Mom told me to “not watch pornography." Is it normal? Should I be mad?

[johnnydeep222]

I am a 25 year old man living at home. I go to grad. School and live at home to save money. My parents were going out to visit my brother before the holidays.
Before leaving, my mom told me to “not watch pornography.” I feel as if it’s because I’m incel and never had sex or had a girlfriend since H.S so she suspects I watch Pοrn.

I felt even more incel than before. Is it normal? Should I be mad?

 

[Deleted member 3299]

She knows sitting in front of your screen and jacking off to random naked people is for bitch asses

 

[Deleted member 1476]

it’s incase he finds her pov creampies

 

[NaturalDisaster]

she wants you to do her

 

[WTFCGod]

LISTEN TO HER SHE DOESNT WANT A CUCKED SON

 

[johnnydeep222]

LISTEN TO HER SHE DOESNT WANT A CUCKED SON

I never told her that I am an incel. She thinks that I am not interested in having a girlfriend (as most mothers of 21+ year old incels do.) Why does she care what I do with MY body?

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

She probably thinks that if you dont watch porn then you will go out and ask out a woman and youll get married and live happily ever after. Or some bullshit like that. But that is indeed very strange to tell your 25 year old son not to watch porn. Dont spend any time thinking about it. Who knows exactly why she said it. It doesnt matter

 

[Beetlejuice]

Tell her to stfu

 

[Deleted member 11053]

She is right don't watch porn

 

[MiroslavBulldosex]

Bro, you're 25. Do something.

 

[Deleted member 11221]

25 year old man living at home

its over . im so sorry.

 

[johnnydeep222]

She is right don't watch porn

She doesn't know I do, and why would she CARE? I'm not like 15.

 

[johnnydeep222]

its over . im so sorry.

The living at home part to save money while in grad. school is normal imo.

Why go in with 30,000 worth of debt just to live by yourself? Unless you are going to medical school or something

 

[Deleted member 5927]

if you don't watch porn you will just be a horny dude sitting in your room by yourself

ppl don't understand that it's pointless doing nofap if you still can't get sex, there's no benefit

 

[Deleted member 275]

She probably saw this video. Based nazi mom tbh.

 

[Deleted member 11053]

She doesn't know I do, and why would she CARE? I'm not like 15.

Do you really she doesn't know?

 

[johnnydeep222]

Do you really she doesn't know?

How would she know?

 

[Deleted member 11053]

How would she know?

If you had to guess if your son watch porn or not knowing all the statistic about men watching it what would you guess?

 

[Deleted member 3323]

THE EYE CAN SEEE

THE EYE CAN SEE

THE EYE CAN SEEEE

THE EYE CAN SEEEEE!!

THE EYE CAN SEE!

 

[johnnydeep222]

If you had to guess if your son watch porn or not knowing all the statistic about men watching it what would you guess?

Why does she care?

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Why does she care?

Cause porn is not good

 

[Deleted member 9837]

if you don't watch porn you will just be a horny dude sitting in your room by yourself

ppl don't understand that it's pointless doing nofap if you still can't get sex, there's no benefit

Hey can fap but don’t watch Porn

 

[Deleted member 5969]

She probably thinks that if you dont watch porn then you will go out and ask out a woman and youll get married and live happily ever after. Or some bullshit like that. But that is indeed very strange to tell your 25 year old son not to watch porn. Dont spend any time thinking about it. Who knows exactly why she said it. It doesnt matter

Best answer, I doubt your mom cares about PIED or anything similar

 

[johnnydeep222]

Best answer, I doubt your mom cares about PIED or anything similar

But what does PORN have to do with it? Just tell me to talk to girls more often.

 

[johnnydeep222]

Hey can fap but don’t watch Porn

true

 

[johnnydeep222]

She knows sitting in front of your screen and jacking off to random naked people is for bitch asses

everyone does it

 

[johnnydeep222]

Hey can fap but don’t watch Porn

Are people who are anti porn okay with people masturbating without porn? I always wondered that.

 

[Deleted member 9837]

Are people who are anti porn okay with people masturbating without porn? I always wondered that.

Porn literally rewires your brain bro stay away from it

And yeah man but preferably don’t do it at all

 

[johnnydeep222]

Porn literally rewires your brain bro stay away from it

And yeah man but preferably don’t do it at all

How can one NOT have sex and not watch porn? Its biological, humans are designed to have sex or seek sex. Its almost like the ultra religions want to change biology.

 

[Deleted member 9837]

How can one NOT have sex and not watch porn? Its biological, humans are designed to have sex or seek sex. Its almost like the ultra religions want to change biology.

Porn isn’t biological you addict. have self control once in your life

if it gets to hard jerk off but without porn. Or even better hire a hooker if you can’t get anything for some reason

 

[johnnydeep222]

Porn isn’t biological you addict. have self control once in your life

if it gets to hard jerk off but without porn. Or even better hire a hooker if you can’t get anything for some reason

Addict? I just watch some porn a few times a week on my cell phone. No one even knows.

