(Missed Lays?) Is there anything to regret?

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I came up on a reddit thread which was about guys missing obvious hints from girls. This made me remember when this could have happened to me, but I am not sure whether I even did anything wrong, or whether there was something to miss in the first place.

Scenario 1:
It is Valentine's day. A girl that I met on Tinder earlier (and that I went clubbing with alongside her friends), tells me she is lonely. Jokingly, she tells me why don't you bring me some flowers and come over. Being the autist I am, I cycle around 30 minutes under heavy, heavy rain to buy some flowers and turn up in a YSL No Smoking Shirt (which has lips and cigarettes all over it).

We laugh it off and she shares some sweets with me. Then, we proceed to get high and smoke some weed.

After some time, she offers me to lay in bed with her (both fully clothed) and turns out some Cinderella movie. So I lay down, try to sleep but fail and go home.

2 years later, we end up living together for a while and she asks me why we never were boyfriend/ girlfriend. I became fat and less appealing (at my peak I was around 5,5 PSL maybe?), yet she told me I still looked good enough. I ended up modelling for her brand in 2 pictures, but I feel we did this just for the lulz.

This time, we end up sleeping in the same bed again because she felt lonely. She had a boyfriend at the time.

The girl was a model/influencer with over 300k followers that I looked up to, so I handled everything as if we were good friends. To this day, I am convinced that I had no chance anyway. So I feel like even if the goal was to get laid, there is nothing to regret because it would not have happened anyway.

Scenario 2:
A random Chinese girl on Tinder sparks a conversation with me and we end up meeting at my dorm. I felt like cooking for her, so I prepare some interesting Asian dish with Chicken, Honey, Broccoli and Mango as ingredients. It was delicious!

I propose we go to a party and convince my other Asian (guy) friend to come along. Both did not know that I took another person to the party. The girl goes home to prepare, and we end up meeting 2 hours later. She is dressed in fully red latex and has make-up similar to a Dominatrix. So we go to the party and just walk around.

Funnily, at the party I overheard a girl tell me I was cute. But to this day I am convinced she was mistaken or I overheard something.

The Chinese girl tells me I should go to her place, and the other Asian dude goes home. There, she tells me I should take her virginity and tells me about her crush that rejected her (a gigamogger studying Math at the same Ivy I go to). I tell her no I won't do it and she ends up kicking me out.

At no point did I feel she wanted to sleep with me until she told me. But when she did, I declined because it would have been just to take her virginity which I found weird.


Scenario 3: (most ambiguous)
I went to my friend's house where he hosted a small get-together. At that point, I was close to looks-maxxed and actually was complimented for my looks by others. A random girl kept starring at me. To this day I don't know whether it was a half-drunken stare or a stare of adoration.

I was weirded out by this so I never talked to her again, although we met randomly through mutual friends.

Scenario 4: (very ambiguous)
Similarly to scenario 3, I went to my friend's house where he hosted a small get-together. A girl I never met recognised me and wanted to verify whether it was me. She told me she saw my pictures on social media, and others started to giggle with her once she did.

I said yes and we never talked again.

There are a few more stories where I went on random dates. In total, I probably got laid less than 10% when I went on dates because I was convinced the girl wasn't attracted to me. Almost always we did end up hanging out together. One time I was even flaked when they saw me.


Was there ever a chance and did I miss something? I feel like there is nothing to regret because there was no chance anyway, and yet I feel like this has had an impact on my life. Unfortunately, I remember almost every detail of these moments like it was burned inside my brain. But in the end I'm at least happy I got to hang out with some people.
 
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I tried, I really did, but in the end I didn’t read a single word
 
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