the ‘weird girl’. i find her walking home from school, crying. my plan is to fake comfort her — (offer her support but also add to her insecurities; “oh yeah i think i also heard your friends talking badly about you, are you alright?” — socially isolating her further, making her question her trust in friends. Thanks @autisticular :feelsgood:)

This works like a charm. She turns to be and forces a smile through the tears.
“I’m not surprised honestly. I don’t actually know what i did.”

“Hey hey, don’t worry about it. I’m always here if you want to talk.”

“Thank you” she replies with an awkward smile. (This made my heart melt. im a simp for these types of women.)

STEP 2: GETTING THE SNAP (COMPLETED✅)

it takes all my confidence to ask her for her Snapchat and she agrees. never in my life have i been successful with getting girls contact information likely because I’ve always been a social reject up until grade 12.


STEP 3: FURTHER ISOLATING HER (YET TO COMPLETE)

this will involve making her seperate from friendships, see myself as her source of peace and distrust everyone else around her. These threads will be an ongoing series but i am feeling confident about this. Only problem is peers criticising this relationship but fuck them niggas theyve done nothing but let me down my whole high school experience im ready to block them the second I graduate and have this girl all to myself :feelsgood:


PLEASE BUMP THIS THREAD I NEED MORE ADVICE THIS IS A ONE IN LIFETIME OPPORTUNITY FOR ME SO ALL LIKES AND REPLIES APPRECIATED
High IQ I hope your successful at cuttting her off
 
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Nigga thinks he's light hahahaha
 

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