Meeting girls irl might actually be obsolete tbh

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I am ded srs beginning to think online dating apps really are the only way mostly. So many fewer people go out to bars and clubs these days and when girls do they often go out with their friends to have fun, not meet a guy. This is my observation of the situation. I may be wrong but I don’t think I am.
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it’s over
 
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you really are disillusioned about the world my friend
 
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yea it’s fucking the standards too all everyone knows about is tiktok slayers and ig social media influencers

over
 
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I am ded srs beginning to think online dating apps really are the only way mostly. So many fewer people go out to bars and clubs these days and when girls do they often go out with their friends to have fun, not meet a guy. This is my observation of the situation. I may be wrong but I don’t think I am.
Yes, you're right, more and more stuff is now happening online, I see teens who go out in bars, restaurants, clubs, etc. and they are permanently glued to their phones, they don't even bother to talk to each other, when they can send messages, they only go out so they can take some selfies and tag the location and event on their social media, real life is becoming less and less relevant...
 
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thats why face is so important and why twinks can slay

no one can see ur height or frame on tinder/snapchat selfies
 
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Yes Covid has sped up the entire online dating situation it is over for all of us.
 
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I am ded srs beginning to think online dating apps really are the only way mostly. So many fewer people go out to bars and clubs these days and when girls do they often go out with their friends to have fun, not meet a guy. This is my observation of the situation. I may be wrong but I don’t think I am.
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@ any other relevant high iq cels here who may have input or perspective

If there was any chance of face to face hook ups not dying, it was effectively killed by Covid.

It is giga-over for anybody that can't get laid through social media now. If rumors about covid vaccines giving males erectile dysfunction are true, then it will soon be even more over for lots of guys.
 
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If there was any chance of face to face hook ups not dying, it was effectively killed by Covid.

It is giga-over for anybody that can't get laid through social media now. If rumors about covid vaccines giving males erectile dysfunction are true, then it will soon be even more over for lots of guys.
Do you have a solution?
 
bars/clubs are just as hypergameous as online-dating from my experience.
 
I am ded srs beginning to think online dating apps really are the only way mostly. So many fewer people go out to bars and clubs these days and when girls do they often go out with their friends to have fun, not meet a guy. This is my observation of the situation. I may be wrong but I don’t think I am.
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I agree with you. I think in 2022-2023 and beyond standards will be increased tremendously.Covid is making everything turn online and by the time everyone is vaccinated it will be around 2022 and most stuff wont go back to normal.
 
If there was any chance of face to face hook ups not dying, it was effectively killed by Covid.

It is giga-over for anybody that can't get laid through social media now. If rumors about covid vaccines giving males erectile dysfunction are true, then it will soon be even more over for lots of guys.
womens standards:
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no shit, that's why we the blackpill is growing even more than ever these "normies " can't bs with girls now lol.
 
no shit, that's why we the blackpill is growing even more than ever these "normies " can't bs with girls now lol.
Jfl normies will NEVER accept the truth. Women will always be able to bullshit them into thinking they have a chance. The elites also have an invested interest in normies staying blupilled, since they need all the bluepill cucks to wageslave for them on the assumption it will eventually get them a woman.
 
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its like shopping why going to the mall and digging through shit before you get what you want when you can just order it on amazon
 
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the only non-online way people meet is social circle, like you go to a party and your friend takes other friends with him etc I rarely see a guy randomly approaching a girl at a bar or nightclub
 
You really think every woman is on a dating app?
 
if you have to look for girls it never began
 
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sad as basically 100% of my lays have come from cold approach in bars, but them days are probably over now since covid

And i'm way too ugly for Tinder lol

So yeah. Rot away, gentlemen!!
 
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I am ded srs beginning to think online dating apps really are the only way mostly. So many fewer people go out to bars and clubs these days and when girls do they often go out with their friends to have fun, not meet a guy. This is my observation of the situation.

No one has been going out to clubs for nearly a year. They're closed in most civilised countries due to the 'vid. Jfl you're 9 months behind the curve.
 
Great that means that the top males will start using online dating hogging all the girls as usual. Chadlites will be the new incel in 2021.
 
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If there was any chance of face to face hook ups not dying, it was effectively killed by Covid.

It is giga-over for anybody that can't get laid through social media now. If rumors about covid vaccines giving males erectile dysfunction are true, then it will soon be even more over for lots of guys.
Idk why this thread came out of nowhere buy yeah I agree with you.If you don't already have social connections via Instagram,Snapchat, or whatever it's over for you.

I think this Covid thing will last around another 2 years due to everyone getting vaccined and even if we all get vaccined we still have to wear masks and etc.
 
bars/clubs are just as hypergameous as online-dating from my experience.
They are but more controllable factors like frame and build play more into who mogs who while in online environments, genetic factors like face dominate far more than frame/height in mogging.
 
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They are but more controllable factors like frame and build play more into who mogs who while in online environments, genetic factors like face dominate far more than frame/height in mogging.
insightful greycel tbh
 
This is nonsense. Right now bars and clubs are dead because of covid. Meeting people in real life and looking through pictures while texting is night and day. Girls would rather meet a guy in real life than some dating app. Many girls are disgusted by dating apps anyways. You meet girls through social circles, school work etc...
 
Girls would rather meet a guy in real life than some dating app.
Only if the guy is Chad, otherwise it's considered harassment, sexual assault and can have serious consequences in this day and age.
 
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Only if the guy is Chad, otherwise it's considered harassment, sexual assault and can have serious consequences in this day and age.
you have to be super careful yes. Because of this I dont even think about cold approaching.
 
I think this Covid thing will last around another 2 years due to everyone getting vaccined and even if we all get vaccined we still have to wear masks and etc.
I think you might be right, but I hope we're wrong!

Everyone seems to think everything will be completely normal by like May, but I think there's a real chance that the new normal will be a very watered down, post covid version of normal. Masks, bouncers in bars making sure you aren't approaching people not in your group, annoying lines and signing in etc just to get in some shit venue etc. All kinds of new safety rules and red tape, sapping all of the fun out of a night out

I'm glad I hit the night scene so hard over the last few years and got a good few lays too, but that might be it for me lol
I don't have a good social circle (just a handful of friends I see regularly who either have girlfriends or who have given up on girls)
And I don't have a job where girls work
And I don't get any matches on tinder at all
So yeah. That's likely me done for good now lol
 
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I think you might be right, but I hope we're wrong!

Everyone seems to think everything will be completely normal by like May, but I think there's a real chance that the new normal will be a very watered down, post covid version of normal. Masks, bouncers in bars making sure you aren't approaching people not in your group, annoying lines and signing in etc just to get in some shit venue etc. All kinds of new safety rules and red tape, sapping all of the fun out of a night out

I'm glad I hit the night scene so hard over the last few years and got a good few lays too, but that might be it for me lol
I don't have a good social circle (just a handful of friends I see regularly who either have girlfriends or who have given up on girls)
And I don't have a job where girls work
And I don't get any matches on tinder at all
So yeah. That's likely me done for good now lol
Whoever thinks anything is gonna get normal by May is wrong. I mean we have to get everyone vaccinated and it is 2 shots.And even if everyone is vaccinated the virus can still float around so we will still have to wear masks.I think a lot of bars and social type setting areas will close down.

But yeah it's most likely over for us.
 

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