LordNorwood
This Too Shall Pass
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I know, or know of so many men who are nearing their 30s or even past and haven't had a serious relationship. Most of them just work and vidya and spend time with their extended family when obligated. They are all low PSL, some have potential and some don't, but its over for them mentally. I can't imagine these guys suddenly getting their mentality together and trying to date for the first time.
An acquaintance I know at church was telling me about the uncle of his wife who had killed himself recently. He dropped a brutal blackpill: "Yeah well he didn't have a wife or even really a career, he hadn't achieved much..." looking at his face and reading between the lines, I could tell he thought the suicide was neither a big surprise or a big loss.
Its over for many women too. I know a good amount of women who are unmarried at 35+, and they have a complex about it. Its over for both, but its more over for them tbh. Men can still get married at 35 or even 40 and have a normal family. For women, that is a near impossibility. And yet no one tells them this. Instead, they just don't talk about it, even though we all know its over.
In the past when young people got to a certain age without marrying they would be pushed to marry. Dates would be arranged, the parents would try to find a nice young man or young woman for their son or daughter. They would fret and worry if their child reached even their mid twenties without a marriage prospect.
Nowadays what we do instead is just act like it isn't an issue and wait for the person to inevitably blow their own head off. Because everyone knows that missing out on this crucial part of life will eventually ruin a person. But our culture is so fucked that the standard procedure is to simply act like nothing is wrong.
An acquaintance I know at church was telling me about the uncle of his wife who had killed himself recently. He dropped a brutal blackpill: "Yeah well he didn't have a wife or even really a career, he hadn't achieved much..." looking at his face and reading between the lines, I could tell he thought the suicide was neither a big surprise or a big loss.
Its over for many women too. I know a good amount of women who are unmarried at 35+, and they have a complex about it. Its over for both, but its more over for them tbh. Men can still get married at 35 or even 40 and have a normal family. For women, that is a near impossibility. And yet no one tells them this. Instead, they just don't talk about it, even though we all know its over.
In the past when young people got to a certain age without marrying they would be pushed to marry. Dates would be arranged, the parents would try to find a nice young man or young woman for their son or daughter. They would fret and worry if their child reached even their mid twenties without a marriage prospect.
Nowadays what we do instead is just act like it isn't an issue and wait for the person to inevitably blow their own head off. Because everyone knows that missing out on this crucial part of life will eventually ruin a person. But our culture is so fucked that the standard procedure is to simply act like nothing is wrong.