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How to ascend during high school and puberty years
Just hoping to help out some of the younger folks here, since I also was accused of being a .com foid Jfl
I’ll show you I’m not tho through my life testimonyA little about myself, I’m 22 now; when I was 14 I moved states and schools and was mogged and borderline shocked at the kids I saw, the first year there I was basically a mute, even tho I had people and girls adding me on insta/snap, but I had way too much social anxiety, I was a framecel (5.8 125lbs, with bad wrists and skinnyfat) I’m mixed black and white but Pheno wise I look arab, and this was a PWI (predominantly white institution) I was at, my parents were lowkey strict, you know typical immigrants, and I basically couldn’t have much of a social life during formative years, even tho kids liked me and wanted to hang out, I’m not here to flex that tho, when I was at the new school I basically got depressed because i thought I would rot away during crucial years, I didn’t know about the BP, this forum, or stuff like that, I always knew better looking people were treated better, I wasn’t much of an outcast, in fact in the the beginning of sophomore year I was brought into a group that had lot of clout, but my corny self at the time jester maxxed sm, and thought it was the only way I could stick around, especially since I didn’t have a group before, so I basically spend that year hanging out and being a punch bag, as they all height and frame mogged me
Junior year had came and I basically got into the redpill and started working, gym, and grew out my hair, and basically had my first official “glow up” so going into the start of the year I basically got some respect finally and I finally got IOI’s and all of a sudden it was like I was the new kid again and the first couple years didn’t matter, but then covid happened and then senior year was online, but I was able to garner enough clout, connections, and status to basically make something of me, but I still wish I could have done more with the knowledge I have now, so that those years from 14-15 didn’t feel wasted, so I’m basically making a guide on what I wish I did as soon as I moved, because I didn’t feel like i maximized my puberty, (and btw now I’m 6 foot and 170lbs, with a 22 inch bidelt, and 28 inch waist) again, maybe yall will say “water”, but even if one person reads this and garners inspiration that’s all I care for
1. Workout
I know the anti gym community will be here and I understand, but the reason most of my friends had better frames then me is because they started lifting at 13/14, I tried to go to the gym a couple times with my dad when I was 14, but again with a bad frame I was insecure and just stopped, and wouldn’t touch the weights until I was 16 but even then I didn’t know shit about diet and sleep which will be my next point. If you work on your body at that age you can release more growth hormone because you will hopefully eat better, and also people will less likely pick on you.
2. Diet
I know this will be water, but I’ll say for me, I ate Mostly sugars, wheat products, and even feel for the vegan shame for that summer going into year 2, which I know stunted me, l looked even worse then before, and had bad acne and dandruff, in a time where I shoulda been outside and eating better, I was at the house all day, playing Fortnite, sometimes I would play bball at the local gym, I tried curling like 15s at the weight section and this guy came up to me and told me to drop the weight jfl
. Looking back on that time I would have immediately started eating animal based, meats, eggs, Ect, and push myself to lift even if it was a couple times a week, I would have never even thought to touch plant milk, tbh I know I had chromatically low T, and this teacher showed some pro vegan movie and ofc I felt bad
, you’re still in your growth phase hopefully so maximize it, I’m thankfully taller then both my parents and by 16 I’d say you should be too, if your parents feed you mush either talk to them or make and learn how to cook yourself3. Archetype Maxx
You don’t need to necessarily fashion maxx like I did, (Jfl I was ina redpill cope) since there’s no fashion for your face, but in terms of appearance, finding the right hairstyle and color scheme of clothes that you like, never peacock, if u have facial hair either clean shave or very light stubble and or stache/tee combo, never a full beard unless you truly wanna ethnic maxx, or are a tall farm boy of some sort, for me I’m fortunate to have long curly hair, so year 3 I had the typical zoomer broccoli cut, but it gave me halo since i naturally can have it and not have to perm, so i basically rocked the Pretty boy look and it gave positive ROI
4. Join a sport
I know this is gonna be be like wtf, but year 3 I joined a no cut sport and it was great for networking, and I also wanted to improve myself ina way, most teams have mandatory team lifts, and will teach you about nutrition, plus the activity can help with growth, plus it gives you something to do if you’re not gonna work or study after school, if you’re good and take it very seriously you can hopefully get a college scholarship, which is status maxx af, I wish I would have tried football, especially since where I was at is good opportunity for it, plus just being on a team kicks u up a few points in status imo
5. Study and sleep maxx
Short and easy obviously sleep is important but seriously I know most would rather coom or play the game late, but tbh if you’re playing video games with your mates it’s not the worst thing, but if you’re younger you need sleep for GH signals
As for study, my gpa was good, but I know most yall don’t care about school, but it doesn’t take much to get good grades which in Turn can help give a scholarship if you take the college route, but also makes you deemed worthy and tbh if u struggle in a class and have a girl that likes you, she may try to help you
6. Have a plan after school
As for me, I went to school After but it wasn’t a large school, I wish I went to a big 4 year where I could network and experience new people, if you don’t do that work somewhere even if it’s part time and save $, maybe for surgeries or so, maybe look into trades, or something, but don’t NEET, the time will fly and eventually people will surpass or even forget you, but once u figure out yourself in high school, capitalize those years from 18-22, you can still meet people, meet girls who might be innocent maybe like yourself if you are, but once that window closes, it’s harder and you’re competing with men from all sorts of looks, money, status, Ect, as I’m seeing first hand
7. Sneaking around your parents (ETHNIC SPERMS GTFIH!)
If your parents don’t even know if you woke up today this won’t apply to you, but this is for those with neurotic and or narcissistic parents, don’t let them nerf you during teen years, don’t let them gaslight you about studying or how that “girls are haram”
jflYes I had good moments with my buds, and I had a group that was mixed with boys and girls, but I still had memories I could had had, especially with some girls and all because I was a low T cel and didn’t think to sneak around them, if they kick you out it’s one thing, but I doubt they would physically kill you if you leave the house if you try to go to a girl or party or something, you don’t want to be seen as someone with strict parents because then folks will invite you to less things
7. Sneaking parents PT. 2
I Do wish I did HGH or some type of steroid, of course my parents would have thrown it out, I’m sure some of yours would as well, but if u can manage, your future self will thank you, most of us have blue pill parents who could get a job simply shaking the boss’s hand, and didn’t have to deal with Tinder and mass hypergamy, this is 2026, 90% of the stuff they say should be in one ear and out the other
8. Don’t be mad at others or feel mogged as long as you are working on you and looking to physically develop
You shouldn’t be 13 saying its over because you aren’t as tall or cool as some of the other dudes in your school, again this is preparing for the rest of your life, max out your development
9. Get your heart broken earlier
If you’re younger it’s better, the older you get it’ll feel worse, if you’re a pure slayer and or F boy, why are you even here lol, ofc this won’t apply to you
10. Figure out your flaws and go accordingly
If you’re still developing u can figure it out and fix it, but I didn’t realize the flaws I had till I was 21, again I’ve known about the BP and LM, but thought I could “power of positivity” my way around it jfl
plus if you’re younger you can try to save to hardmaxx and get a head start11. Get your info from here and go about
your day
Don’t rot on here or other forums thinking it’s helpless especially if you’re under 18, find some mates and have some fun and just try to enjoy life, I know it sounds like copium but don’t knock it till you try it
LONG STORY SHORT, If you’re under 18 just be calm and do the right steps for yourself
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