Male obsession and loneliness.

[NateJacobs]

oneitis​

An unhealthy romantic obsession with a single person. Usually accompanied by un-reciprocated affection and completely unrealistic idealization of the said person.


Rise in Unhealthy Obsessions
Over the past few years i’ve been dealing with what some would call a problem. I’m not alone in this but, i will often become incredibly obsessed with girls who show any sort of interest towards me when they at least HTB. For other men the bar is lower for this obsession to start but it starts nonetheless. I would stalk vscos, IG,reposts, snap scores and fantasize about a life with them. This is undoublty unhealthy as in every case so far, i’ve either not acted on talking to these girls or when i did ONE time my freshman year, i was denied and it broke me. Most men are not used to girls showing them any sort of romantic attention. The genuine loneliness sets in as you reach teenhood and everyone around you has experiences with girls, relations with girls , sex with girls and we sit here wanting the same. Attachment issues run rampant in guys my age who latch on to the first girl who even says hi to them. It’s hard not to revolve your life around a girl when you have nothing going on in your life, when you don’t talk to women, when you’ve never been loved. It can end bad when a girl who you are deeply in “love” with goes for the guys you’d expect. The more outgoing guy, the taller guy, the better looking guy. It hurts just as bad as the first time it happens. I’ve been hit so many times yet it still hurts the same and my fear of rejection remains Everest.



Now i’m obsessed with a stacylite i’ve made many many threads about. Unlike the other girls, i actually talk to her. I can’t say i’m in love with her but i want to say but i know it can’t be true. I’m obsessed? What is this, i may never know.

 

[GabachoCopium]

Did I influence this thread at all?

 

[NateJacobs]

Did I influence this thread at all?

well your comments made me realize more people relate to the stuff i go through and don’t talk about most guys don’t say this shit out loud unless it’s anonymous

 

[GabachoCopium]

well your comments made me realize more people relate to the stuff i go through and don’t talk about most guys don’t say this shit out loud unless it’s anonymous

True, we are all going through this, can’t really speak about topics like this to people irl

 

[Deleted member 23472]

Can relate in everything

 

[Sprinkles]

niggas fall in love every time a girl is remotely friendly with them

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I think you should always be talking to other girls even if you like one , so you don’t get attached

 

[NateJacobs]

I think you should always be talking to other girls even if you like one , so you don’t get attached

i did. was talking with 5 and i still got attached to the one who didn’t even want me like thay

 

[Nick.Harte]

Can relate boyo. We are just unlucky for not being able to get with our oneitis while chads gets to fuck his oneitis that he has been fantasising about for days.

 

[NateJacobs]

Can relate boyo. We are just unlucky for not being able to get with our oneitis while chads gets to fuck his oneitis that he has been fantasising about for days.

literally ppl will think it’s incel talk but my chadlite friend last year told me hey ___ is kinda bad and i said yeah she is and on my life within a week he fucked her after saying that.

 

[Deleted member 28610]

Can relate boyo. We are just unlucky for not being able to get with our oneitis while chads gets to fuck his oneitis that he has been fantasising about for days.

Chads dont get oneitises
its an incel trait

 

[Nick.Harte]

literally ppl will think it’s incel talk but my chadlite friend last year told me hey ___ is kinda bad and i said yeah she is and on my life within a week he fucked her after saying that.

We will never experience life as a chad because we are born to lose.

 

[Nick.Harte]

Chads dont get oneitises
its an incel trait

Some Chads may get oneitis.

 

[NateJacobs]

We will never experience life as a chad because we are born to lose.

no i was born to lose so i can enjoy it even more when i win.

 

[SubSigma]

I have been attached to a girl from Russia for over a year now.

//SubSigma

 

[Deleted member 19911]

Dnr

 

[Deleted member 32486]

Never had a oneitis, or felt sincerely attracted to anyone.

 

[Deleted member 21628]

Umm.. girls have this too..


So?

 

[ConfusedBolivian]

I dont have oneitis, i just want to kill myself

 

[Struggler03]

I have had a oneitis for 6 years , she was the first time I felt the feeling of love, I have been stalking her and have images of her stored in a folder and the best part is that she dosent even know I exist
I cannot feel the amount of intense love that I felt for her with any other girl. Time feels like it slows down whenever I see her. Even though I know its pathetic and stupid.

 

[fuckingtheuniverse]

Am i hella weird that i never had oneitis or a crush or anything my whole life i didnt even think about women as women till like 17 or some shit

 

[Maalik]

niggas fall in love every time a girl is remotely friendly with them

me last week.
gl blonde called me cute and within hours developed a minor crush I had to force myself out of.

i have the emotional maturity of a 12 year old at the age of 21 but its to be expected with having had no teenage experience with girls except a few normal conversations, which also stopped happening when the rot gave birth to deep autism jfl.

 

[horizontallytall]

I feel this is crestfallens old karl marx thread

 

[6’3 chad]

me last week.
gl blonde called me cute and within hours developed a minor crush I had to force myself out of.

i have the emotional maturity of a 12 year old at the age of 21 but its to be expected with having had no teenage experience with girls except a few normal conversations, which also stopped happening when the rot gave birth to deep autism jfl.

yeah man id say im a late bloomer with little to no experience. Girls usually stare and approach but my lack of experience scares me. I keep coping and stating that my standards are too high and i dont find these foids attractive but in reality its pathetic and i think its over for late bloomers

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Chads dont get oneitises
its an incel trait

Some Chads may get oneitis.

liking a certain girl a lot = / oneitis

 

[ranierean]

girls who show any sort of interest towards me when they at least HTB

Having multiple oneitises... kinda misses the point. I only had one and technically she still is mine to this day.

