Might lose my virginity soon. Feeling more depressed then ever

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I've been seeing this new girl I really like. I am attracted to her, she's younger than me, and she has shown high interest. The problem is she is not a virgin. It devasted me when I found out, I would have married her for sure had she been. If I continue to see her I will probably lose my virginity to her but I don't know if I can ever mentally recover.

I regret not losing my virginity sooner maybe then I wouldn't feel this much pain. I feel like ive been cheated on

Will losing my virginity to her help ease the pain?
 
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When an Incel loses his virginity an angel gets castrated.
 
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Do everything with her except losing your virginity
 
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The guilt will eat you up if you lose your virginity to this whore
 
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Just fuck her bro
 
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When an Incel loses his virginity an angel gets castrated.
I thought it would never happen without me paying an escort. If it did I thought it would be the happiest moment of my life
 
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I've been seeing this new girl I really like. I am attracted to her, she's younger than me, and she has shown high interest. The problem is she is not a virgin. It devasted me when I found out, I would have married her for sure had she been. If I continue to see her I will probably lose my virginity to her but I don't know if I can ever mentally recover.

I regret not losing my virginity sooner maybe then I wouldn't feel this much pain. I feel like ive been cheated on

Will losing my virginity to her help ease the pain?
who gaf virgin or not, i'd crack a foid if she had a body or two
 
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Do everything with her except losing your virginity
I am considering this. I have made out with her will probably do more next time, if I do have sex with her and I actually do find a virgin I will regret it so much
 
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who gaf virgin or not, i'd crack a foid if she had a body or two
She has one LTR with a bad boy. He dumped her after doing everything with her and getting bored. I hate guys like this who ruin wives for guys who want LTR's
 
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I am considering this. I have made out with her will probably do more next time, if I do have sex with her and I actually do find a virgin I will regret it so much
Although i wouldn't suggest YOU to do this, here is what I would do:

Do as much as you want to do with her except p in v . She will inevitably ask you after a few days of fucking her to stick your dick inside her. At that moment, change the topic and somehow try to make it obvious that that idea repulses you.

This will shatter her self esteem and she will probably block your ass. (or get really obsessed with you depending on how you look)

That's a good thing as you won't feel like you have an obligation to fuck her. It's also better for your self esteem in the long run as you won't have to stick around with a whore.
 
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bro thats more than fine' i'd even LTR that, how old r u and she?
I am late 20's she is early 20's. I am considering it since I know my chances of finding a virgin or even another girl with only 1 body are extremely low at this age. I told her I was a virgin and she felt really guilty about it so she is down for anything. I imagined this being a dream scenario but its a nightmare, I guess its better then being incel.
 
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Idk how old you are. But assuming you are 16+ I lowkey say just tap that. Cause even at JUST 16 it is going to very hard to find a virgin. And if you are 18+ it's basically impossible.
 
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Although i wouldn't suggest YOU to do this, here is what I would do:

Do as much as you want to do with her except p in v . She will inevitably ask you after a few days of fucking her to stick your dick inside her. At that moment, change the topic and somehow try to make it obvious that that idea repulses you.

This will shatter her self esteem and she will probably block your ass. (or get really obsessed with you depending on how you look)

That's a good thing as you won't feel like you have an obligation to fuck her. It's also better for your self esteem in the long run as you won't have to stick around with a whore.
I can tell she is highly attracted to me so it would probably devastate her. I would actually feel bad but it definitely would help my self esteem
 
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She has one LTR with a bad boy. He dumped her after doing everything with her and getting bored. I hate guys like this who ruin wives for guys who want LTR's
Nah nah don't lose your virginity to this one man.

She has chad induced trauma. She 100% WILL become toxic to you over time. You will always be seen as less worthy compared to her Chad ex if you get into anything remotely serious with her
 
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I can tell she is highly attracted to me so it would probably devastate her. I would actually feel bad but it definitely would help my self esteem
Focus on YOURSELF.

If improving your self esteem has to come at the cost of some whore's confidence, DO it.
 
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I am late 20's she is early 20's. I am considering it since I know my chances of finding a virgin or even another girl with only 1 body are extremely low at this age. I told her I was a virgin and she felt really guilty about it so she is down for anything. I imagined this being a dream scenario but its a nightmare, I guess its better then being incel.
only chance to slay and ltr and turn ur life around, looksmax and get her like ur life depends on it lil nigga
 
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Nah nah don't lose your virginity to this one man.

She has chad induced trauma. She 100% WILL become toxic to you over time. You will always be seen as less worthy compared to her Chad ex if you get into anything remotely serious with her
He is a drug addict working minimum wage jobs. I dont know how he even got her
 
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only chance to slay and ltr and turn ur life around, looksmax and get her like ur life depends on it lil nigga
If I was not a virgin I would marry with no hesitation. I almost feel like going to see a prostitute but even that wouldn't be the same. I would need an STR with a girl I actually like to feel even, thats just not possible to do without her finding out.
 
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He is a drug addict working minimum wage jobs. I dont know how he even got her
Looks, height and drug addict appeal is a very real phenomenon.

My oneitis- yes THE girl because of whom I have been chronically depressed for the past 2 years- was swooning over a drug addict CL.

She was a virgin at that time. There is zero chance she is a virgin now.

Drug addicts have appeal because they're not "boring". They don't follow social norms and because he is most definitely a good looking guy, it is a big halo.
 
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Looks, height and drug addict appeal is a very real phenomenon.

