Max amount of dates your potential gf may have gone to?

[Deleted member 89841]

Relationship question here. I'm (20M) seeing this girl (19F) who is a virgin and kissed only one manlet when they were 17. Nevertheless, she went on SO many dates, like cinema or dinner, with different guys from her city. Considering each failed ex leaves a toll on the girl and makes her less able to wholeheartedly love someone in the future, what would you make of ~12 failed dates if she keeps no contact with them whatsoever? Is she still a potential gf?

 

[Deleted member 89841]

She told me (when we were just friends, had no need to lie) that all she did was talk, but wouldn't ever kiss or do anything to any of them. Still, that's a large number.