 

[Napoleon1800]

oneitis​

An unhealthy romantic obsession with a single person. Usually accompanied by un-reciprocated affection and completely unrealistic idealization of the said person.


Rise in Unhealthy Obsessions
Over the past few years i’ve been dealing with what some would call a problem. I’m not alone in this but, i will often become incredibly obsessed with girls who show any sort of interest towards me when they at least HTB. For other men the bar is lower for this obsession to start but it starts nonetheless. I would stalk vscos, IG,reposts, snap scores and fantasize about a life with them. This is undoublty unhealthy as in every case so far, i’ve either not acted on talking to these girls or when i did ONE time my freshman year, i was denied and it broke me. Most men are not used to girls showing them any sort of romantic attention. The genuine loneliness sets in as you reach teenhood and everyone around you has experiences with girls, relations with girls , sex with girls and we sit here wanting the same. Attachment issues run rampant in guys my age who latch on to the first girl who even says hi to them. It’s hard not to revolve your life around a girl when you have nothing going on in your life, when you don’t talk to women, when you’ve never been loved. It can end bad when a girl who you are deeply in “love” with goes for the guys you’d expect. The more outgoing guy, the taller guy, the better looking guy. It hurts just as bad as the first time it happens. I’ve been hit so many times yet it still hurts the same and my fear of rejection remains Everest.



Now i’m obsessed with a stacylite i’ve made many many threads about. Unlike the other girls, i actually talk to her. I can’t say i’m in love with her but i want to say but i know it can’t be true. I’m obsessed? What is this, i may never know.

Same brother. But there is hope, there is hope...

 

[HOLYFUARK]

Yeah i understand, also this neediness kill women s attraction to you, it means you have no sense of self worth or preservation and you re ready to throw your soul to the first girl that walks by, a simp .

 

[NateJacobs]

Yeah i understand, also this neediness kill women s attraction to you, it means you have no sense of self worth or preservation and you re ready to throw your soul to the first girl that walks by, a simp .

yeah your right but that’s who i am rn and i have to pretend like idgaf about a girl i want badly

 

[Deleted member 40986]

oneitis​

An unhealthy romantic obsession with a single person. Usually accompanied by un-reciprocated affection and completely unrealistic idealization of the said person.


Rise in Unhealthy Obsessions
Over the past few years i’ve been dealing with what some would call a problem. I’m not alone in this but, i will often become incredibly obsessed with girls who show any sort of interest towards me when they at least HTB. For other men the bar is lower for this obsession to start but it starts nonetheless. I would stalk vscos, IG,reposts, snap scores and fantasize about a life with them. This is undoublty unhealthy as in every case so far, i’ve either not acted on talking to these girls or when i did ONE time my freshman year, i was denied and it broke me. Most men are not used to girls showing them any sort of romantic attention. The genuine loneliness sets in as you reach teenhood and everyone around you has experiences with girls, relations with girls , sex with girls and we sit here wanting the same. Attachment issues run rampant in guys my age who latch on to the first girl who even says hi to them. It’s hard not to revolve your life around a girl when you have nothing going on in your life, when you don’t talk to women, when you’ve never been loved. It can end bad when a girl who you are deeply in “love” with goes for the guys you’d expect. The more outgoing guy, the taller guy, the better looking guy. It hurts just as bad as the first time it happens. I’ve been hit so many times yet it still hurts the same and my fear of rejection remains Everest.



Now i’m obsessed with a stacylite i’ve made many many threads about. Unlike the other girls, i actually talk to her. I can’t say i’m in love with her but i want to say but i know it can’t be true. I’m obsessed? What is this, i may never know.

This oneitis trend needs to be over. Disney love is real, but not at anyone’s reach. People need to learn to value themselves and not be brainwashed fucks all the time, sadly, to do this they need more female attention which is what they lack off hard.

 

[𝔻𝔸𝕎ℕ 𝕆𝔽 𝕂ℍ𝔸L]

leave this. Get more blackpilled. Try meditating everyday to re consider your feelings for her..... What's your age? What you do?

 

[NateJacobs]

leave this. Get more blackpilled. Try meditating everyday to re consider your feelings for her..... What's your age? What you do?

i’m 17 my feelings for this girl are up and down lately i stopped entertaining her bs only talk to her when she hits me up first

 

[𝔻𝔸𝕎ℕ 𝕆𝔽 𝕂ℍ𝔸L]

i’m 17 my feelings for this girl are up and down lately i stopped entertaining her bs only talk to her when she hits me up first

Happy to hear that you're controlling your emotions. It's better to have a female friend than get her creeped out by your proposal.

When i was 11, I also faced the same issue with a girl who never really was into me.

When we both left school after Grade 5 i tried proposing to her from 3 different WhatsApp accounts(cuz she kept blocking)...... at the end she said "Fuck Off"

Since then i never approached a woman ever!!!!!!! And you shouldn't tooo..... unless she shows clear interest in you or you really think that she has Deep connections with you...... like she keeps touching you or wants to talk with you frequently or calls you handsome or cute.