Most girls will not approach even if they're attracted to you [Real Story]

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Saw it IRL firsthand with a girl who crushed on me hard at work.

She did give some iois but she never approached nor talked to me outside of one time i talked to her because i had work with her department.

How did I know? she jumped jobs to another company, and the girl she used to gossip with told me after that she had a huge crush on me.

But it was really obvious she was crushing on me and wanted me to ask her out. Even for a oblivious retard like me. So I really knew from the start but this confirmed it.

I didn't slay because I don't shit where I work and she wasn't my taste.
 
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Most girls will not approach you.
 
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Saw it IRL firsthand with a girl who crushed on me hard at work.

She did give some iois but she never approached nor talked to me outside of one time i talked to her because i had work with her department.

How did I know? she jumped jobs to another company, and the girl she used to gossip with told me after that she had a huge crush on me.

But it was really obvious she was crushing on me and wanted me to ask her out. Even for a oblivious retard like me. So I really knew from the start but this confirmed it.

I didn't slay because I don't shit where I work and she wasn't my taste.
Yes but they will make it obvious they like you e.g looking at you regularly, smiling at you, making an excuse to see you/touch you (laughing at your jokes and like putting their hand on your arm) and just overall positive body language.
Don’t cope with the fact just because they don’t approach you means they automatically like you, a woman will make it obvious.
 
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Saw it IRL firsthand with a girl who crushed on me hard at work.

She did give some iois but she never approached nor talked to me outside of one time i talked to her because i had work with her department.

How did I know? she jumped jobs to another company, and the girl she used to gossip with told me after that she had a huge crush on me.

But it was really obvious she was crushing on me and wanted me to ask her out. Even for a oblivious retard like me. So I really knew from the start but this confirmed it.

I didn't slay because I don't shit where I work and she wasn't my taste.
When drunk they approach a lot.

But they don't need to physically approach. Girls give strong IOIs if they find you hot. A girl initiating by giving you IOIs is an approach in my book. She approached you if she did this, you just have to go over and talk to her
 
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She would have made an excuse to talk to you if she really liked you at work
 
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Yes but they will make it obvious they like you e.g looking at you regularly, smiling at you, making an excuse to see you/touch you (laughing at your jokes and like putting their hand on your arm) and just overall positive body language.
Don’t cope with the fact just because they don’t approach you means they automatically like you, a woman will make it obvious.
She did not do any of those things except stare me down on elevator when I got with her. That's the one I noticed (which was awkard as fuck, I did not stare back btw. literally the dog in the traffic light meme).
 
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She would have made an excuse to talk to you if she really liked you at work
from my experience every foid that has liked me at work would just give me death stares everytime they were near me
 
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Cope with what? If I wanted to fuck her i 99.99% could
She would have made an excuse to talk to you if she really liked you at work
She 100% did. One time I was sitting very awkwardly in a one of those private spaces at work (forgot what they're called)

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these with a closed glass door

and this was how i sat (autistic I know) with more open legs

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and she literally just stared at my cock while she moved. It was creepy as fuck NGL
 
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Cope with what? If I wanted to fuck her i 99.99% could

She 100% did. One time I was sitting very awkwardly in a one of those private spaces at work (forgot what they're called)

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these with a closed glass door

and this was how i sat (autistic I know) with more open legs

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and she literally just stared at my cock while she moved. It was creepy as fuck NGL
How can you convince me to believe you with this
 
How can you convince me to believe you with this
Idk bro it's quite specific

if she read it she would know who I am so I'm thinking about deleting it actually, too autistic about OPSEC
 
Saw it IRL firsthand with a girl who crushed on me hard at work.

She did give some iois but she never approached nor talked to me outside of one time i talked to her because i had work with her department.

How did I know? she jumped jobs to another company, and the girl she used to gossip with told me after that she had a huge crush on me.

But it was really obvious she was crushing on me and wanted me to ask her out. Even for a oblivious retard like me. So I really knew from the start but this confirmed it.

