user47283
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People here think the only thing making a guy incel is looks, no it is also money. Let me explain.
Low IQ psl user logic: this woman won’t have sex with this man. So he must be unnatractive to her. So looks are everything
Wrong there’s two scenarios,
1) Yes some men are truly hideous to women and even with money they’d at best receive some transactional form of romance but never genuine desire
2) This is usually the case. She thinks your cute but there is nothing differentiating you from the other guys that are also decent looking to her. You lack the finances to be seen as a serious long term partner who can take care of her so she will keep looking
There is a different between ONS power and LTR power, they’re not equivalent. Women don’t have more options than men, they just have an easier time getting laid. There’s an expression “Women fuck who they want men fuck who than can , but men marry who they want and women marry who they can”
Here is the actual spectrum:
ugly and broke:
- bottom 20% looks & finances
- truecel , unable to get ONS or LTR
ugly and rich:
- bottom 20% looks
- top 10% finance
- unable to get ONS (outside of escorts)
- can get LTR but is betabuxxing and the romance will only be transactional. Also she will cheat to gratify her sexual needs
decent looking and broke:
- 50th percentile in looks (for men age 20-35)
- bottom 20% financially
- can ONS via dumpster diving at bars
- unable to get LTR as cannot afford a gf and not hot enough to use physicality alone
decent looking and rich:
- 50th percentile looks ( men age 20-35)
- top 10% financially
Now this is the sweet spot. You’re attractiveness and money compliment each other very well. You are both attractive enough where she can be with you intimately and also her best LTR option.
This is any woman who is over the age of 28’s dream man. At around this age and up women realize they cannot compete at the same level they did in their younger years and are getting desperate to LTR before their eggs rot (there’s a reason the average age of marriage for a woman is 28).
You are basically one of the last branches before she hits the ground. After this she knows it’ll have to be the rich ugly man I mentioned earlier and women are horrified of that but will do it out of survival
You have the broadest appeal out of all men as you are both attractive and seem attainable unlike gigachad
Good looking and rich:
- You can get virtually any woman you want but you’re probably only gonna fuck with Staceys if you’re at this level making your dating pool smaller than the previous guy but of higher quality
most guys here overvalue looks because they are very young and yes girls only care about looks they are just starting their Chad cock carousel journey and if you’re not hot you are gonna have a tough time. However wait it out because women’s options dwindle and men, as long as you’re a decent looking guy, increase. No this is not redpill cuz I said decent looking, ugly and rich is cope.
Low IQ psl user logic: this woman won’t have sex with this man. So he must be unnatractive to her. So looks are everything
Wrong there’s two scenarios,
1) Yes some men are truly hideous to women and even with money they’d at best receive some transactional form of romance but never genuine desire
2) This is usually the case. She thinks your cute but there is nothing differentiating you from the other guys that are also decent looking to her. You lack the finances to be seen as a serious long term partner who can take care of her so she will keep looking
There is a different between ONS power and LTR power, they’re not equivalent. Women don’t have more options than men, they just have an easier time getting laid. There’s an expression “Women fuck who they want men fuck who than can , but men marry who they want and women marry who they can”
Here is the actual spectrum:
ugly and broke:
- bottom 20% looks & finances
- truecel , unable to get ONS or LTR
ugly and rich:
- bottom 20% looks
- top 10% finance
- unable to get ONS (outside of escorts)
- can get LTR but is betabuxxing and the romance will only be transactional. Also she will cheat to gratify her sexual needs
decent looking and broke:
- 50th percentile in looks (for men age 20-35)
- bottom 20% financially
- can ONS via dumpster diving at bars
- unable to get LTR as cannot afford a gf and not hot enough to use physicality alone
decent looking and rich:
- 50th percentile looks ( men age 20-35)
- top 10% financially
Now this is the sweet spot. You’re attractiveness and money compliment each other very well. You are both attractive enough where she can be with you intimately and also her best LTR option.
This is any woman who is over the age of 28’s dream man. At around this age and up women realize they cannot compete at the same level they did in their younger years and are getting desperate to LTR before their eggs rot (there’s a reason the average age of marriage for a woman is 28).
You are basically one of the last branches before she hits the ground. After this she knows it’ll have to be the rich ugly man I mentioned earlier and women are horrified of that but will do it out of survival
You have the broadest appeal out of all men as you are both attractive and seem attainable unlike gigachad
Good looking and rich:
- You can get virtually any woman you want but you’re probably only gonna fuck with Staceys if you’re at this level making your dating pool smaller than the previous guy but of higher quality
most guys here overvalue looks because they are very young and yes girls only care about looks they are just starting their Chad cock carousel journey and if you’re not hot you are gonna have a tough time. However wait it out because women’s options dwindle and men, as long as you’re a decent looking guy, increase. No this is not redpill cuz I said decent looking, ugly and rich is cope.
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