Met a girl on tinder. How do I get a friends with benefit type situation instead of an LTR?

[Zeta ascended]

I set up a tinder account and a psl 3 white girl texted me first. I texted her back and set up a "date" at the end of this week. I want a "friends with benefits"/fuckbuddie type relationship since I'm not ready for an LTR . How do I go about this?

For backstory: She's a psl3 white girl and in one of her photos she's wearing an African shirt. That's how I know she loves black dick. I'm around psl 3.5-4.5 (depending on how I groom my hair).

 

[UltimateMan]

Very easy, I will give you a step by step process
Step 1: be goodlooking

Your welcome

 

[Zeta ascended]

Very easy, I will give you a step by step process
Step 1: be goodlooking

Your welcome

I already meet her basic looks requirements tho. Yeah I know I would have more options if I was some Tyrone.

 

[Deleted member 5969]

I already meet her basic looks requirements tho. Yeah I know I would have more options if I was some Tyrone.

Just ask her on snap

 

[UltimateMan]

I already meet her basic looks requirements tho. Yeah I know I would have more options if I was some Tyrone.

Oh yours black? that helps your situation more ngl, most girls kinda expect that's sort of thing from black guys on Tinder. This site is probably not the best place to ask thou JFL

 

[Zeta ascended]

Update: I set up a date to go to another girl's house to watch a movie. She's a redhead becky and completely mogs the first girl. She's also making me dinner. Need some advice not to fuck this up.

 

[tyronelite]

@MoeZart You got this one

 

[Zeta ascended]

@MoeZart You got this one

Got any first date tips on building sexual tension? Specially for virgin niggas.

 

[Deleted member 11604]

If. You fuck her good, you can have a sexfriend instead of ltr

 

[Deleted member 7098]

I set up a tinder account and a psl 3 white girl texted me first. I texted her back and set up a "date" at the end of this week. I want a "friends with benefits"/fuckbuddie type relationship since I'm not ready for an LTR . How do I go about this?

For backstory: She's a psl3 white girl and in one of her photos she's wearing an African shirt. That's how I know she loves black dick. I'm around psl 3.5-4.5 (depending on how I groom my hair).

@MoeZart You got this one

don't over complicate things.

tell her you're open to anything regarding what you want: that you'd be fine with a friendship, friends with benefits or even a relationship if you guys really like each other (and now important) but that you aren't the type of guy who likes one-night-stands, that you appreciate the connection you have with a girl more than some one time sex experience.

don't be too pushy, but ask her for how long she's been single, what she likes in a guy etc.

if you aren't chad you can't run bad boy, fuckboy game, you have to make her feel good when she's with you, make her laugh, touch her slightly at her tighs/forearm when it's appropriate etc

and now the most important thing:
kiss and fuck her as soon as possible, and if she asks you afterwards what it is that you two have together say "i don't know, but it's beautiful how it is right now, and you enjoy her company"

 

[Deleted member 7098]

Got any first date tips on building sexual tension? Specially for virgin niggas.

make her feel good, make her laugh but don't laugh too much yourself because you don't want to be seen as a clown, a smirk from time to time is way better than laughing out loud the entire time.

keep strong eye contact, touch her when it's appropriate and when you think she's feeling comfortable with you stop talking look her deep in the eyes and go in for the kiss

 

[Zeta ascended]

make her feel good, make her laugh but don't laugh too much yourself because you don't want to be seen as a clown, a smirk from time to time is way better than laughing out loud the entire time.

keep strong eye contact, touch her when it's appropriate and when you think she's feeling comfortable with you stop talking look her deep in the eyes and go in for the kiss

Really appreciate the advice man. I'm definitely gonna have to lie about my social life(or lack therrof). Any tips on that?

 

[Deleted member 7098]

Really appreciate the advice man. I'm definitely gonna have to lie about my social life(or lack therrof). Any tips on that?

make shit up that is hard to verify and KEEP TRACK OF EVERYTHING YOU LIED ABOUT