Male VS female perspective on Tinder and Hinge

[Lars]

That's a lot for someone younger than me. I'm 24 and I have a laycount of 1 (the girl wasn't a nice person so I broke up with her)
So I'm guessing you'd be at 16 by May.
How attractive are these foids?

yeah but tbh i dont even care about bodycount i prefer 1 very goodlooking GF over 100 bodycount now i am just having a little bit fun here and there

 

[Xangsane]

yeah but tbh i dont even care about bodycount i prefer 1 very goodlooking GF over 100 bodycount now i am just having a little bit fun here and there

By very good looking what PSL/looks level are you talking about?
I'm rated chadlite most frequently, and ideally I'd like a HTB/low Stacylite.

 

[Lars]

By very good looking what PSL/looks level are you talking about?

high appeal, so really nice body and good face 5.5psl and up and my type is brown or black hair with colored eyes

 

[Xangsane]

high appeal, so really nice body and good face 5.5psl and up and my type is brown or black hair with colored eyes

Would you like me to be very honest with you?

 

[Lars]

Would you like me to be very honest with you?

yes

 

[Xangsane]

yes

You're gonna have a hard time finding these women, unless if you're an Instagram influencer, TikToker or model. These women you mentioned are extremely hypergamous and also value status.
I'd suggest you look for women 5 PSL or up, as a more realistic target. 5.5 PSL and up is asking for too much unless you are statusmaxxed with a good education.

On average, I've been rated about 5.5 PSL, and ideally, I'd like a 4.5 - 5.25 PSL foid.

 

[Lars]

You're gonna have a hard time finding these women, unless if you're an Instagram influencer, TikToker or model. These women you mentioned are extremely hypergamous and also value status.
I'd suggest you look for women 5 PSL or up, as a more realistic target. 5.5 PSL and up is asking for too much.

On average, I've been rated about 5.5 PSL, and ideally, I'd like a 4.5 - 5.25 PSL foid.

i know thats why i am fame maxxing rn soon i will have her she is hot af i am aiming for

 

[Xangsane]

i know thats why i am fame maxxing rn soon i will have her she is hot af i am aiming for

Still, I think you're asking for too much, just to tell you some home truths.
I'm not asking you to look for ugly women, 5 PSL isn't ugly at all. But 5.5 PSL foids who are fine without a famemaxxed person are rare, unless if that foid is looking for a statusmaxxed betabuxxer.

 

[Lars]

Still, I think you're asking for too much, just to tell you some home truths.
I'm not asking you to look for ugly women, 5 PSL isn't ugly at all. But 5.5 PSL foids who are fine without a famemaxxed person are rare, unless if that foid is looking for a statusmaxxed betabuxxer.

true tho i would also settle with a 5psl and her personality needs to be nice ngl but for now i am just having fun with enjoying the moment

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Still, I think you're asking for too much, just to tell you some home truths.
I'm not asking you to look for ugly women, 5 PSL isn't ugly at all. But 5.5 PSL foids who are fine without a famemaxxed person are rare, unless if that foid is looking for a statusmaxxed betabuxxer.

Just be looksmatched?

 

[Xangsane]

true tho i would also settle with a 5psl and her personality needs to be nice ngl

Don't see being with a 5PSL foid as "settling" - this is more than enough for even Chadlites with female hypergamy taken into account.

 

[Xangsane]

Just be looksmatched?

Yeah, honestly he's asking for way too much especially in regards to female hypergamy.

 

[Lars]

Don't see being with a 5PSL foid as "settling" - this is more than enough for even Chadlites with female hypergamy taken into account.

yeah, dont search for love it will come if you look alright

 

[Xangsane]

yeah, dont search for love it will come if you look alright

True, but I still see your way of thinking is wishful and not realistic.

 

[Lars]

Yeah, honestly he's asking for way too much especially in regards to female hypergamy.

true tho they easily attract milionairs, famous people aka they know they are more worth because looks

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Yeah, honestly he's asking for way too much especially in regards to female hypergamy.

He’s above 5 psl and has a good pheno I’m sure he could get the exact same in his ltr. He’s not autistic like you either

 

[Xangsane]

true tho they easily attract milionairs, famous people aka they know they are more worth because looks

Yes; a 5.75 PSL foid with a hot body would much rather go with a HTN millionaire athlete than just some Chad software engineer.

 

[Lars]

Yes; a 5.75 PSL foid with a hot body would much rather go with a millionaire athlete than just some Chad software engineer.

100%

 

[Xangsane]

He’s above 5 psl and has a good pheno I’m sure he could get the exact same in his ltr. He’s not autistic like you either

Yes but he's asking for a 5.5 PSL foid, and believes a 5 PSL foid is "settling".

 

[Xangsane]

100%

There you go. Just giving you some home truths.

 

[Lars]

There you go. Just giving you some home truths.

yeahh i totally agree with you! i already had that mindset thats why i am also fame maxxing rn trippling my SMV

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Yes but he's asking for a 5.5 PSL foid, and believes a 5 PSL foid is "settling".

What if he becomes 6 psl?

