Jason Voorhees
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Is having strong boundaries. If you act like a little puppy and show weakness then she will lose all respect she has for you.You can be a gentleman, treat her well, keep her happy, and still hold a line.
With my gf it works like this. I am not cold with her. I am not trying to dominate every conversation or punish her everytime there's a disagreement but if she is being disrespectful and crosses a line I don't want her to cross I do not laugh it off and hope it goes away or she forgets. I tell her directly without being abusive and it works 99% of the time. She understands she crossed a boundary and doesn't try it again
A lot of niggas I have seen either have no boundaries at all or they overcorrect and turn the relationship bitter. Kindness without standards is a doormat. Standards without kindness turn you into a asshole. Be pleasant, be generous, be fun, but do not be available for disrespect. Romantic Love is conditional
With my gf it works like this. I am not cold with her. I am not trying to dominate every conversation or punish her everytime there's a disagreement but if she is being disrespectful and crosses a line I don't want her to cross I do not laugh it off and hope it goes away or she forgets. I tell her directly without being abusive and it works 99% of the time. She understands she crossed a boundary and doesn't try it again
A lot of niggas I have seen either have no boundaries at all or they overcorrect and turn the relationship bitter. Kindness without standards is a doormat. Standards without kindness turn you into a asshole. Be pleasant, be generous, be fun, but do not be available for disrespect. Romantic Love is conditional
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