Mindset is unironically extremely important and you need to stop seeing your life as a tragedy

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Its another example of a bell curve where normies say some bullshit about having a positive mindset whenever you complain about your life, and you think you’re enlightened for rejecting that cope, but eventually you realise that its actually incredibly important and that they just conveyed that truth in a really annoying way

How you perceive the world and chose to interpret your circumstances dictates your mood in its entirety.

If the life story you tell yourself is “I’m an unloveable, unfuckable loser chud who will never make anything of myself and its over for me”, you physically CANNOT be happy. Your identity dictates how you chose to act, you’re playing the role you have allocated to yourself, and if that role is the chud then obviously you’ll be depressed.

The stimuli you receive reinforces and dictates your identity. If you spend all day LDARing and consuming depressing content you’re telling your mind you are a depressed loser. Unless you’re a genuine trucel who actually receives nothing but negative reinforcement from the world despite doing everything right, this status is probably self imposed and you can work on it

Of course it isn’t as simple as just clicking your fingers and suddenly improving everything. You have to change your lifestyle. Decide you’re a new man today, make it symbolic. Construct a routine for yourself that you think a better man would follow.

Listen only to upbeat, confidence boosting music. Spend as much time outside and in the presence of others as possible, and as little time alone in your room as you can. Being alone in a cramped, messy environment is mental hell and is deeply unnatural. Exercise, read, write, make things etc.

Cut out all of the addicting negative stimuli. Sadness and anger are genuinely addicting, paradoxically enough, because we’d rather feel something strongly than the dullness of apathy. Which is why the algorithms chose to reinforce negativity, it drives engagement more than happiness.

It will feel performative and cringy at first but once you genuinely start seeing yourself as a person who does these things, once you see yourself as a disciplined, capable human being, the way you perceive the world will change. Its all about repetition.
 
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DNR I've already embraced my fatalistic mindset and grown comfortable with it.​
 
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DNR I've already embraced my fatalistic mindset and grown comfortable with it.​
this is an unfortunate reality tbh
too many people find comfort in their own misery
if you say its over you don’t need to try, no pressure no stress
its weakness of course but its an easy trap to fall into
 
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Its another example of a bell curve where normies say some bullshit about having a positive mindset whenever you complain about your life, and you think you’re enlightened for rejecting that cope, but eventually you realise that its actually incredibly important and that they just conveyed that truth in a really annoying way

How you perceive the world and chose to interpret your circumstances dictates your mood in its entirety.

If the life story you tell yourself is “I’m an unloveable, unfuckable loser chud who will never make anything of myself and its over for me”, you physically CANNOT be happy. Your identity dictates how you chose to act, you’re playing the role you have allocated to yourself, and if that role is the chud then obviously you’ll be depressed.

The stimuli you receive reinforces and dictates your identity. If you spend all day LDARing and consuming depressing content you’re telling your mind you are a depressed loser. Unless you’re a genuine trucel who actually receives nothing but negative reinforcement from the world despite doing everything right, this status is probably self imposed and you can work on it

Of course it isn’t as simple as just clicking your fingers and suddenly improving everything. You have to change your lifestyle. Decide you’re a new man today, make it symbolic. Construct a routine for yourself that you think a better man would follow.

Listen only to upbeat, confidence boosting music. Spend as much time outside and in the presence of others as possible, and as little time alone in your room as you can. Being alone in a cramped, messy environment is mental hell and is deeply unnatural. Exercise, read, write, make things etc.

Cut out all of the addicting negative stimuli. Sadness and anger are genuinely addicting, paradoxically enough, because we’d rather feel something strongly than the dullness of apathy. Which is why the algorithms chose to reinforce negativity, it drives engagement more than happiness.

It will feel performative and cringy at first but once you genuinely start seeing yourself as a person who does these things, once you see yourself as a disciplined, capable human being, the way you perceive the world will change. Its all about repetition.
dnr but good effort
 
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im gonna fucking happymaxx istg
 
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im gonna fucking happymaxx istg
we should all be happymaxxing
it shouldn’t be that easy but my mood is genuinely 1000x better on days where i’m out in the sun, socialise a bit and do something productive than on days where i just rot at home
 
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we should all be happymaxxing
it shouldn’t be that easy but my mood is genuinely 1000x better on days where i’m out in the sun, socialise a bit and do something productive than on days where i just rot at home
which all boils down on how unnatural the latter is
you’re mimicking hiding in a cave after being exiled from your tribe no wonder you have anxiety and depression
 

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