My oneitis- yes THE girl because of whom I have been chronically depressed for the past 2 years- was swooning over a drug addict CL.

She was a virgin at that time. There is zero chance she is a virgin now.

Drug addicts have appeal because they're not "boring". They don't follow social norms and because he is most definitely a good looking guy, it is a big halo.
Do you still want her, knowing that she is not a virgin?
 
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Do you still want her, knowing that she is not a virgin?
I still really love her. I spend most nights crying and thinking about her dumbass even after 2.5 years.

But I can't see myself being in a genuine relationship with her anymore even if she was to magically spawn in my dms

Ive been too badly mentally scarrred by her that it's impossible for me to visualise a happy period of my life with her anymore.

Moreover she is not a virgin.

One thing I've noticed from the other girls from my school that have lost their virginity is that they will NEVER forget the guy who they lost their virginity to.

That person will forever hold a special place in her heart. Looks dont even matter here.

The LTN that took her virginity will always be more valuable to her than the HTN that she fucked after him. Most people on this website will disagree with this, but it's the truth.
 
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I still really love her. I spend most nights crying and thinking about her dumbass even after 2.5 years.

But I can't see myself being in a genuine relationship with her anymore even if she was to magically spawn in my dms

Ive been too badly mentally scarrred by her that it's impossible for me to visualise a happy period of my life with her anymore.

Moreover she is not a virgin.

One thing I've noticed from the other girls from my school that have lost their virginity is that they will NEVER forget the guy who they lost their virginity to.

That person will forever hold a special place in her heart. Looks dont even matter here.

The LTN that took her virginity will always be more valuable to her than the HTN that she fucked after him. Most people on this website will disagree with this, but it's the truth.
That is brutal. Those are the same thoughts that I have had and why felt like I was stabbed in the chest when I found out.
 
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ken ma boi never lose it yu unnerstan
 
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i like serbia country so you?
 
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I thought it would never happen without me paying an escort. If it did I thought it would be the happiest moment of my life
So you'll fuck a prostitute whore but not a girl you're dating that is younger than you, you're attracted to and she is highly interested in you? Get over the excessive puritan mindset, we live in a fallen world. Have sex with your girlfriend and stop hating her because she had sex.

You are likely not the high level chad that will get the virgin young girl.

edit: lmao she has been with ONE guy and you're freaking out dude that is nothing. You're 28 on looksmax org and you've got a girl that has had one relationship in her life and now she likes you a lot. Go for it dude. Don't let bitter people try and convince you to sabotage what could be a good thing. Go for it. Let go of the hate in this instance.
 
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i like georgia and bagrat
thank u have u been to georgia? its nice
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Do not
 
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So you'll fuck a prostitute whore but not a girl you're dating that is younger than you, you're attracted to and she is highly interested in you? Get over the excessive puritan mindset, we live in a fallen world. Have sex with your girlfriend and stop hating her because she had sex.

You are likely not the high level chad that will get the virgin young girl.

edit: lmao she has been with ONE guy and you're freaking out dude that is nothing. You're 28 on looksmax org and you've got a girl that has had one relationship in her life and now she likes you a lot. Go for it dude. Don't let bitter people try and convince you to sabotage what could be a good thing. Go for it. Let go of the hate in this instance.
Reading it makes it sound ridiculous. If I was offered this opportunity years ago when I was subhuman incel with no dating experience I would have taken it for sure.

I guess since I developed oneitis for this girl I am seeing everything emotionally. I forgot im an oldcel sometimes, I have better chances of winning the lottery than finding a virgin who actually wants me at this age. That small hope if finding a virgin while I still have a tiny chance is what is keeping me from fully accepting her.
 
She has one LTR with a bad boy. He dumped her after doing everything with her and getting bored. I hate guys like this who ruin wives for guys who want LTR's
dude that isn't that bad why are you so concerned
 
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Reading it makes it sound ridiculous. If I was offered this opportunity years ago when I was subhuman incel with no dating experience I would have taken it for sure.

I guess since I developed oneitis for this girl I am seeing everything emotionally. I forgot im an oldcel sometimes, I have better chances of winning the lottery than finding a virgin who actually wants me at this age. That small hope if finding a virgin while I still have a tiny chance is what is keeping me from fully accepting her.
It's not oneitis if she likes you back.

A virgin that wants you vs a girl who has slept with 1 or 2 guys is very similar, the only reason a virgin is near impossible to find is because this society encourages women to be whores.

As long as she isn't some coal burner and you're going to play stepdad for Tyrone Jr. then go for it haha (lmao if you're black and I just said this to a black guy). Maybe it works out, maybe it doesn't. But it sounds pretty good to me. I'd never trust a girl who said she was a virgin in this day and age anyway; it's almost always a larp.
 
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Just do it, not like you have to marry her or anything. Experience gives clarity.
 
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Looks, height and drug addict appeal is a very real phenomenon.

My oneitis- yes THE girl because of whom I have been chronically depressed for the past 2 years- was swooning over a drug addict CL.

She was a virgin at that time. There is zero chance she is a virgin now.

Drug addicts have appeal because they're not "boring". They don't follow social norms and because he is most definitely a good looking guy, it is a big halo.
A good looking druggie is like saying dumb genius, they’re all subhuman as fuck.
I agree that they get women though, mainly because they’re NPC IQ conformists and that’s exactly what women gravitate towards.
 
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bro is advertising tourism for his country in a thread of a guy scared of fucking. GREATEST TIME TO BE ALIVE
carl jung i like your intellectual debates with society please come to georgia.
 

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