 

[Xangsane]

yeahh i totally agree with you! i already had that mindset thats why i am also fame maxxing rn trippling my SMV

Still wishful thinking but I hope it goes well for you.

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Yes but he's asking for a 5.5 PSL foid, and believes a 5 PSL foid is "settling".

But this is true. True true true

 

[Xangsane]

What if he becomes 6 psl?

Guys above 6 PSL often date other female models or TikTokers.

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Guys above 6 PSL often date other female models or TikTokers.

This is what I’m going to do tbh inshallah

 

[Xangsane]

yeahh i totally agree with you! i already had that mindset thats why i am also fame maxxing rn trippling my SMV

There's a reason why this guy married a MTB:

Her personality was good and they were compatible

 

[mulattomaxxer]

an app for relationships. Men lie about their intentions every single time and go where all the women are to use them. I want a relationship, a LTR, and I make sure I imply or state it on my bio. RE-LA-TION-SHIP. Not a hookup or an FwB, but a RE-LA-TION-SHIP. Men looking for casual should fuck off back to Tinder or Bumble. I even report profiles looking for casual, because Hinge is for RELATIONSHIPS, not hookups or FwBs.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Dating app from my perspective
Zero

It it bcz even brown girls prefer white or black guys ?

 

[Xangsane]

 

[Lars]

There's a reason why this guy married a MTB:
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Her personality was good and they were compatible

tbh personality > looks imo for a gf ofc she needs to look good that i am attracted to her but i prefer a MTB or HTB with an amazing personality over a boring stacy

 

[Xangsane]

tbh personality > looks imo for a gf ofc she needs to look good that i am attracted to her but i prefer a MTB or HTB with an amazing personality over a boring stacy

The foids with the best personalities are often MTNs - very low end Stacylites.
What do you rate this guy?

 

[geezcel]

Yes, on Hinge you'd have to lie about your intentions or try and make your bio seem LTR-oriented since most women go on Hinge to look for an LTR, especially those above 25.

not my experience tbh, fair amount of girls that want ons on there. my bio or profile implies I’m casual too
n the hinge subreddit will skew toward desperate ltr 25+ women way cos it’s full of weird birds, no normal attractive 18-25 girl goes on that aspie site

 

[Lars]

The foids with the best personalities are often MTNs - very low end Stacylites.
What do you rate this guy?

prettyboy chadlite , so same appeal as chad but he lacks the very last things to be fully chad

 

[Xangsane]

not my experience tbh, fair amount of girls that want ons on there. my bio or profile implies I’m casual too
n the hinge subreddit will skew toward desperate ltr 25+ women way cos it’s full of weird birds, no normal attractive 18-25 girl goes on that aspie site

Indeed I checked the profiles of the women who left these comments and every single one of them were over 25:

How do you ensure your profile is casual?

 

[Xangsane]

prettyboy chadlite , so same appeal as chad but he lacks the very last things to be fully chad

Would sandtax apply to him? (mixed ashkenazi/MENA jew)
What things does he lack, PSL?

 

[Lars]

Would sandtax apply to him? (ashkenazi/MENA jew)

nahh

 

[Xangsane]

nahh

PSL?

 

[Lars]

PSL?

bad at rating that why i just say chad chadlite above average or normie but psl isnt everything he has nice hair and a good tan so that adds appeal

 

[Xangsane]

bad at rating that why i just say chad chadlite above average or normie but psl isnt everything he has nice hair and a good tan so that adds appeal

Same guy btw. Rate him here:

 

[Xangsane]

Surprised this wasn't @thecel

 

[geezcel]

Indeed I checked the profiles of the women who left these comments and every single one of them were over 25:
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How do you ensure your profile is casual?

one word answers to prompts, don’t be cringe and take it srs, photos of u drinking, out with mates, on holiday, show off your body etc
frame yourself and your profile in a way that makes a girl thing you’re a fuckboy essentially
this only works if you have a certain level of looks ofc. and chads don’t need to worry about this shit anything works for them

 

[thecel]

What about men looking for LTRs?

 

[Xangsane]

one word answers to prompts, don’t be cringe and take it srs, photos of u drinking, out with mates, on holiday, show off your body etc
frame yourself and your profile in a way that makes a girl thing you’re a fuckboy essentially
this only works if you have a certain level of looks ofc. and chads don’t need to worry about this shit anything works for them

What looks level are you?

 

[Xangsane]

What about men looking for LTRs?

Most aren't looking for LTRs on apps; they do this to trap women.

 

[geezcel]

What looks level are you?

low chadlite maybe mid when I’m tanned
probs gonzalo level, good features and harmony but not enough bone

 

[thecel]

low chadlite maybe mid when I’m tanned
probs gonzalo level, good features and harmony but not enough bone

wdym Gonzalo level? Gonzalo Lira (Coach Red Pill)?

 

[Xangsane]

wdym Gonzalo level? Gonzalo Lira (Coach Red Pill)?

Yes.

 

[Xangsane]

low chadlite maybe mid when I’m tanned
probs gonzalo level, good features and harmony but not enough bone

you look like him?

 

[StrangerDanger]

have you ever ran a siouxsie siox tinder experiment