Me and my boy are now competing for the same girl

[darkness97]

update to the story nobody gives a fuck about. except @Scammer

despite all the evidence that suggests that she is attracted to me i seriously don't think that she is. I think she can see through me and sees that i try to make her jealous, and am in love with her. What did she expect lol. my tyrone buddy was miserable all week when i was flirting with her, and after i was mean to her he was being supportive but still very miserable.

Today he was in a really, really good mood and finally admitted to liking this girl. Something happened between them today. The girl then messaged me late at night to ask if the gift she got him for his birthday was good. I think that this either means nothing or that she was subtly stabbing me. I tilt more towards her just not liking either of us. this whole thing is pathetic as fuck and now i can understand why male-female friendships tend to be avoided.

I like this girl genuinely and I find myself imaging a future with her as a successful man. the reality of it is, no matter how much success i amass there is nothing that will change how she truly feels about me. Her friend on the other hand is a girl i could never be attracted to. No matter how hard i try to talk to her and get to know i simply can't change how i feel towards her.


IRL relationships are a pain in the fucking ass as a sub-chad. I have taken a break from this site for awhile and devoted a lot of my time to just talking to these people. Sure i enjoyed it for the majority of the time but nothing has brought me more sadness than this unrequited love. Why must i always fall for women who I know wouldn't like me back?

I don't want success in life, i don't really want anything more than this one girl. and no matter what i do i will never have her. I just have to focus on my work and will fall for someone else in a couple of days.

FUAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The number one reason why i think she doesn't like me is because when we were alone together in the car she didn't invite any intimacy. would you say this is right scammer?

 

[BigBiceps]

Lower your standards or lift your looks. You're clearly not up to the task if woman is making all her effort to make you fail. When girl truly likes you there's no uncertainty, she'll remove all the obstacles between you two.

 

[AlexBrown84]

If you are what you say you are,

Check 2 one 2

Did you improve on a design did you do something new

I battle with it well

I need a holiday well

If you are what you say you are,

A superstar

Then have no fear

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And the microphones

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Nvm

 

[darkness97]

Lower your standards or lift your looks. You're clearly not up to the task if woman is making all her effort to make you fail. When girl truly likes you there's no uncertainty, she'll remove all the obstacles between you two.

legit. I am thinking of doing this with her friend and just accept the situation for what it is.

I don't know what you mean by "if women is making all her effort to make you fail" though. I don't think she really did anything to facilitate anything between us. She says thinks like "when are we getting married" calls me "sweetness/handsome" screams every time i dance, and tells me that she watches me all the time.

It is all very confusing but I feel like if i were to confront her she would say no. i think she was only doing this because she saw that i am insecure and was trying to get me to open up. collecting me like another toy to add to he confidence.

But is this just incel logic/insecurity? or reality? I just don't really know and am too afraid, to insecure, and too unattractive to try and find out the truth for myself.

 

[BigBiceps]

legit. I am thinking of doing this with her friend and just accept the situation for what it is.

I don't know what you mean by "if women is making all her effort to make you fail" though. I don't think she really did anything to facilitate anything between us. She says thinks like "when are we getting married" calls me "sweetness/handsome" screams every time i dance, and tells me that she watches me all the time.

It is all very confusing but I feel like if i were to confront her she would say no. i think she was only doing this because she saw that i am insecure and was trying to get me to open up. collecting me like another toy to add to he confidence.

But is this just incel logic/insecurity? or reality? I just don't really know and am too afraid, to insecure, and too unattractive to try and find out the truth for myself.

Wants to hook you into a being orbiter/emotional tampon, I'd say. She probably wouldn't be so upfront even jokingly about marriage with you if she was truly serious about you. In my own experience the girls who've been into me have been easy and low maintenance, if someone gives me mixed signals I just move on and conclude she's not interested. Maybe I've lost some opportunities but imo it's just not worth all the headache and disappointments to deal with girls like that.

 

[Scammer]

update to the story nobody gives a fuck about. except @Scammer

despite all the evidence that suggests that she is attracted to me i seriously don't think that she is. I think she can see through me and sees that i try to make her jealous, and am in love with her. What did she expect lol. my tyrone buddy was miserable all week when i was flirting with her, and after i was mean to her he was being supportive but still very miserable.