I didn't slay because I don't shit where I work and she wasn't my taste.
Chad ramblings
 
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Idk bro it's quite specific

if she read it she would know who I am so I'm thinking about deleting it actually, too autistic about OPSEC
Alright, I believe you
 
Chad ramblings
nowhere near chad tbh
i'd say i'm a MTN-HTN at most
Alright, I believe you
I wouldn't believe myself tbh, I never thought this was something that happens but it happened and it's really fucking creepy to get it
I finally understood foids, but unlike foids i don't flaunt my boobs/ass out (big breasted covered women who still get stares I understand though)
 
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@browncurrycel what?
 
Saw it IRL firsthand with a girl who crushed on me hard at work.

She did give some iois but she never approached nor talked to me outside of one time i talked to her because i had work with her department.

How did I know? she jumped jobs to another company, and the girl she used to gossip with told me after that she had a huge crush on me.

But it was really obvious she was crushing on me and wanted me to ask her out. Even for a oblivious retard like me. So I really knew from the start but this confirmed it.

I didn't slay because I don't shit where I work and she wasn't my taste.
water imo i can be deeply in love with a girl and not talk to her for like 6 months
 
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water imo i can be deeply in love with a girl and not talk to her for like 6 months
Yep and now consider how high inhib and insecure girls are.
When even as men we don't like to approach / a lot of us fear to approach
 
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@browncurrycel what?
She already liked you and gave signs nigga

What do you expect more? Do you want her to get on her knees and BEG for your cock? She gave you plenty of IOIs. That's as good as asking you out.
 
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She already liked you and gave signs nigga

What do you expect more? Do you want her to get on her knees and BEG for your cock? She gave you plenty of IOIs. That's as good as asking you out.
1.I don't shit where I work
2.She was like a MTB and not my taste at all
3. If I did ask her out and get rejected It'd hurt my ego bad and I'm an egoistic person (see my tiktok thread to know)
I basically only like to slay bitches who either flirt with me directly and I escalate or in vacations
 
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Yep and now consider how high inhib and insecure girls are.
When even as men we don't like to approach / a lot of us fear to approach
being or having a visibly intimidating or low trust face and being introverted has to be the worst combo on earth
 
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1.I don't shit where I work
Understandable.

But telling that women don't approach you even if they like you is untrue especially if you are somebody who gets so many IOIs.

You are setting yourself up FOR REJECTION by NOT asking her out given how much she has flirted with you (if this wasn't a work environment).
 
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Understandable.

But telling that women don't approach you even if they like you is untrue especially if you are somebody who gets so many IOIs.

You are setting yourself up FOR REJECTION by NOT asking her out given how much she has flirted with you (if this wasn't a work environment).
Idk I don't go out much tbh. I did get approached twice in my life (one in czech one in brazil) but nothing outside that.

but 99% of the time they will not approach

think of it from your POV as men. most men don't approach at all. you think a woman who's very high inhib and insecure will approach a man? It's perfectly logical
 
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Looks like top tier cope
 
Widziałem to na własne oczy, na przykładzie dziewczyny, która bardzo się we mnie zakochała w pracy.

Dała mi kilka wskazówek, ale nigdy do mnie nie podeszła ani nie porozmawiała, poza jednym razem, kiedy z nią rozmawiałem, ponieważ pracowałem w jej dziale.

Skąd wiedziałem? Przeniosła się do innej firmy, a dziewczyna, z którą plotkowała, powiedziała mi potem, że była we mnie strasznie zakochana.

Ale było naprawdę oczywiste, że się we mnie podkochuje i chce, żebym ją zaprosił na randkę. Nawet dla takiego nieświadomego idioty jak ja. Więc wiedziałem to od początku, ale to mnie utwierdziło.

Nie zabiłem jej, bo nie sram tam, gdzie pracuję, a ona nie przypadła mi do gustu.
Bro you are so fucking rights Like when was a time one girl Like me he doesnt come to me i feel Like i must do this but she Like me first
 
they are waiting for u to approach, but if u don’t do it they just forget u after 2 minutes
 
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Saw it IRL firsthand with a girl who crushed on me hard at work.

She did give some iois but she never approached nor talked to me outside of one time i talked to her because i had work with her department.