Yes. Sexual urges ARE biological. Almost everyone from he age of 21-59 either has sex or watches porn.

 

[Deleted member 9837]

Addict? I just watch some porn a few times a week on my cell phone. No one even knows.

Yes. Sexual urges ARE biological. Almost everyone from he age of 21-59 either has sex or watches porn.

“ afew times a week” that’s what they all say

listen bro no shit urges are biological and you can jerk off but don’t use fucking porn

it literally damages your brain. Even hookers are better than porn

I get your either trolling or want to defend your habits but it’s so dumb man

 

[RAITEIII]

I thought u were trolling. Has she ever said smth as cringe before?

She thinks you jerk off like there's no tomorrow. Probably has seen some evidence too cuz otherwise why would she go this far? Maybe ur cumrag, the data in ur browser, stains in ur underwear...

Your mom can smell your cum just by entering the room. Do u think she hasnt had a facial creampie ever? JFL yh she was son... she knows what that shit smells like and the subtle change of the atmosphere. She instantly knows how much u jerked off.

 

[RAITEIII]

“ afew times a week” that’s what they all say

listen bro no shit urges are biological and you can jerk off but don’t use fucking porn

it literally damages your brain. Even hookers are better than porn

I get your either trolling or want to defend your habits but it’s so dumb man

His issue isn't porn or jerking off. Dont delude him. His issue are his looks. He only need to properly looksmax and he'll stop being a retard.

"nobody knows I watch porn".

nigga yiure so deluded everyone does chad stacy your grandparent if he knows how to use internet lmao. Everyone is a horny dog just accept it already. They know u jerk off like theres no tomorrow never forget this

 

[Deleted member 9837]

His issue isn't porn or jerking off. Dont delude him. His issue are his looks. He only need to properly looksmax and he'll stop being a retard.

"nobody knows I watch porn".

nigga yiure so deluded everyone does chad stacy your grandparent if he knows how to use internet lmao. Everyone is a horny dog just accept it already. They know u jerk off like theres no tomorrow never forget this

The subject here isn’t about sex or getting girls it’s about is porn good or bad for you. It’s in the title for Christ sakes

which Btw it clearly isn’t. I get you have your issues with me since we have different view points but if your gonna take a shot at me at least do it over the actual subject matter

 

[johnnydeep222]

“ afew times a week” that’s what they all say

listen bro no shit urges are biological and you can jerk off but don’t use fucking porn

it literally damages your brain. Even hookers are better than porn

I get your either trolling or want to defend your habits but it’s so dumb man

Doesen't everyone watch porn?

Hookers may give u give you AIDS, covid, STDs etc. porn does not. Hookers are illegal. Porn is not. Why take the risk?.

 

[Deleted member 9837]

Doesen't everyone watch porn?

Hookers may give u give you AIDS, covid, STDs etc. porn does not. Hookers are illegal. Porn is not. Why take the risk?.

Actual clean “high class” hookers from a agency etc do not especially if you wear a condom.

and like I said look up the studies what porn does to your brain It literally damages your neurological wiring

the logic of “ Muh everyone else does it so it isn’t bad durrr” is retarded. Most people are pathetic and have no self control or take care of themselves you really wanna copy everyone else?

but if you want your porn so bad go ahead bro your choice what you do with your life not my job to stop you.

 

[RAITEIII]

The subject here isn’t about sex or getting girls it’s about is porn good or bad for you. It’s in the title for Christ sakes

which Btw it clearly isn’t. I get you have your issues with me since we have different view points but if your gonna take a shot at me at least do it over the actual subject matter

how is all of this not related to sex lmao?

I'm not taking a shot at you? Jfl what issues can I have. We be bros till forever.

but ultimately trying to fight ur urges isn't the most optimal sstrategy. There is no issue with watching sexually explicit internet material and cooming here and there, and if you have issues doing it or you become addicted, then it most likely have to do with YOU and not the act itself. Cuz majority of people do it and experience no issues, simply because they have a lot more going on.

I dont know what OP is experiencing though.


I don't want to be rude but his mom has said so much with so little. She definitely doesnt think of him as someone particularly successful. So honestly instead of obsessing over this I would rather focus on improving life overall. If watching porn for 30 minutes makes u unable to do that then quit it. Fair enough lol

 

[Deleted member 9837]

how is all of this not related to sex lmao?

I'm not taking a shot at you? Jfl what issues can I have. We be bros till forever.

but ultimately trying to fight ur urges isn't the most optimal sstrategy. There is no issue with watching sexually explicit internet material and cooming here and there, and if you have issues doing it or you become addicted, then it most likely have to do with YOU and not the act itself. Cuz majority of people do it and experience no issues, simply because they have a lot more going on.