Today he was in a really, really good mood and finally admitted to liking this girl. Something happened between them today. The girl then messaged me late at night to ask if the gift she got him for his birthday was good. I think that this either means nothing or that she was subtly stabbing me. I tilt more towards her just not liking either of us. this whole thing is pathetic as fuck and now i can understand why male-female friendships tend to be avoided.

I like this girl genuinely and I find myself imaging a future with her as a successful man. the reality of it is, no matter how much success i amass there is nothing that will change how she truly feels about me. Her friend on the other hand is a girl i could never be attracted to. No matter how hard i try to talk to her and get to know i simply can't change how i feel towards her.


IRL relationships are a pain in the fucking ass as a sub-chad. I have taken a break from this site for awhile and devoted a lot of my time to just talking to these people. Sure i enjoyed it for the majority of the time but nothing has brought me more sadness than this unrequited love. Why must i always fall for women who I know wouldn't like me back?

I don't want success in life, i don't really want anything more than this one girl. and no matter what i do i will never have her. I just have to focus on my work and will fall for someone else in a couple of days.

It seems like u get attached to girls quickly even when u don’t fuck them

The number one reason why i think she doesn't like me is because when we were alone together in the car she didn't invite any intimacy. would you say this is right scammer?

Yea I’ve been in situations like this before, neither of u make a move cause u are high inhibition and the girl is waiting for u to do something, honestly u have to take a deep breath and just go for it, make a move and see what happens, either she tells u that
-she likes u and it works or
-she tells u she likes ur friend and u don’t hang out with her that much anymore and move on or
-she tells u that she doesn’t like either of u and that u are all just friends, and u can also move on from her in this situation

If not then u can just keep hanging out with her and have that anxiety and mix of emotions that she gives u for a while longer but I would say to make a move, even if it’s just asking her out or something

 

[darkness97]

It seems like u get attached to girls quickly even when u don’t fuck them


Yea I’ve been in situations like this before, neither of u make a move cause u are high inhibition and the girl is waiting for u to do something, honestly u have to take a deep breath and just go for it, make a move and see what happens, either she tells u that
-she likes u and it works or
-she tells u she likes ur friend and u don’t hang out with her that much anymore and move on or
-she tells u that she doesn’t like either of u and that u are all just friends, and u can also move on from her in this situation

If not then u can just keep hanging out with her and have that anxiety and mix of emotions that she gives u for a while longer but I would say to make a move, even if it’s just asking her out or something

Thank you for this brother. What i should do now seems really clear to me. I will just distance myself from the group to focus on myself so i literally don't wither away from being around them too much. The marriage comment seems legit, i don't think she would openly say that to a guy she was actually attracted to. my instincts are screaming that she isn't interested, but my heart doesn't want to listen.

I will do what I have to and thankyou brother. I seriously appreciate this.

 

[Frank Jack]

 

[Deleted member 16133]

man i used to fight all three of my friends for this becky

you have two options in the end

fuck the girl and lose your friend

keep your friend and lose the girl

luckily I lost the girl and kept the friends which ended up ditching me when I joined looksmax two years ago

its up to you what choice will you make?

 

[Scammer]

Thank you for this brother. What i should do now seems really clear to me. I will just distance myself from the group to focus on myself so i literally don't wither away from being around them too much. The marriage comment seems legit, i don't think she would openly say that to a guy she was actually attracted to. my instincts are screaming that she isn't interested, but my heart doesn't want to listen.

I will do what I have to and thankyou brother. I seriously appreciate this.

Yea if u distance yourself from her then it will make it clear if she likes u, she will find ways to hang out with u cause she wants to be with u but if she views u as a friend she won’t put in that much effort to talk with u again

Also the marriage thing could be a joke cause girls that like guys usually aren’t that forward but maybe she is down for a sort of fwb situation

 

[fuggg]

didnt read a single word

 

[Deleted member 17027]

didnt read a single word

not one nigga on earth cares nigga shut the fuck up then

naw infact u read everyword bitch ass nigga and ur jelous as shit rn over some post shut the fuck up nigga

u got post cucked or someshit with ur retarded ass brain

loser