How did I know? she jumped jobs to another company, and the girl she used to gossip with told me after that she had a huge crush on me.

But it was really obvious she was crushing on me and wanted me to ask her out. Even for a oblivious retard like me. So I really knew from the start but this confirmed it.

I didn't slay because I don't shit where I work and she wasn't my taste.
I figured this out when my dumbass still believed that if she doesn’t approach you, she doesn’t like you enough.

Oftentimes, women approaching you shows her desperation for a partner or for you (because of some story she has about you in her head) or her lack of inhibition more than the strength of her attraction
 
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Only the most low inhib females approach. Women have a lot of anxiety despite being the more social gender at the same time.

All the girls that approached and complimented me in the past were giga-nt normie girls. Fumbled them all because nd lol.
 
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they are waiting for u to approach, but if u don’t do it they just forget u after 2 minutes
This has been my experience.
 
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Yes but they will make it obvious they like you e.g looking at you regularly, smiling at you, making an excuse to see you/touch you (laughing at your jokes and like putting their hand on your arm) and just overall positive body language.
Don’t cope with the fact just because they don’t approach you means they automatically like you, a woman will make it obvious.
women don’t even make it that obvious on purpose theyre just really fucking easy to read
 
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Only the most low inhib females approach. Women have a lot of anxiety despite being the more social gender at the same time.

All the girls that approached and complimented me in the past were giga-nt normie girls. Fumbled them all because nd lol.
Same, same.
I figured this out when my dumbass still believed that if she doesn’t approach you, she doesn’t like you enough.

Oftentimes, women approaching you shows her desperation for a partner or for you (because of some story she has about you in her head) or her lack of inhibition rather than the strength of her attraction
 
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tales from the ward
 
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I got approached before like 3 times
 
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learned this the hard way, jfl at the niggas that act like women will swarm you if they think you are good looking
 
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women don’t even make it that obvious on purpose theyre just really fucking easy to read
Women are easy to read and don't try and hide their feelings in nature. Brainwashing made us do it
 
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her lack of inhibition rather than the strength of her attraction
everytime i see you in a thread talking about women. you be doing the absolute most brother cuz what is this 😭😭😭. nigga just squeezing out extra bullshit to meet the required word limit for his essay
 
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everytime i see you in a thread talking about women. you be doing the absolute most brother cuz what is this 😭😭😭. nigga just squeezing out extra bullshit to meet the required word limit for his essay
Pal, I actually speak like this in real life 😂 it’s just how my brain processes information.
 
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Pal, I actually speak like this in real life 😂 it’s just how my brain processes information.
its not the way you said it, its just what you said that has me crying
 
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learned this the hard way, jfl at the niggas that act like women will swarm you if they think you are good looking
Chadswarming only happens if you’re hot, around young women (usually JBs) or a famous model around young women who pedestalize you.
 
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everytime i see you in a thread talking about women. you be doing the absolute most brother cuz what is this 😭😭😭. nigga just squeezing out extra bullshit to meet the required word limit for his essay
Caging @ your IQ if you think that sentence is too complex or wordy
 
please refresh your page before replying. makes you look kinda silly now doesn’t it ya fucking goof 👀
No, you still look retarded. What he wrote was completely normal within the context of this forum lol.
 
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Yes but they will make it obvious they like you e.g looking at you regularly, smiling at you, making an excuse to see you/touch you (laughing at your jokes and like putting their hand on your arm) and just overall positive body language.
Don’t cope with the fact just because they don’t approach you means they automatically like you, a woman will make it obvious.
this happened to me the other day at a local cafe i accidentally locked eyes with a chick while waiting for my coffee and she smiled at me and because i have completely lost the plot i fucking turned my head forward until my coffee was ready everyone in my town probably thinks i’m gay atp
 
this happened to me the other day at a local cafe i accidentally locked eyes with a chick while waiting for my coffee and she smiled at me and because i have completely lost the plot i fucking turned my head forward until my coffee was ready everyone in my town probably thinks i’m gay atp
Ngl if she was attractive you have to approach cos your never gonna see her again.
 

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