I dont know what OP is experiencing though.


I don't want to be rude but his mom has said so much with so little. She definitely doesnt think of him as someone particularly successful. So honestly instead of obsessing over this I would rather focus on improving life overall. If watching porn for 30 minutes makes u unable to do that then quit it. Fair enough lol

I literally said he can jerk off just don’t do it to porn and even a hooker is better than porn

no ones saying fight your biological urges but to do it to jew porn is dumb as shit statistically

 

[Wannabe_PrettyBoy]

She’s doing you a favor

 

[johnnydeep222]

Actual clean “high class” hookers from a agency etc do not especially if you wear a condom.

and like I said look up the studies what porn does to your brain It literally damages your neurological wiring

the logic of “ Muh everyone else does it so it isn’t bad durrr” is retarded. Most people are pathetic and have no self control or take care of themselves you really wanna copy everyone else?

but if you want your porn so bad go ahead bro your choice what you do with your life not my job to stop you.

High class hookers are illegal where I live.

Fact is that hookers are much more dangerous than watching porn. Only way that you can safely fuk a hooker is if you pay lots of $$$, and spend thousands on travel to Nevada.

 

[johnnydeep222]

She’s doing you a favor

why would she CARE? I'm not like 15.

 

[KingOfRome]

If a woman says it, it's bullshit.

 

[johnnydeep222]

If a woman says it, it's bullshit.

true

 

[johnnydeep222]

His issue isn't porn or jerking off. Dont delude him. His issue are his looks. He only need to properly looksmax and he'll stop being a retard.

"nobody knows I watch porn".

nigga yiure so deluded everyone does chad stacy your grandparent if he knows how to use internet lmao. Everyone is a horny dog just accept it already. They know u jerk off like theres no tomorrow never forget this

Why are so many people on this site defending my foid mom?

 

[RAITEIII]

Why are so many people on this site defending my foid mom?

Nobody is defending her. We are only discussing what's better for you. You take the decision.

Ultimately one thing remains true: your mom thinks you're a coomer. Which is associated with not being successful and such, and I get the feeling that it might be somewhat accurate.

So you have to change your life in big scale. You need it. You owe it to yourself. You might be working on that already? Then I'm just reminding you.

Ultimately @Bigbeefius has a point you shouldn't get addicted to sexually explicit internet material and try to decrease its consume ( I don't think 30 minutes of watching it and cooming will make any damage though). Focus on looksmax more if you can so you can bang sloots.

 

[KingOfRome]

So you have to change your life in big scale.

He is a 25-year-old incel who lives with his mom. It's over. It's a wrap. Let him coom to the most vile disgusting porno that tickles his fancy. His mother is deluding herself out of female narcissism that her son isn't beyond saving.

 

[johnnydeep222]

He is a 25-year-old incel who lives with his mom. It's over. It's a wrap. Let him coom to the most vile disgusting porno that tickles his fancy. His mother is deluding herself out of female narcissism that her son isn't beyond saving.

The living at home part to save money while in grad. school is normal imo.

Why go in with 30,000 worth of debt just to live by yourself? Unless you are going to medical school or a top law school or something and are guaranteed a huge income.

Its better than working at walmart your whole life like you.

 

[johnnydeep222]

Nobody is defending her. We are only discussing what's better for you. You take the decision.

Ultimately one thing remains true: your mom thinks you're a coomer. Which is associated with not being successful and such, and I get the feeling that it might be somewhat accurate.

So you have to change your life in big scale. You need it. You owe it to yourself. You might be working on that already? Then I'm just reminding you.

Ultimately @Bigbeefius has a point you shouldn't get addicted to sexually explicit internet material and try to decrease its consume ( I don't think 30 minutes of watching it and cooming will make any damage though). Focus on looksmax more if you can so you can bang sloots.

Who cares? Almost all 21+ year old virgin men watch porn.

I am NOT addicted. Just a few times a week on my phone. Porn is getting boring imo

 

[johnnydeep222]

how is all of this not related to sex lmao?

I'm not taking a shot at you? Jfl what issues can I have. We be bros till forever.

but ultimately trying to fight ur urges isn't the most optimal sstrategy. There is no issue with watching sexually explicit internet material and cooming here and there, and if you have issues doing it or you become addicted, then it most likely have to do with YOU and not the act itself. Cuz majority of people do it and experience no issues, simply because they have a lot more going on.

I dont know what OP is experiencing though.


I don't want to be rude but his mom has said so much with so little. She definitely doesnt think of him as someone particularly successful. So honestly instead of obsessing over this I would rather focus on improving life overall. If watching porn for 30 minutes makes u unable to do that then quit it. Fair enough lol

Agree. I just watch porn a few times a week on my phone. Sometimes no times a week. Its nothing like an addiction.