Male self perception of success regarding women

[Zeuxx]

It’s proven by studies that men are much more likely to assume something is a choosing signal ( or wtv the name you have it for), like assuming some nice manners are a more personal thing, this is because men aren’t the choosers when it comes to sex and as such need to assume everything is a choosing signal as to try preserve their dna, this causes severe misunderstandings in our modern world, like how I myself thought this girl was obsessed with me, and yet she thought I was being a creep and was pressuring her to respond and reciprocate my gestures, things like intense eye contact which I assumed were her wanting to look me in the eyes, were her being willing to not look away as she didn’t find me attractive, it got so bad she legit had to move class because I kept making too many moves on her she felt uncomfortable and distracted.

Worst life story I think I’ve ever had. I’m never talking to a woman ever again. Seriously, the ONE time I do and I just misunderstand EVERYTHING she does.

OVER FOR US IQLETS.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

goes both ways

modern foid thinks every interaction you have with them is an attempt to get sex

 

[Zeuxx]

goes both ways

modern foid thinks every interaction you have with them is an attempt to get sex

And how inaccurate is that? a lot of men only talk to women for sex, people have entire relationships merely for the sex,

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

And how inaccurate is that? a lot of men only talk to women for sex, people have entire relationships merely for the sex,

in a pub or nightclub its normal to assume that. but it gets hella annoying when every bitch in uni or workplace thinks you are gonna ask them to fuck just because you're engaging in a conversation

 

[Zeuxx]

in a pub or nightclub its normal to assume that. but it gets hella annoying when every bitch in uni or workplace thinks you are gonna ask them to fuck just because you're engaging in a conversation

Yeah true, I’ll be talking to a subhuman merely for the sake of class stuff and they get all weird because I’m a guy, they immediately think like u said, that they wanna fuck

 

[DoctorPMA]

intense eye contact which I assumed were her wanting to look me in the eyes,

you have to learn how to read body language. You are probably leaving some details out because there is no way you cant pick up on ques and tell a difference between girl wanting you and running away from you to another school

 

[Zeuxx]

you have to learn how to read body language. You are probably leaving some details out because there is no way you cant pick up on ques and tell a difference between girl wanting you and running away from you to another school

Moving class, but the thing is I’m pretty sure she wanted to make me not feel bad so yeah idek man maybe I’m iqlet who knows

 

[Whatever]

This is mostly true. But after you’ve experienced being a girl’s real choice I promise you’ll be able to tell the difference between that and friendliness. It’s unmistakable, no amount of “autism” or low IQ would cause you to miss it.

And then the next step is to tell the difference between that embodied interest and an actual sexual opportunity, sometimes there’s stuff in the way.

But also there have been other studies that say that men overestimating women’s interest in them is beneficial, basically that it’s better to be rejected than to miss an opportunity, we evolved that way. Thinking that you’re a subhuman or I’d say even being conscious of your flaws is an energy/aura drain that’s a massive negative unless it’s only temporary and you’re doing something about it.

 

[Zeuxx]

This is mostly true. But after you’ve experienced being a girl’s real choice I promise you’ll be able to tell the difference between that and friendliness. It’s unmistakable, no amount of “autism” or low IQ would cause you to miss it.

And then the next step is to tell the difference between that embodied interest and an actual sexual opportunity, sometimes there’s stuff in the way.

But also there have been other studies that say that men overestimating women’s interest in them is beneficial, basically that it’s better to be rejected than to miss an opportunity, we evolved that way. Thinking that you’re a subhuman or I’d say even being conscious of your flaws is an energy/aura drain that’s a massive negative unless it’s only temporary and you’re doing something about it.

Whilst somewhat true I just cannot agree on the rejected>ignored part, yes it’s good to atleast try but you are left feeling like shit especially if it’s repeated. IMO you should really just be focused on yourself, it’ll make you happier and possibly if you work on your habits and health and whatnot you’ll probably become more attractive anyways

 

[Firstname.Lastname]

Foids say one thing do the exact other, news at 11.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

This is mostly true. But after you’ve experienced being a girl’s real choice I promise you’ll be able to tell the difference between that and friendliness. It’s unmistakable, no amount of “autism” or low IQ would cause you to miss it.

i cant. im mentalcel

girl has to put her tongue inside my mouth to confirm

 

[Whatever]

Whilst somewhat true I just cannot agree on the rejected>ignored part, yes it’s good to atleast try but you are left feeling like shit especially if it’s repeated. IMO you should really just be focused on yourself, it’ll make you happier and possibly if you work on your habits and health and whatnot you’ll probably become more attractive anyways

The study didn’t say rejected > ignored, I wouldn’t agree with that either. It said rejected > missed opportunity.

For “working on yourself” to justify not interacting with girls, you need some major IRL failo that leaves a lot of room for improvement like being overweight, very bad skin, malocclusion, speech or odor issues. I don’t mean cold approach, but getting into the right social circles can do more for you than even a 2 or 3 point looks ascension.

 

[Whatever]

i cant. im mentalcel

girl has to put her tongue inside my mouth to confirm

What about if you’re at a club and she comes up and grinds on you? Sometimes you need to be in the right place for it but like I said, it’s unmistakable.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

What about if you’re at a club and she comes up and grinds on you? Sometimes you need to be in the right place for it but like I said, it’s unmistakable.

yeah it has to be pretty obvious for me to act on it



just iois i will be unsure