Mentalcel trait: everytime you have a social interaction you keep thinking about it later

[Deleted member 6305]

I keep thinking: maybe they judged me
Maybe I was very cringe

 

[New Poster]

You should only be reflecting on how cringe they were

 

[Deleted member 6305]

You should only be reflecting on how cringe they were

They weren't cringe

 

[Deleted member 20890]

Sometimes.

 

[Deleted member 107111]

 

[New Poster]

They weren't cringe

Most people are

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Most people are

 

[Deleted member 17578]

 

[Deleted member 74849]

Would

 

[vanillaicecream]

Yeah it's called social anxiety

 

[zerotohero]

I still think of stupid shit that I said back in 2016.

 

[zerotohero]

I still think of stupid shit that I said back in 2016.

It’s been more than 8 years.

 

[Olympus]

Depends on the interaction. If it was with a well known friend I don’t deep it. But if it was with someone new/ stranger I do think deep into it

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Yeah it's called social anxiety

I have it

 

[e.skimo]

I keep thinking: maybe they judged me
Maybe I was very cringe

I literally do this all the time wtf you’re so right fuckkk

 

[Niko.]

I still wonder what it meant when she bought me ice cream and asked me to walk her home.

 

[e.skimo]

I still wonder what it meant when she bought me ice cream and asked me to walk her home.

She was just being nice. Trust me bro

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

I keep thinking: maybe they judged me
Maybe I was very cringe

i keep thinking about insane IOI JB MTB gave me today

 

[wsada]

Me everytime I have a good social interaction especially with a woman

 

[Deleted member 108804]

I do that all the time

And I always keep thinking if I said something that might lower my reputation

 

[Deleted member 60299]

I keep thinking: maybe they judged me
Maybe I was very cringe

The key is to not fall in the same patters of thought. You are making them conscious, that is, you know you are thinking about the past, but you are torturing yourself which causes suffering. Once you make them conscious, the other step is to simply let them stay there, in your mind. Just pure contemplation of whatever sensations arise. The moment you start judging your thoughts, you suffer.

 

[Niko.]

She was just being nice. Trust me bro

I hope so too because she was giving me clear IOIs. It would be a shame if I let that cute HTB go like that because of my mentalcel

 

[New Poster]

I only dwell on the feeling of facefucking noodles like this

 

[e.skimo]

I hope so too because she was giving me clear IOIs. It would be a shame if I let that cute HTB go like that because of my mentalcel

Honestly as brutal the blackpill is, NTpill hits harder for most people. NT IS LAW

I have trouble even liking a girl atp maybe i’m fucking gay

 

[Deleted member 85787]

you're too high inhib i pulled out a dick on a bus and beat up a foid

 

[Deleted member 55731]

It goes away by its own, you will realize no one cares about you and that you don't really care about them.

 

[Org3cel]

I keep thinking: maybe they judged me
Maybe I was very cringe

Do yk how to stop this? I overthink every single thing