cortisolspike
being 5,9 sucks
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When you don't have friends, you can feel lonely. Remember that loneliness is very common. Almost everyone feels it at some time. It does not mean that there is something wrong with you. It is a situation that you can change. Changing the situation may involve finding and developing a circle of triends. But it may also mean learning to enjoy your times alone; to use them more constructively and enjoyably.
Do not wait for other people to visit you or speak to you. Try to talk to people you sit next to in class or at meals or in breaks. Say hello or even just smile at people you pass in the building. (Applies only if ur goodlooking)
Try to put yourself in new situations where you will meet people with similar interests to you. Join in with activities that you are genuinely interested in and enjoy -clubs, sports or voluntary work. (Applies only if ur goodlooking)
But do not do too much - don't fill your time with too many things just so that you are not alone.
Try not to be critical of your efforts. Remind yourself that close friendships take time to develop.
Build relationships by being a good friend to others.
Respond to others and their interests (but do not pretend to be interested if you aren't really).
Some people are more comfortable in groups and others in 'one-to-one situations. Consider your own preferences and 'style'. Find others with similar preferences.
Do not wait for other people to visit you or speak to you. Try to talk to people you sit next to in class or at meals or in breaks. Say hello or even just smile at people you pass in the building. (Applies only if ur goodlooking)
Try to put yourself in new situations where you will meet people with similar interests to you. Join in with activities that you are genuinely interested in and enjoy -clubs, sports or voluntary work. (Applies only if ur goodlooking)
But do not do too much - don't fill your time with too many things just so that you are not alone.
Try not to be critical of your efforts. Remind yourself that close friendships take time to develop.
Build relationships by being a good friend to others.
Respond to others and their interests (but do not pretend to be interested if you aren't really).
Some people are more comfortable in groups and others in 'one-to-one situations. Consider your own preferences and 'style'. Find others with similar preferences.