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Last weekend, we were celebrating one of my friends' birthday at our place, quite a good deal of people there, and out of them there were like 2-3 guys that asides from this birthday friend no one else knew.
I gotta say that, while I'm quite shy at parties unless I'm talked to first (plus my social battery ends up quite fast in these kind of scenarios), I'm rarely regarded as weird as in a contemptuous way (which most of the times, comes down or simply starts because of looks), so I tend to think I do quite good to be this ND, and given that I'm very unsoftmaxxed, I sometimes just daydream about me having a Salludon tier ascension, I look in the mirror and think: "Man, the lock-in is gotta be historical, I'm gonna mog hard as fuck once I reach Chadlite tier".
Little did I expect that meeting one of those new guys would literally slap the shit out of me back to reality...
As expected, I shake hands with everybody in the room, without thinking much, until one of them comes to me to shake my hand, and my brain just reorganizes itself into the new dictated social hierarchy in our living room after seeing him.
This nigga was the spitting second coming of Meeks if he were just a bit shorter and more Caucasian leaning, I could not believe my mind in that moment. Although shocked, given the rarity of the situation, I decided to retract and observe how he would be treated compared to the rest of guys in the room, a legit Chadlite-Chad against a bunch of High LTNs - Low MTNs, as a way of proving my learned and my own lookism-related theses.
Needless to say I was losing my shit a bit without saying a word, since he was the "new" one in the room for most of the people attending the party, everyone was asking him about his job (he works with the military, no comments on this JFL), and there were moments that even felt overwhelming for me, in the sense that he got the entire fucking room on him, if he wanted a smoke there was one or two normies already striking his lighter fighting over whose lighter Chad is gonna choose, pre-loaded laughters just before he was ending his sentences, plus not that he was telling nothing particularly engaging, almost every word and action just landed to him no matter what.
Also, he was sitting right by my friend who was celebrating his birthday, Chad got some good 3 inches of frame on him while being 3 inches shorter.
On top of this, caging at the fact that there were 3 niggas that tried switching the topic or just fucking asked for a slice of pizza or a lighter and got DNRd so hard I could sense their "I'm feeling worthless" aura from the other side of the room. Brutal fucking shit.
While all of this was happening, I just finally realized how me and other people TRULY overrate ourselves, no matter if blackpilled or not, some simply do not possess that much of a perspective to fully grasp how big the gap is between a normie and a Chad, or it's counterpart, a subhuman, until you actually meet one, your worldview gets absolutely dismantled and raped from this experience alone, yet most people still fall to Chad-worshipping because they aren't blackpilled or even conscious enough and just go on with their lives, happily following Chad's lead JFL
The truth is that 98% of people fall within the normie spectrum, and it's styling, charisma, status, among other things that heavily contribute on a celebrity (for example, like DiCaprio) being pushed from HTN territory (objectively, a good-looking normie) to Chadlite-Chad status, where they get worshipped like gods by the rest of normies.
You will most likely NEVER be within Chad territory objectively speaking, ever, but once you are within HTN purely looks-wise and got every other socially fixable trait checked, you are more than set, there's no point in obsessing over your potential given how many normies do well out there being way more fucked than you are, fellow reader.
Do all the looksmaxxes that you need to do, but never expect to have a fucking Captain America type of ascension, JFL at those autist retards thinking they can ascend their way out of the normie spectrum after 3 or more surgeries and roids like they are videogame upgrades.
I'm supposedly within HMTN-LHTN myself based on people's thoughts on this forum and there have been delusional times where I've thought I could ascend more than a whole tier just by softmaxxing and fat-grafts, that I would surpass the Chadlite break soon enough if I got everything right, until I saw the real deal.
Be realistic, fix your falios, fix your mind, and just accept reality as it is and cope your way out of it somehow.
TLDR; I met Chad on a birthday party and the experience made me realize how truly of a normie me and everyone else is
I gotta say that, while I'm quite shy at parties unless I'm talked to first (plus my social battery ends up quite fast in these kind of scenarios), I'm rarely regarded as weird as in a contemptuous way (which most of the times, comes down or simply starts because of looks), so I tend to think I do quite good to be this ND, and given that I'm very unsoftmaxxed, I sometimes just daydream about me having a Salludon tier ascension, I look in the mirror and think: "Man, the lock-in is gotta be historical, I'm gonna mog hard as fuck once I reach Chadlite tier".
Little did I expect that meeting one of those new guys would literally slap the shit out of me back to reality...
As expected, I shake hands with everybody in the room, without thinking much, until one of them comes to me to shake my hand, and my brain just reorganizes itself into the new dictated social hierarchy in our living room after seeing him.
This nigga was the spitting second coming of Meeks if he were just a bit shorter and more Caucasian leaning, I could not believe my mind in that moment. Although shocked, given the rarity of the situation, I decided to retract and observe how he would be treated compared to the rest of guys in the room, a legit Chadlite-Chad against a bunch of High LTNs - Low MTNs, as a way of proving my learned and my own lookism-related theses.
Needless to say I was losing my shit a bit without saying a word, since he was the "new" one in the room for most of the people attending the party, everyone was asking him about his job (he works with the military, no comments on this JFL), and there were moments that even felt overwhelming for me, in the sense that he got the entire fucking room on him, if he wanted a smoke there was one or two normies already striking his lighter fighting over whose lighter Chad is gonna choose, pre-loaded laughters just before he was ending his sentences, plus not that he was telling nothing particularly engaging, almost every word and action just landed to him no matter what.
Also, he was sitting right by my friend who was celebrating his birthday, Chad got some good 3 inches of frame on him while being 3 inches shorter.
On top of this, caging at the fact that there were 3 niggas that tried switching the topic or just fucking asked for a slice of pizza or a lighter and got DNRd so hard I could sense their "I'm feeling worthless" aura from the other side of the room. Brutal fucking shit.
While all of this was happening, I just finally realized how me and other people TRULY overrate ourselves, no matter if blackpilled or not, some simply do not possess that much of a perspective to fully grasp how big the gap is between a normie and a Chad, or it's counterpart, a subhuman, until you actually meet one, your worldview gets absolutely dismantled and raped from this experience alone, yet most people still fall to Chad-worshipping because they aren't blackpilled or even conscious enough and just go on with their lives, happily following Chad's lead JFL
The truth is that 98% of people fall within the normie spectrum, and it's styling, charisma, status, among other things that heavily contribute on a celebrity (for example, like DiCaprio) being pushed from HTN territory (objectively, a good-looking normie) to Chadlite-Chad status, where they get worshipped like gods by the rest of normies.
You will most likely NEVER be within Chad territory objectively speaking, ever, but once you are within HTN purely looks-wise and got every other socially fixable trait checked, you are more than set, there's no point in obsessing over your potential given how many normies do well out there being way more fucked than you are, fellow reader.
Do all the looksmaxxes that you need to do, but never expect to have a fucking Captain America type of ascension, JFL at those autist retards thinking they can ascend their way out of the normie spectrum after 3 or more surgeries and roids like they are videogame upgrades.
I'm supposedly within HMTN-LHTN myself based on people's thoughts on this forum and there have been delusional times where I've thought I could ascend more than a whole tier just by softmaxxing and fat-grafts, that I would surpass the Chadlite break soon enough if I got everything right, until I saw the real deal.
Be realistic, fix your falios, fix your mind, and just accept reality as it is and cope your way out of it somehow.
TLDR; I met Chad on a birthday party and the experience made me realize how truly of a normie me and everyone else is